I got nothing for Christmas.

If no one is getting you a gift, what stops you from treating yourself to something?

I went to B&N the other day and they asked if I wanted my purchase gift wrapped and I said 'no, I bought it for me.' LOL

To me (and I assume my family), Christmas, including the gifts, is more of a tradition than a religious thing. Call it what you like, but I don't see it as "buying into consumerist bullshit".

OP, I get that feeling. You don't really "need" any gifts, but getting nothing from anybody never feels good. I agree that you should talk with your mother about it. 1 (or 2) people just forgetting or not buying for whatever reason happens, but everybody? Seems like there may be some underlying details.

I feel ya brother, but to be honest there's probably many many many children who don't get christmas every year of there life's so i mean meh.. bunch of useless junk we forget about anyway and replace with new shit.

LOL

Op,
You did get something this Christmas.

You got LIFE.

There is a 2 year old that lives in Atlanta, Ga. who just got the pieces of his skull glued back together. He has been in the hospital for over a month now fighting for his life. He was a very happy and wonderful little boy.

His only crime was that he was playing under the wrong tree when the tree branch fell and shattered his skull. Even the newscaster cried while reporting the story.

His name is ,Tripp Halstead.
Google him and get on FB and encourage his parents.
This will take the attention off of yourself and you will feel better.
You will also make little Tripp's parents feel good too!

Turn this day around Op.
The computer is not just for receiving.
Use it to give a little something back.

Free gift:
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OP,

I know this probably doesn't mean much coming from someone you don't know but Merry Christmas. God Bless You for giving your all to those boys. God knows what you did. Don't forget that. Someday, they'll understand as well. Meanwhile, take the day off your worries and sorrows tomorrow. Do something you like. You've earned it!

Here's to You!!

I bought myself what I wanted.No relatives that care either so I treat myself because I deserve it.By yourself something you want and enjoy it.

Prayers for Tripp.

Christmas the great con.
To stop you doing what you should be every other day.

Suck it up! Don't be such a puss.

Who cares, family is a waste. People use family as an escape, the only thing that matters is yourself.

I am sorry your kids dont respect you but heres a great big Christmas hug just for you

You are not the only one.The worst thing beside no gift is a gift that shows you how much the person didn't care.I gave birth 5 days ago,my husband got me a $1.99 eyeshadow...If he wanted to tell me that I look like shit 5 days after birth,the least he can spend some $$$ on good cosmetics..O,well...not gonna cry over this.Felt like crap,but at the end,you and only you have yourself

I stopped relying on other people to give me gifts way back. Mainly because they often got me something I didn't like or didn't want. So each year I always go and and get what I want for myself first. No resentment, no worry and I'm completely satisfied. Now I'm at an age where I really don't need or want anything. Go figure. That is other then a good massage. These aching muscles could do with some time in the sauna and rub down.

And just for the record - even though I gave my kids gifts they didn't get me anything either. It is a bit sad when they turn out like that but it's their problem not mine. I don't expect anything from them. You see. Christmas is about loving- not presents. Just hanging out with everyone is the best present ever.

You were given more than nothing.

You were given another day of LIFE to enjoy.

How do you enjoy it?
Answer: Without being possessed with not have possessions.

You are life!
You are energy!
You are love!
And lastly, YOU ARE LOVED!

Enjoy my Friend.

Happy HOLY DAY!

me too im 29 lived in new york my entire life ,never got 1 holiday present ever .never not even in my childhood yrs

so dont worry. this yr i got nothing either

None of my kids thought of me, none of my nieces, nephews, hell, my own mother didn't get me anything. I got hem presents. But I got diddly. Worst. Christmas. Ever.
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No, it's not. Christmas hugs and kisses!

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We don't all have shit families. You obviously do.

Christams is not about gifts... Still, I feel for you, so here is something to cheer you up!

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This thread makes me really sad!

It’s a tragedy how people base “love” on what is or what is not bought for them during the “retailer guilt days of adding to the end of the year bottom line”

I also understand how horrible giving and not receiving feels. But, I have learned over many years to give from the heart and expect nothing in return. It’s all about the joy of giving. If you give a gift, only to expect one in return…..you will most likely end up being disappointed and angry.

In reality, all the material stuff that people buy means nothing. You can’t take it with you and you wouldn’t want to take that crap even if you could.

For those of you who are hurting or suffering because of the way you have been treated, be grateful that you have your health and the money to buy stuff for those ungrateful people.

Just put them on your “naughty" list for next year and don't waste your time, funds and effort, ….unless you want to.

Merry Christmas!

Just get a paper bag, take a shit in it, close it up, leave it under the Christmas tree. Then when your kid opens it up, he'll finally realize Christmas is fucking bullshit.

I would rather have love and warmth from relatives than any old Christmas gift.

I'll. Get the usual PJs.

Hello OP...you know I will also get no material gifts in the morning, I am a single mom with 2 young children:) I did however get gifts for my kids and I am so exited for them I cant even sleep. My greatest gift is to see their faces in the morning opening their presents...that for me is the greatest gift ever. I feel sad for you that you don't feel the same way. I am sending my blessings to you, I hope you get a Christmas miracle...

Sorry.......

OP Tiss the season of Giving, You'll get yours back sevenfold!

welcome to adulthood.

If receiving presents defines your joy at christmas, you might have your priorities wrong.

You are spending christmas with your kids, your nieces, your nephews, your own mother. I wish I could have a christmas like that.