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Are some of us meant to be single for the rest of our lives or atleast during are prime? | |
wisc_natureboy  User ID: 28859998  United States12/26/2012 01:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, be happy now! Soon your future wife will own everything you worked your backside off for! Quoting: John Donson 28607946 Be happy with what? my boring routine of working, coming home alone, eating, watching tv, and sleeping? I want to experience what the rest of the world is doing. Here in lies the rub... I have the same routine you have, but I look at it differently. Happiness does not seem to be finding someone or something, for me its about being thrilled with what I have and where I am. Who knows maybe you will still find life boring and routine if you have a wife, child, or whatever else you feel will help you. Just remember who ever you are with, or where ever you may go... there YOU are. I love being in rush hour, because I have a car. I love being at home, because I have a roof over my head. I love being at my work, because I have a job. this is not a lecture I promise, I am just remembering being where you are and I had to choose to become happy. Love to you Oh I forgot to add what happened after that... I meet tons of people who want to date me, but I no longer find the idea of that appealing. Because there can not possibly be anyone who could add to what I already have. Living in the moment and finding the silver-lining in every supposed misfortune is a most worthy goal and IMO is the basis for the very subjective state of being we call 'happiness'. That however, is where we part company. I find your last statement dire, depressing and, defeatist. "Because there can not possibly be anyone who could add to what I already have." For me, nearly every good experience is augmented when shared with another. Not just because recollection of good experiences is enjoyable, but also the actual experience is often magnified by sharing each other's perception and analysis of said experience. In a nutshell, everything is better when shared. Energy is cumulative. ;-`) We all breathe the same air. .-.. --- ...- . / .- .-.. .-.. |
| Little Drummer User ID: 23833166 United States12/26/2012 03:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7736082 Be happy with what? my boring routine of working, coming home alone, eating, watching tv, and sleeping? I want to experience what the rest of the world is doing. Here in lies the rub... I have the same routine you have, but I look at it differently. Happiness does not seem to be finding someone or something, for me its about being thrilled with what I have and where I am. Who knows maybe you will still find life boring and routine if you have a wife, child, or whatever else you feel will help you. Just remember who ever you are with, or where ever you may go... there YOU are. I love being in rush hour, because I have a car. I love being at home, because I have a roof over my head. I love being at my work, because I have a job. this is not a lecture I promise, I am just remembering being where you are and I had to choose to become happy. Love to you Oh I forgot to add what happened after that... I meet tons of people who want to date me, but I no longer find the idea of that appealing. Because there can not possibly be anyone who could add to what I already have. Living in the moment and finding the silver-lining in every supposed misfortune is a most worthy goal and IMO is the basis for the very subjective state of being we call 'happiness'. That however, is where we part company. I find your last statement dire, depressing and, defeatist. "Because there can not possibly be anyone who could add to what I already have." For me, nearly every good experience is augmented when shared with another. Not just because recollection of good experiences is enjoyable, but also the actual experience is often magnified by sharing each other's perception and analysis of said experience. In a nutshell, everything is better when shared. Energy is cumulative. ;-`) I do agree with this as well, when I say adding to what I already have, I am filled with family and friends. I do live alone and spend days at a time alone if I am not at work. having a relationship beyond the ones I already have is not needed for now. I stay open to what ever the future brings but I have been alone along time and love it for the moment. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 30892358 United States12/26/2012 04:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | lol no its being an idiot never looked at a computer in like twenties or thirties cause of tail to get and thijngs to do your type is the write on boards ib ur prime and cry and worry lol crap ass dolt thrpow yourself into the fray and have brats all over the place aq nd get off the stupoid net it is for the old that have already had kids and a life |
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| blackstar User ID: 30570825 United States12/26/2012 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 37...but I'm happy I swear! I love men, but I love doing what i want when I want. But I think its probably cause I don't live in one city all the time... everyone says to do computer dating but Im afraid Ill find one |
| wisc_natureboy User ID: 28859998 United States12/26/2012 09:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 37...but I'm happy I swear! I love men, but I love doing what i want when I want. But I think its probably cause I don't live in one city all the time... everyone says to do computer dating but Im afraid Ill find one Quoting: blackstar Let me know the next time you are close to Wisconsin, I'd be happy to show you a good time. ;-`) We all breathe the same air. .-.. --- ...- . / .- .-.. .-.. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7138989 United States12/26/2012 09:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It used to be when family and agriculture was life but now we live within these concrete jungle, seperating us from our Origin. We are all strangers to each other. WE just get tossed around we seperate from each other. |
| blackstar User ID: 30570825 United States12/26/2012 11:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 37...but I'm happy I swear! I love men, but I love doing what i want when I want. But I think its probably cause I don't live in one city all the time... everyone says to do computer dating but Im afraid Ill find one Quoting: blackstar Let me know the next time you are close to Wisconsin, I'd be happy to show you a good time. ;-`) now we are talking! |
| wisc_natureboy User ID: 28859998 United States12/26/2012 11:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 37...but I'm happy I swear! I love men, but I love doing what i want when I want. But I think its probably cause I don't live in one city all the time... everyone says to do computer dating but Im afraid Ill find one Quoting: blackstar Let me know the next time you are close to Wisconsin, I'd be happy to show you a good time. ;-`) now we are talking! My e-mail is on my profile. ;-`) We all breathe the same air. .-.. --- ...- . / .- .-.. .-.. |
