i want to get married

Marriage is one of the best decisions in my life....dedication to one person is amazing when the feeling is reciprocated. Challenges are a given...face them together.

NICE

How's that workin out for ya? Married yet?

that's half the reason divorce rates are so high. It isnt about the wedding, the dress, the jewelry, etc. It isnt about cramming hundreds of people you barely know into a church and counting the cash you haul in the next day. Yes, they all want fairy tale weddings, but do even half of them want a lifetime of monogamy, compromise and everything else a MARRIAGE entails?? We raise girls to have a very unrealistic view of life in the real world.
I did not havea wedding - I had a small and intimate gathering of only the closest family and friends, walked down the aisle to my favorite song, in a dress i made, holding flowers I made, and not caring one whit about any of it - so long as my sweetheart was waiting for me!

I will say to ttown girl - dont listen to any on here that go on about the futility of marriage, the pointlessness of it, the ones telling you to stay single and enjoy it. Might work for a few, but in reality a life spent alone is hollow. A life spent working on a friendship with a partner is rewarding if you choose well. Dont look for mr handsome, mr rich, look for someone that you know you can be comfortable with, whose priorities and beliefs are along similar lines to your own. Work hard at it every day, and reap the rewards when they are there. There are emotional, financial and even health benefits to being married. it takes work, but if you are eager to put in the time and effort, you will have gained something you will treasure for the rest of your life.

Might I suggest a lifer in prison?

not all men avoid another mans children. I have two precious children form a previous marriage. My husband met them and fell in love. It may not be for every man, but they do exist. My husband always wanted to have a family, he always wanted to be a father, and he doesnt care that he is their step-dad and not their biological father.

cant you form like a bond or something like that? wich is legaly the same as marriage?

That is for sure!

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