Helping out needy families with gently used clothing and toys. Do you need help or can you offer help?

Good for you! I'm sure those families are very appreciative. Now back to helping those still in need!

I was thinking...The Only A Dollar & Only 15 Dollar stores are a good way to also get personal/hygene items...And small little gifts to be put into boxes being mailed out...It would just be something small too show someone cares...And give the boxes a more warm personal touch

Natasha, you make me smile all the time! I might can come up with some of those sandals you are asking about....my daughter has the same size foot and she might have some gently used sexy sandals she does not use. I will check asap. Happy Holidays...

I think that's a great idea!

TY...I greatly enjoy doing things like this...I use to cook and deliver meals for the homeless every week...It just became too much for one person after everyone quit :(

I didn't know if she was serious :)

But I gotz some really wild shoes that need homes!

I didn't know if she was serious :)

But I gotz some really wild shoes that need homes!

How wonderful! I realize it doesn't seem an emergency but I am looking for work and I live in Florida so I can use them year round.
Pm me and maybe i can figure out how to pay for shipping.

I can definitely do this. At M.D. Anderson Cancer ctr this is what alot of the volunteers do....we have basically lived there for for over a year going through cancer treatments and Stem Cell transplants (same thing Robin Roberts is going through) and you tend to find that your money is quickly eaten up by exorbitant parking fees, (even if you pay up front for a month at a time) and food and the little things you need as in personal hygiene items.
I think this is a great idea. I cannot stress how thankful we are when we go there and they have people there so happy to offer to share what they have on hand. Put my name in the hat to help with this one. Blessings to all!

OMG my lucky day!!!!!
Can you pm me?
Thanks

This is wonderful!

First of all, helping others is noble, but the problem is in determining what kind of people they are . . . are they decent, clean, hard-working? Do they smoke? Do drugs? Drink alcohol? Are they reckless and promiscuous? Will they take any money given to them and use it on cigarettes, drugs, or alcohol?

The ONLY way I would help someone is if they are genuinely down on their luck, dealing with adverse situations through no fault of their own and just need someone to give them a boost with NO expectation of repayment . . . pay it forward.

But I will not help someone who is stupid and reckless and selfish.

As for people who cannot afford to give their kids even one present, did it ever occur to any of you people here that you are condoning that kind of thing? These idiots will continue to breed, knowing full well they can't take of their kids - because SOMEONE ELSE WILL. Yes, it's sad and terrible for the children, but the problem has to start being addressed at the core - which is that some people should NEVER be allowed to breed.

America is a shameful nation for rewarding breeders, for allowing women to pop out one kid after another and then let them mooch off taxpayers.

NO ONE NEEDS MORE THAN ONE CHILD. America must adopt a one-child policy by taxing and legally penalizing anyone having more than one baby.

I understand what you are saying...It is sad but true there are families that do this...All one can do is hope that anything sent out goes too those that are in need...But the children of these familes are suffering through no fault of their own...They did not ask for this type of life...Maybe...just maybe one of the packages could be the saving grace for them...If just one child is given hope...That child can use the hope to get out of that life style and break the cycle...I will do this for that one child!

Last year I helped someone who was not married, had no children, but was down on his/her luck. (I do know the gender of this person.) I never met him/her....still haven't. I did it all by long distance. I did not send money for the reasons you mentioned... because I didn't know this person... but I did send about $1500 worth of new merchandise and food.

I believe it was much appreciated, and I was so happy to do it. I'm glad to know that this person now has a new outlook on life.

You're correct that sometimes you just don't know. I believed this certain person was sincere, and it turned out I was right. He/she just lost their way. You just have to take that chance to help someone, and it might make a big difference in a life. I'm so glad I did it.

I stopped giving to some charities because I have no idea where the money is going. Some of these charities have employees who make a six figure salary. I would rather spend my money on a person or families in need.

Last Edited by nutmeg on 12/28/2012 01:04 PM

I have a size 12 black and red totes snow boots, they were my sons but a girl could wear them.

My email is [email protected]


I am on Long Island/NY for anyone else that needs help locally.


Thanks MartianPrincess for starting this thread

Wow, you must be a very special person. What must it be like to be so perfect ???

Seriously, someone doesn't deserve help if they smoke or drink alcohol? Promiscuous? What does that mean, sex outside of marriage? Does that mean they don't deserve help?

Rewarding "breeders" Whoa, now what, abortion is better than birth? "NO ONE NEEDS MORE THAN ONE CHILD" You seriously didn't just write that!

Your post just kept getting better! "America must adopt a one-child policy" "tax and legally penalize anyone having more than one baby" ???

You are a fucking scary person! Hey I have an idea, move to China, you would be right at home there.

I have girls clothes size 6 and 7, coats and toys I will try and go through her stuff tomorrow, if you leave me your address or something I can send it to you... just let me know

This is an awesome thread MP!

I am a clothing, purse and shoe whore (not gonna lie), and I need to let stuff go, i havent wanted to take it goodwill cuz clothing and shoes and purses are so nice, so i just keep hoping i can find a good home for them. Maybe this is the answer!

^^^THIS^^^ This act is meant to inspire not just the parents, but especially the children. I believe in planting a seed of kindness if you expect children to grow up and be kind. Period.
I understand your point of view and respectfully disagree - I believe little ones are innocent and a blessing. FYI None of the parents who have contacted me have more than 2-3 kids and not one of those parents has asked for a single thing for themselves.

Sad that you only see the dark side of humanity. We are a race capable of truly beautiful deeds.

Know what you mean, I'd rather see my loved things go to an appreciating person rather than sell them on eBay!

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Hallo.
I would like to know if you could send things or toys
to other countries, thanke you.
[email protected]

Hey old friend! I miss ya!

Same here, although I haven't been able to buy myself a lot last year or 2, I have enough and I can't complain. I'm letting go of a lot of stuff and kids stuff, toys that we simply don't need. Like another poster noted, I'm a bit weary of donating to large organizations who have to pay staff, etc.
I'm a proud Texan but my state boundary line doesn't keep me from extending help to those beyond it.
I think your awesome stuff can find a happy home for sure!



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My kids grew up with used toys and clothes. They wore used clothing until they were in their teens. I bought clothes and shoes for myself at thrift shops, too, until we could afford the new. It was great!

Last Edited by nutmeg on 12/27/2012 09:10 PM

Word of caution. There will always be non-needy people with a hand out looking to re-sell these clothing. I heard some stories here in Coney Island of people looking for new w/ tag items only after many of my neighbors donated clothing for a clothing drive after Hurricane Sandy hit. Give them to people you know. You'd be surprised how many poor people have XBox, PS3, big screen tv's, etc. I find it's the working poor that struggle the most and the just under middle class. I speak from experience as I grew up poor in the projects - trust me, we did well for poor people and could have done better if the money was not spent on liquor, drugs and lottery.

I have some boys 3T and 4T items and little girls size 5-6 items. I have to look to be sure, but I'm almost positive I have a boys 3T winter coat with snow pants and boots (have to check the size, maybe 8T). Let me know if you know of anybody who needs them.
I could also go through my husbands stuff and thin his closet out.. size XL. I would do the same with mine, but I lost a lot of weight and hardly have anything.
Just send me a PM and let me know. I'm in Northern VA or I could mail it.. if it fits it ships, right ;)

If you know of anybody this way, I have a brand new microwave that nobody will take as a donation.

Ok then....I have been reading this thread and even though we are all constantly being hit up for donations to this or that for some reason your plea has reached me.

Maybe it's cause you are in Texas! I'm in Dallas....

Don't know if you are in this area but if so and you need any "local" type help just let me know.

As far as filling needs let me know what you need and let me see what I can do to make it happen.....yes, it's as simple as that!

Thanks for caring!

Honestly, really, listen up.

Some have piped in with some terrible comments here.

First of all, I do not believe anyone is going to ask for items in order to "resell" them.
Second of all, things are tough for many, even the ones offering like me, most likely are having a hard time financially. This is an act of generosity, because quite frankly, it feels very good to give to those less fortunate.

Please, don't take the pleasure out of this thread by bringing up peoples motives.

The only motivation here is to help even just one person.

I wholeheartedly believe those taking part in this thread.
Most of us have the desire to help as well as the need to ask for help.

Thank you.

me also! Go local!! Why ship? Thrift stores are the best! $3 for a dress. Give local. People in need will find the $3 dresses and much more!