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Just discovered my 15 is gay?!

 
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Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
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12/26/2012 07:05 PM
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Let him come to you. It's tough enough being 15.
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12/26/2012 07:08 PM
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try to be a good example let him see you do wholesome things like make tea read books meditate
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First, don´t snoop around in his messages! Now, if he likes boys, whatever. As long as he´s in a responsible and happy relationship with whomever he was talking with on fb, let him be. He´ll tell you about it when he´s ready. As it was already said by a poster above me, being 15 is hard enough as it is. Don´t screw up your son by being an ass about him being (maybe) gay!
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WE can FIX him back!!!....trust the religion-tards!!!

nnnnnoooootttttt

LET HIM BE!!! it is you that needs to be fixed! Accept it and embrace it!
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12/26/2012 07:11 PM
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Someone made him gay you might want to look in to that possibly the government made him gay.
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12/26/2012 07:13 PM
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let it be mate.

Everybody will be much happier in the end.

And at the present.
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First, don´t snoop around in his messages! Now, if he likes boys, whatever. As long as he´s in a responsible and happy relationship with whomever he was talking with on fb, let him be. He´ll tell you about it when he´s ready. As it was already said by a poster above me, being 15 is hard enough as it is. Don´t screw up your son by being an ass about him being (maybe) gay!
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If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son.
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12/26/2012 07:17 PM
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
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Lol, that must really "suck".
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First, don´t snoop around in his messages! Now, if he likes boys, whatever. As long as he´s in a responsible and happy relationship with whomever he was talking with on fb, let him be. He´ll tell you about it when he´s ready. As it was already said by a poster above me, being 15 is hard enough as it is. Don´t screw up your son by being an ass about him being (maybe) gay!
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If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son.
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That's happened to many young people. They commit suicide. Smart human you are. Crawl back into your single wide.
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12/26/2012 07:24 PM
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
Teach him how to give the best blow job ever.

And he will thank you for ever!
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
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dis-owned
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12/26/2012 07:27 PM
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Tell him to repent.


He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
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So what pisses you off more; the fact you think he's gay, or that he's having explicit conversations over FB that have led to meetings in the park?

Advice you asked for so here it is....

Do NOT condemn your kid for supposedly being "gay." That alone will start WWIII in the mind of a 15 yr old and could possibly make him feel unaccepted by you. We ALL know what can happen when teens feel this way!

IF you feel the need to snoop on your kid's FB conversations, you must feel he needs to be gawked upon. If this is the case, and he is untrustworthy, remove his computer after you approach him with your VALID reason for not trusting him.

If you can deal with your son's sexuality, great. Let him come to you, instead of you emotionally beating him down for it without even intending to do so. If you can't deal with it, you may lose him in many ways. One being he will hate you for your judgment instead of support. Worse would be what we all know can happen when teens feel unaccepted by their parents and peers...hint hint.
SMILE...you're not as stupid as they think you are!

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As long as he still loves and respects YOU, that's all that really matters. Everything else is trivial
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So what pisses you off more; the fact you think he's gay, or that he's having explicit conversations over FB that have led to meetings in the park?

Advice you asked for so here it is....

Do NOT condemn your kid for supposedly being "gay." That alone will start WWIII in the mind of a 15 yr old and could possibly make him feel unaccepted by you. We ALL know what can happen when teens feel this way!

IF you feel the need to snoop on your kid's FB conversations, you must feel he needs to be gawked upon. If this is the case, and he is untrustworthy, remove his computer after you approach him with your VALID reason for not trusting him.

If you can deal with your son's sexuality, great. Let him come to you, instead of you emotionally beating him down for it without even intending to do so. If you can't deal with it, you may lose him in many ways. One being he will hate you for your judgment instead of support. Worse would be what we all know can happen when teens feel unaccepted by their parents and peers...hint hint.
 Quoting: Doomalicious


Weellll, the sandy hook shooter had a girlfriend sooo, yea, probably not much to worry about if he's gay. Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids )
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
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Love him the way he is!
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Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids )
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Is that an honest question, or are you just stupid.
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12/26/2012 07:33 PM
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Dear OP,
I understand your concern. Ideally, it would be best if your son felt comfortable enough to bring home anyone he might be romantically interested in. You know, just bring them by the house, nothing formal. Or even just more normal dates, instead of meeting secretly in the park.

But perhaps he's still not sure and is exploring his sexuality before telling you for sure. And hopefully if he discovers he is gay, you two have a close enough relationship that he could tell you. I say this because I know the entire gay scene is somewhat challenging from talking with my gay friends, especially for males. There are a lot of predators out there: mostly at truck stops and parks. And it can be hard for them to find other good, monogomous gay males to date throughout daily life, though I hear it's gotten better.

And also, it could be nothing at all. But I might try and drop hints now and then that being gay isn't something he needs to worry about with you.

Good luck Op!
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Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids )
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Is that an honest question, or are you just stupid.
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Yea that's serious asscrack, name some openly gay mass murderers
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If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son.
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That's happened to many young people. They commit suicide. Smart human you are. Crawl back into your single wide.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19490298


What good is it to have a son, that doesn't even have the honour to raise children himself. He is worthless, unless he comes back to being normal.
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Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids )
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Is that an honest question, or are you just stupid.
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Yea that's serious asscrack, name some openly gay mass murderers
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So what pisses you off more; the fact you think he's gay, or that he's having explicit conversations over FB that have led to meetings in the park?

Advice you asked for so here it is....

Do NOT condemn your kid for supposedly being "gay." That alone will start WWIII in the mind of a 15 yr old and could possibly make him feel unaccepted by you. We ALL know what can happen when teens feel this way!

IF you feel the need to snoop on your kid's FB conversations, you must feel he needs to be gawked upon. If this is the case, and he is untrustworthy, remove his computer after you approach him with your VALID reason for not trusting him.

If you can deal with your son's sexuality, great. Let him come to you, instead of you emotionally beating him down for it without even intending to do so. If you can't deal with it, you may lose him in many ways. One being he will hate you for your judgment instead of support. Worse would be what we all know can happen when teens feel unaccepted by their parents and peers...hint hint.
 Quoting: Doomalicious


Weellll, the sandy hook shooter had a girlfriend sooo, yea, probably not much to worry about if he's gay. Besides, who ever heard of a gay mass murderer? (other than gays with aids )
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18707392


Who the hell said her kid will take out a school Capt Genius? When 15 yr old kids feel unaccepted, they often may hurt themselves.
SMILE...you're not as stupid as they think you are!

"Once a government is committed to the principal of silencing the voice of opposition, it has only one way to go and that is down the path of increasingly repressive measures, until it becomes a source of terror to all its citizens and creates a country where everyone lives in terror" - Harry S Truman

"The single most inspiring source for us is the human struggle." Jared Leto

“Money, without brains, always is dangerous. Properly used, it is the most important essential of civilization.” - Napoleon Hill

“Failures see the hole in the donut, but do not see the donut around the hole.” - Napoleon Hill

“One of the great mistakes is to judge policies and programs by their intentions rather than their results.” ― Milton Friedman

Every man has a right to utter what he thinks is truth, and every other man has a right to knock him down for it. - Samuel Johnson
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
a 15 y/o can't possibly have had enough life experience to
decide for himself he is a fag.

He's most likely:

1) Lonely
2) Traumatized in some way
3) Lack of direction or opportunity in heterosexal dating
4) Been given some drugs by other fags
5) Been molested by someone (maybe an uncle or other relative)

6) Ignored by Dad
7) Punished for imagined sex acts with girlfreind and compensated by drugs with a fag

8) Combination of other 7 items

~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I'm not gay by any means.....but if my mom and dad had cared about my personal developement and other HS trauma's I might not have gotten involved with some druggies that wanted to slip me some stoner stuff so they could bone me.

Hey.....it happens.....sorry to say.....that is one thing about being a teenager these days.....drugs and horniness and acceptance of gays........it makes it all that easy to get lurred into that lifestyle even if you really didn't want to be in it.

I can't "live that down"...........it's not something I'm proud of......it happened......and I think it happens to allot more teenager than they would admit too......

The key is...I didn't identify myself as a fag.....i knew it was wrong and when I had gotten off the drugs.....I distanced myself from the drug user faggots and never looked back.....

Fagotry is a disease of the mind, body and soul.....but it doesn't have to be condonned.......but understood and dealt with for the disgusting abomination that it is......

I think......"loving" your son by accepting that he is a Gay would be the biggest mistake you could make.......

Gay doesn't mean happy.........it means a lifetime (a shortened one at that ) of misery.
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Nature's way of Controlling Populations
Winners Always Win
losers always lose
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Give him some reading material about fecal bacteria.
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Dude, just let him be. There is nothing wrong with being gay. If you feel you need to do something, just have the talk with him about safe sex, without letting him know you read his messages.
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If the OP was serious, he would have said that he loved his son and didn't know what to do. No mention of love = Troll.
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
yeah seriously, best thing is to be as accepting as you can, then you can steer him into manogamy rather than casual relationships
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