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Just discovered my 15 is gay?!

 
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TROLL...PERIOD.

He is is probably Gay Himself and wants conversations with younger boys. T to the R to the O-O-L Girlfriends!
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
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you want to get out there and kick his ass before some guy starts fucking it

take him out to a strip club get him laid with some fit blonde big tit escort or something

you can save him before he ends up on the dark side

just think

hiv

aids

sucking dicks

hes fucked for life if you leave him to carry on with this life

save him before its too late
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He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
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I had my son tell me at age 15 too, he just walked in my room and told me. I was fine with him being gay - it explained a lot, but I was really bothered when I found out a while later he'd already done things with another guy from school. Straight or gay, 15 is too young for sex. I had a long talk with him about it and as far as I know he hasn't done anything else. You have to talk to him and just tell him you know, don't be confrontational or he won't open up, just let him do the talking. At that age kids really just want to be understood by their parents.
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If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son.
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That's happened to many young people. They commit suicide. Smart human you are. Crawl back into your single wide.
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What good is it to have a son, that doesn't even have the honour to raise children himself. He is worthless, unless he comes back to being normal.
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How totally fucked up are you bro? wtf
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If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son.
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That's happened to many young people. They commit suicide. Smart human you are. Crawl back into your single wide.
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What good is it to have a son, that doesn't even have the honour to raise children himself. He is worthless, unless he comes back to being normal.
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How totally fucked up are you bro? wtf
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stop feeding the trolls, hes just some fat crippled trailer trash trying to get kicks by pissing you off. thats what a troll is
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If the son is gay, OP wont have grandkids. I would dishonour my son.
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That's happened to many young people. They commit suicide. Smart human you are. Crawl back into your single wide.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19490298


What good is it to have a son, that doesn't even have the honour to raise children himself. He is worthless, unless he comes back to being normal.
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If the OP was serious, he would have said that he loved his son and didn't know what to do. No mention of love = Troll.
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2354988


I had my son tell me at age 15 too, he just walked in my room and told me. I was fine with him being gay - it explained a lot, but I was really bothered when I found out a while later he'd already done things with another guy from school. Straight or gay, 15 is too young for sex. I had a long talk with him about it and as far as I know he hasn't done anything else. You have to talk to him and just tell him you know, don't be confrontational or he won't open up, just let him do the talking. At that age kids really just want to be understood by their parents.
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turning your kids into fags should be illegal
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
Whatever you do, raise him to be a man and to have a sense of decency.

There are gays and there are queers. The gays are the well adjusted kind that behave normally except for them wanting to stick it up other gays' arses. Not my cup of tea, but eh, whatever tickles their fancy. You wouldn't usually notice that they were gay except if they explicitly state so and they do not encounter any problems when it comes to social integration.

Now, the queers are the bad ones. Effeminate, AIDS ridden scum that prances around on parades wearing revealing flamingo suits and pops ecstasy like bonbons.

Don't let him become a queer. Sexuality should be a private matter between two (or more) individuals. What queers don't know know is that you can be true to yourself and preserve your integrity without being overly vocal about where you stick your pecker.
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He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
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Really. Hmmmm.....

Don't worry about it, he was born that way.

Be supportive, don't fall into the trap of calling him a sinner or evil.

freeyourmind5

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First, don´t snoop around in his messages! Now, if he likes boys, whatever. As long as he´s in a responsible and happy relationship with whomever he was talking with on fb, let him be. He´ll tell you about it when he´s ready. As it was already said by a poster above me, being 15 is hard enough as it is. Don´t screw up your son by being an ass about him being (maybe) gay!
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Being 15 is hard? I'm 15... I take courses at Harvard extension school and wagner college, school is easy so I need to, I get college creds as a bonus.

How is being 15 hard? After I finish my easy mode school work, I get to lounge around doing whatever I want. I usually study japanese and sometimes physics in my spare time since I have nothing to do. Maybe the 15 year olds you know are just stupid?
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Let him grow out of it. Many do. Don't say a thing. You WILL Regret for life. You Know, Like after he is marred with kids of his own.
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First, don´t snoop around in his messages! Now, if he likes boys, whatever. As long as he´s in a responsible and happy relationship with whomever he was talking with on fb, let him be. He´ll tell you about it when he´s ready. As it was already said by a poster above me, being 15 is hard enough as it is. Don´t screw up your son by being an ass about him being (maybe) gay!
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Being 15 is hard? I'm 15... I take courses at Harvard extension school and wagner college, school is easy so I need to, I get college creds as a bonus.

How is being 15 hard? After I finish my easy mode school work, I get to lounge around doing whatever I want. I usually study japanese and sometimes physics in my spare time since I have nothing to do. Maybe the 15 year olds you know are just stupid?
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Also I wouldn't care if my parents looked at my messages... since I have nothing to hide.
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First, don´t snoop around in his messages! Now, if he likes boys, whatever. As long as he´s in a responsible and happy relationship with whomever he was talking with on fb, let him be. He´ll tell you about it when he´s ready. As it was already said by a poster above me, being 15 is hard enough as it is. Don´t screw up your son by being an ass about him being (maybe) gay!
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Being 15 is hard? I'm 15... I take courses at Harvard extension school and wagner college, school is easy so I need to, I get college creds as a bonus.

How is being 15 hard? After I finish my easy mode school work, I get to lounge around doing whatever I want. I usually study japanese and sometimes physics in my spare time since I have nothing to do. Maybe the 15 year olds you know are just stupid?
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From 15 to 30 your terminally hard. Intermittent up to 50. Blue pills afterwards.
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Whether he's gay or not, he's still your son. He's still the same person he always was - all that's changed is one of your assumptions about him.

It truly doesn't matter what gender he prefers; what matters is whether he grows up to be a good, honest, hard-working man. Whether his relationships are male or female, what matters is that they are also good, honest people who love and respect your son for who he is.

You want him to be happy, healthy, and a good man living his own life. That's what matters.
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First of all I am his mother the being gay is not the major concern it's the total disrespect for himself and others that is of major concern. These messages were downright filthy!! Beyond comprehension I am still in shock I would be equally as pissed if he was talking and behaving that way with girls which he was too. He clearly is living a double life and is unhappy I talked with him he seems really confused and ashamed I just want to help him. He is going down the wrong path.
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OP posts and RUNS ???

Some fag, trolling for 'straights' to tangle with, and 'prove' just how smart he is, especially to his faggot friends !
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First of all I am his mother the being gay is not the major concern it's the total disrespect for himself and others that is of major concern. These messages were downright filthy!! Beyond comprehension I am still in shock I would be equally as pissed if he was talking and behaving that way with girls which he was too. He clearly is living a double life and is unhappy I talked with him he seems really confused and ashamed I just want to help him. He is going down the wrong path.
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...

Maybe you just aren't hip with the times.

...and yes, it IS our turn to say that.
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Get competent professional culturally relevant counseling for both of you if there are conflicts. Unconditional acceptance is a must.
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That was totally tame.


OP needs more cowbell (aka Trollbell).
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Dear OP,
I understand your concern. Ideally, it would be best if your son felt comfortable enough to bring home anyone he might be romantically interested in. You know, just bring them by the house, nothing formal. Or even just more normal dates, instead of meeting secretly in the park.

But perhaps he's still not sure and is exploring his sexuality before telling you for sure. And hopefully if he discovers he is gay, you two have a close enough relationship that he could tell you. I say this because I know the entire gay scene is somewhat challenging from talking with my gay friends, especially for males. There are a lot of predators out there: mostly at truck stops and parks. And it can be hard for them to find other good, monogomous gay males to date throughout daily life, though I hear it's gotten better.

And also, it could be nothing at all. But I might try and drop hints now and then that being gay isn't something he needs to worry about with you.

Good luck Op!
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Yeah. First thought would be about his safety, physical and emotional.
Give yourself time to accept some 'what if's' if he is in more than just a sexual experimental stage (like the pyromania of age 13).
A boy needs his private escapades as long as he is safe (apart from his mom), and for that he needs to trust your judgement and maybe you personally might pay a visit to his guidance counselor alone about the best way to proceed.
I would be honest with him about finding his FB page (accident?) parents screw up too.
If you are honest and respect his needs for privacy while he respects your need and responsibility to protect him from harm..you will likely have a long and trusting bond.
That in itself will make him safer rather than being more secretive even if he gets himself into trouble..and then we know what happens to kids who have nowhere to turn.

Where my son to come to me with this news, or were I to find out my first thought would be how can I increase our trust and his safety.

Good luck, mom. Be cool.cool2
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You're a bad parent for reading through his messages.
Anyways, maybe this is just a phase?
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12/26/2012 09:15 PM
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How is that bad? I bought the computer I pay the bills I pay for his iPhone. He left it up while an open chat was going on.
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He is still a minor that I am responsible for if he was a grown man it would be a different story.
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Re: Just discovered my 15 is gay?!
a 15 y/o can't possibly have had enough life experience to
decide for himself he is a fag.

He's most likely:

1) Lonely
2) Traumatized in some way
3) Lack of direction or opportunity in heterosexal dating
4) Been given some drugs by other fags
5) Been molested by someone (maybe an uncle or other relative)

6) Ignored by Dad
7) Punished for imagined sex acts with girlfreind and compensated by drugs with a fag

8) Combination of other 7 items

~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I'm not gay by any means.....but if my mom and dad had cared about my personal developement and other HS trauma's I might not have gotten involved with some druggies that wanted to slip me some stoner stuff so they could bone me.

Hey.....it happens.....sorry to say.....that is one thing about being a teenager these days.....drugs and horniness and acceptance of gays........it makes it all that easy to get lurred into that lifestyle even if you really didn't want to be in it.

I can't "live that down"...........it's not something I'm proud of......it happened......and I think it happens to allot more teenager than they would admit too......

The key is...I didn't identify myself as a fag.....i knew it was wrong and when I had gotten off the drugs.....I distanced myself from the drug user faggots and never looked back.....

Fagotry is a disease of the mind, body and soul.....but it doesn't have to be condonned.......but understood and dealt with for the disgusting abomination that it is......

I think......"loving" your son by accepting that he is a Gay would be the biggest mistake you could make.......

Gay doesn't mean happy.........it means a lifetime (a shortened one at that ) of misery.
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Dear OP, this is the most accurate info here.
Pay attention, and if you're a baby-boomer, wake the fuck up and realize life isn't like you lived it.

If you are not a baby-boomer, wake up and stop being a passive parent.

Communicate.
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First, don´t snoop around in his messages! Now, if he likes boys, whatever. As long as he´s in a responsible and happy relationship with whomever he was talking with on fb, let him be. He´ll tell you about it when he´s ready. As it was already said by a poster above me, being 15 is hard enough as it is. Don´t screw up your son by being an ass about him being (maybe) gay!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30893241


Being 15 is hard? I'm 15... I take courses at Harvard extension school and wagner college, school is easy so I need to, I get college creds as a bonus.

How is being 15 hard? After I finish my easy mode school work, I get to lounge around doing whatever I want. I usually study japanese and sometimes physics in my spare time since I have nothing to do. Maybe the 15 year olds you know are just stupid?
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Sure ya do.
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First of all I am his mother the being gay is not the major concern it's the total disrespect for himself and others that is of major concern. These messages were downright filthy!! Beyond comprehension I am still in shock I would be equally as pissed if he was talking and behaving that way with girls which he was too. He clearly is living a double life and is unhappy I talked with him he seems really confused and ashamed I just want to help him. He is going down the wrong path.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2354988


At the risk of sounding like a condescending parent to the 15 yr olds that have arrived,
what you say about the filthy words, etc., is something that usually passes on it's own, gross and shocking as they are likely will dissipate.
A friend of mind who turned out to the best mom I've ever seen taught HS freshmen of approx 15 and she said she felt badly for them because they were so horny she wanted to let them run like the banshees they are (of course she didn't do that but she did comprehend and empathize with their reality)and then she laughed about it.

From what I recall of my own early teens and then my boys, "a double life" implies conscious deliberateness when in fact it is just nature's insane call on their hormones.
They do and say daffy gross things, which pass.

So I'll bet your son's stunned state is nothing more than supreme embarrassment and confusion about his own actions.
My vote, love him, hug him and let life resume and his chagrin subside.
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First of all I am his mother the being gay is not the major concern it's the total disrespect for himself and others that is of major concern. These messages were downright filthy!! Beyond comprehension I am still in shock I would be equally as pissed if he was talking and behaving that way with girls which he was too. He clearly is living a double life and is unhappy I talked with him he seems really confused and ashamed I just want to help him. He is going down the wrong path.
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Too late GLP...
abomb

Do tell Mom... just "how" dirty was it really?
Was it like: A2M speak? :sfan:

Or worse?
scared
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He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2354988


looool another young man.

First of all you can't stop how he feels. Second, so what. He'll be fine.

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