Just discovered my 15 is gay?!

try to be a good example let him see you do wholesome things like make tea read books meditate

Smell his finger!

It was raunchy including props, multiple partners and other things. I have finally calmed down I am familiar with many things this was new. I grew up in the 90's and we were experimental but weren't grotesque there was still some chivalry and respect. Is this how kids behave these days?

Yea that's serious asscrack, name some openly gay mass murderers

He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!

What good is it to have a son, that doesn't even have the honour to raise children himself. He is worthless, unless he comes back to being normal.

Jeffery Dahmer.

I know everyone has their opinion, but here is mine.

I personally believe that people are people, and really shouldn't be judged by anything, especially their sexual orientation, I think it was kind of wrong of you to go through his messages, but what is done is done.

I'd suggest not bringing it up until he comes to you and is ready. At that point, maybe you can say that you knew because of reading his messages a long time ago, but he may be offended by that.. or relieved.

There is nothing wrong with being gay, as long as he's happy you should be happy c:

a 15 y/o can't possibly have had enough life experience to
decide for himself he is a fag.

He's most likely:

1) Lonely
2) Traumatized in some way
3) Lack of direction or opportunity in heterosexal dating
4) Been given some drugs by other fags
5) Been molested by someone (maybe an uncle or other relative)

6) Ignored by Dad
7) Punished for imagined sex acts with girlfreind and compensated by drugs with a fag

8) Combination of other 7 items

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I'm not gay by any means.....but if my mom and dad had cared about my personal developement and other HS trauma's I might not have gotten involved with some druggies that wanted to slip me some stoner stuff so they could bone me.

Hey.....it happens.....sorry to say.....that is one thing about being a teenager these days.....drugs and horniness and acceptance of gays........it makes it all that easy to get lurred into that lifestyle even if you really didn't want to be in it.

I can't "live that down"...........it's not something I'm proud of......it happened......and I think it happens to allot more teenager than they would admit too......

The key is...I didn't identify myself as a fag.....i knew it was wrong and when I had gotten off the drugs.....I distanced myself from the drug user faggots and never looked back.....

Fagotry is a disease of the mind, body and soul.....but it doesn't have to be condonned.......but understood and dealt with for the disgusting abomination that it is......

I think......"loving" your son by accepting that he is a Gay would be the biggest mistake you could make.......

Gay doesn't mean happy.........it means a lifetime (a shortened one at that ) of misery.

Yes, kids these days are so desensitized to sex that they feel the need to go a little overboard. Gay, straight, doesn't matter. This generation is a bunch of freaks.

My 2 cents:

- Stop snooping around behind your kids back. Its weak parenting, and not a great example for him.
- Don't directly control his choices, you'll only get pushed away. Teach, suggest, relate, etc. He'll make the right choices on his own. Only interfere if he becomes a danger to himself or others.
- Love your kid for what he is, no matter what that may be. If you can't handle that, maybe he can teach you something.

Dear OP, this is the most accurate info here.
Pay attention, and if you're a baby-boomer, wake the fuck up and realize life isn't like you lived it.

If you are not a baby-boomer, wake up and stop being a passive parent.

Communicate.

Dear OP, this is the most accurate info here.
Pay attention, and if you're a baby-boomer, wake the fuck up and realize life isn't like you lived it.

If you are not a baby-boomer, wake up and stop being a passive parent.

Communicate.

I'm gay & I can tell you it wasn't a choice.
Your son will find his way. Love him for who he is.
The park sex needs to be addressed. It's a dangerous place out there. Make sure he's armed with all the facts. Feel free to contact me through email if you have GAY questions.

Yea that's serious asscrack, name some openly gay mass murderers

He left his Facebook up and so I started to read through his messages. That's when it all went south he was having a sexually graphic conversation with another young man..later I read about there secret meetings at the park where my son likes to run. I am at a loss I just don't want him getting into a sexual relationship with anyone, the gay part is shocking...idk any advice?!

Maybe you should have been a better parent and you son wouldn't have turned into a faggot.

cut off his dick