Whatever you do, raise him to be a man and to have a sense of decency.

There are gays and there are queers. The gays are the well adjusted kind that behave normally except for them wanting to stick it up other gays' arses. Not my cup of tea, but eh, whatever tickles their fancy. You wouldn't usually notice that they were gay except if they explicitly state so and they do not encounter any problems when it comes to social integration.

Now, the queers are the bad ones. Effeminate, AIDS ridden scum that prances around on parades wearing revealing flamingo suits and pops ecstasy like bonbons.

Don't let him become a queer. Sexuality should be a private matter between two (or more) individuals. What queers don't know know is that you can be true to yourself and preserve your integrity without being overly vocal about where you stick your pecker.