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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27946647 United States 12/26/2012 11:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After he 'breaks' me, he buys me things. Its his way of controlling me. And I'm used to it now. Besides most men are all the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27946647 Nah. Only men that have no emotional attachment to you. The guy you're describing obviously just wants to have sex. Not a relationship. He buys you things so you still put out... We dont have sex. Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30560657 Canada 12/26/2012 11:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After he 'breaks' me, he buys me things. Its his way of controlling me. And I'm used to it now. Besides most men are all the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18535219 And you accept being with these types of men... Yes. I have no self esteem. And I dont feel any emotions. Hey, you can change anything you're aware of, if you actually want to. Do you honestly lack the backbone to be a real person, or are you just too comfortable taking what's easy? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30928173 Germany 12/26/2012 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30928173 Nah. Only men that have no emotional attachment to you. The guy you're describing obviously just wants to have sex. Not a relationship. He buys you things so you still put out... We dont have sex. Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Holy shit... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 18535219 United States 12/27/2012 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well, I wish you would boost yourself up. Look for the guy who is real...know that when he seems imperfect, it's not his true self. Keep looking for who he truly is behind his actions, and keep drawing that out of him, knowing that he is good...for his sake and your own. All guys who fall short, leave them. Hope you'll be well. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21936207 Australia 12/27/2012 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30928173 Nah. Only men that have no emotional attachment to you. The guy you're describing obviously just wants to have sex. Not a relationship. He buys you things so you still put out... We dont have sex. Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Sit down and have a talk with him. Give him the ultimatum. Say if you don't change how your treating me I'll leave... He'll change... That has worked for few friends of mine... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30560657 Canada 12/27/2012 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30928173 Nah. Only men that have no emotional attachment to you. The guy you're describing obviously just wants to have sex. Not a relationship. He buys you things so you still put out... We dont have sex. Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Then you'd might as well be a wind-up toy, or a shadow of a real person. Are you a human being, or an accessory? Are you happy like that? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27946647 United States 12/27/2012 12:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After he 'breaks' me, he buys me things. Its his way of controlling me. And I'm used to it now. Besides most men are all the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18535219 And you accept being with these types of men... Yes. I have no self esteem. And I dont feel any emotions. Hey, you can change anything you're aware of, if you actually want to. Do you honestly lack the backbone to be a real person, or are you just too comfortable taking what's easy? I have become comfortably numb. And I will never trust another man again, so its okay. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27946647 United States 12/27/2012 12:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Sit down and have a talk with him. Give him the ultimatum. Say if you don't change how your treating me I'll leave... He'll change... That has worked for few friends of mine... That is not an option. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30560657 Canada 12/27/2012 12:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After he 'breaks' me, he buys me things. Its his way of controlling me. And I'm used to it now. Besides most men are all the same. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18535219 And you accept being with these types of men... Yes. I have no self esteem. And I dont feel any emotions. Hey, you can change anything you're aware of, if you actually want to. Do you honestly lack the backbone to be a real person, or are you just too comfortable taking what's easy? I have become comfortably numb. And I will never trust another man again, so its okay. Then don't. It's not like you're having sex, leave him and go figure out what you want. You don't need anyone but yourself. Not trusting all men is just as foolish as trusting all men. That's unfair to half the population, as well as yourself. Judge people on an individual basis. Form meaningful interpersonal relationships without necessarily for the goal of finding a mate. Again, it's not like you're having sex, and once that last straw blows away, what reason could you have to stay? What could he possibly be providing you with that you couldn't get from a meaningful friendship with either gender? Why are you giving up your life, the only thing that's yours in this world, to be a piece of furniture? Grow a spine, start living for yourself. Stop wasting your life, you only get the one. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27946647 United States 12/27/2012 12:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Then you'd might as well be a wind-up toy, or a shadow of a real person. Are you a human being, or an accessory? Are you happy like that? I am happy when he is not humiliating me or saying mean things. I am happy most of the time, but marriage is tricky thing. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 28604765 United States 12/27/2012 12:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30928173 Nah. Only men that have no emotional attachment to you. The guy you're describing obviously just wants to have sex. Not a relationship. He buys you things so you still put out... We dont have sex. Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Oh this is just pathetic. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27946647 United States 12/27/2012 12:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hey, you can change anything you're aware of, if you actually want to. Do you honestly lack the backbone to be a real person, or are you just too comfortable taking what's easy? I have become comfortably numb. And I will never trust another man again, so its okay. Then don't. It's not like you're having sex, leave him and go figure out what you want. You don't need anyone but yourself. Not trusting all men is just as foolish as trusting all men. That's unfair to half the population, as well as yourself. Judge people on an individual basis. Form meaningful interpersonal relationships without necessarily for the goal of finding a mate. Again, it's not like you're having sex, and once that last straw blows away, what reason could you have to stay? What could he possibly be providing you with that you couldn't get from a meaningful friendship with either gender? Why are you giving up your life, the only thing that's yours in this world, to be a piece of furniture? Grow a spine, start living for yourself. Stop wasting your life, you only get the one. its okay. I am too broken and most of the time I am happy, especially when he takes me on vacation or shopping. I just have to be a good girl. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30560657 Canada 12/27/2012 12:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30928173 Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Then you'd might as well be a wind-up toy, or a shadow of a real person. Are you a human being, or an accessory? Are you happy like that? I am happy when he is not humiliating me or saying mean things. I am happy most of the time, but marriage is tricky thing. Look lady... the world is overpopulated. Marriage is a sham. Vibrators are cheap and plentiful. Women even have their own jobs now too, believe it or not. So why are you allowing yourself to remain in that situation? You're an adult, and you are entirely responsible for your own life. You need to take responsibility for yourself. You can't hand over the reigns and steer the horse too. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27946647 United States 12/27/2012 12:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Oh this is just pathetic. Most men want a subserviant wife. And a wife that doesn't argue about anything. A good wife. A skinny wife. A wife that does what shes told to do. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30560657 Canada 12/27/2012 12:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30928173 Then why would you say he exerts control over you? If it's only platonic, would he not be a selfless person for buying you things? I do what I 'm told. I am his wife. Oh this is just pathetic. Most men want a subserviant wife. And a wife that doesn't argue about anything. A good wife. A skinny wife. A wife that does what shes told to do. SO WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU CARE WHAT MOST MEN WANT?! WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT? And why isn't that first on your list of priorities? News flash lady, EVERY ASSHOLE IN THE WORLD wants a mate that just does what they say, women and men both. DON'T DATE ASSHOLES AND YOU'LL BE FINE. If you were truly broken, you would not be aware of it. You are the only master of your life. You are solely responsible for your situation. So what's holding you back? Fear? What obligation could you possibly have to stay, besides that it's easier? If you always take the easy path, you'll never have anything worth having. |
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