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miabelieves (OP) User ID: 30428793 United States 12/27/2012 02:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After reading the post today about the chick wanting to get married and a gentleman posted men today want to feel needed and not deal with Fem-Nazis. Quoting: miabelieves Oh snap ... that was me. LOL. Because of that, I'll stop joking around and speak from my heart. What I was getting at in that posting is a matter of why I think that young men seem to have zero interest in marriage. Why would they want to deal with it? They're told from birth that since they have a penis, they're stupid, worthless, have nothing to offer etc etc. Even if they're not told directly, just look at any TV sitcom. The husband is always some drooling moron that needs to drop to his knees and worship the brilliant goddess he is lucky to have around to think for him. Then these young men look at the statistics that more than 50% of marriages end in divorce, followed by up to 50% of their gross earnings being garnished to pay for alimony and child support. It's a rough world for these young men and women today do not provide them with the emotional support they need to drive their family to success. Okay, you are talking about the young generation. Heck I am wondering about mine. The older ones 43 and up. Sure, I'll play. I'm 42, that's close enough I think. What I seek in a partner is just that, a PARTNER. Like I said to my fiance before we ended up splitting up was pretty to the point: "I'll be the engine that drives us, you steer the wheel to get us there!" As for attributes, sure I would want my partner to be attractive to me. This is true for anyone. They don't have to be something everyone else sees as "hot", just so long as *I* find her attractive, then the physical love will never die. As for personality attributes, I would love to find a woman that carries herself with grace and dignity. Someone that almost glows with her pride and wisdom. I feel that a woman should allow the man to take the lead, but be strong enough to verbally slap the hell out of him in private if he's gotten out of line. A true partner. good answer thank you for that Hold on to your undies, it's gonna be a hell of a ride |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30914820 United States 12/27/2012 02:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [Why would they want to deal with it? They're told from birth that since they have a penis, they're stupid, worthless, have nothing to offer etc etc. Even if they're not told directly, just look at any TV sitcom. The husband is always some drooling moron that needs to drop to his knees and worship the brilliant goddess he is lucky to have around to think for him. Quoting: Sir Phydeau Meanwhile, she has to get the liposuction, electrolysis, breast implants, hair extensions, fake nails and vaginaplasty because absolutely nothing she was born with is right. Its like that knife that has had four blades and three handles, nobody is original equipment any more! Besides beer, ad "real tits" to my list. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2230505 United States 12/27/2012 02:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh and I think that what a guy is looking for just depends on the guy. Some guys want a companion, some guys want a trophy, some guys want a cook and housekeeper, others may just want a warm body, still others may just want someone to tell them they love them every now and then, and still others are looking for their mommies... the list goes on and on. Quoting: nurbloc I'll take a trophy cook housekeeper tell me you love me combo please oh and could I get that to go? :thanks1: im also a sucker for irish girls, and bookworms |
miabelieves (OP) User ID: 30428793 United States 12/27/2012 02:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where do you guys go to meet a woman? Okay, wait maybe I should say are any of you seeking someone special to possible start a life with? If you are, where do you go to meet? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18535219 I hope to meet one through a shared interest...for instance, if I'm doing something very important in the world, it's likely I will meet my dream girl there. Because she will be one that's doing very important things as well, instead of going to the bar or club on the weekends and wasting her life. What is the point of life? To help others, to live in line with our conscience, to improve ourselves (these are some of my answers)...my girl will be doing these things. I can't be with someone who isn't similar to me in this sense. I haven't gone to church in a long time, but when I reach the age of 30, if I'm still single I will start going. Because that's a place where they will most likely have some inner qualities. Speaking of church...the book of Proverbs in the bible has some of the best ideas on how to live life and what men and women should be like. Not trying to push religion, here...just might be something people want to explore. It's totally different from what we're told in modern society, so it's refreshing. OH NO, not in church. I learned the hard way on that one. I agree totally with Proverbs being the best example of how a man/woman should seek and live with their partner. Hold on to your undies, it's gonna be a hell of a ride |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 18535219 United States 12/27/2012 02:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Would you rather have a hot supermodel woman fem-nazi who breaks your balls or a gentler average looking woman who bows to your whim. Fem-nazis have gotta go. It is useless. Break your balls, implies to me that she's honest, direct, brutal, but in a joking or at least constructive way. That's fine. Gentle, okay but not too much...stand up for what's right. Average looking, fine...guys fall in love with physical flaws and quirks, not supermodel looks necessarily. It's unattractive to have a girl that bows to my every whim...might as well just get a maid and have a blow up doll or something, if a guy only wants those things, and not a REALationship. I personally think men are much more than this, and they would realize it if they didn't accept the fem-nazi propaganda, such as saying they only want women to be their servants. It's a lie. |
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Dangerwalt User ID: 28874406 Brazil 12/27/2012 02:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After reading the post today about the chick wanting to get married and a gentleman posted men today want to feel needed and not deal with Fem-Nazis. Quoting: miabelieves Oh snap ... that was me. LOL. Because of that, I'll stop joking around and speak from my heart. What I was getting at in that posting is a matter of why I think that young men seem to have zero interest in marriage. Why would they want to deal with it? They're told from birth that since they have a penis, they're stupid, worthless, have nothing to offer etc etc. Even if they're not told directly, just look at any TV sitcom. The husband is always some drooling moron that needs to drop to his knees and worship the brilliant goddess he is lucky to have around to think for him. Then these young men look at the statistics that more than 50% of marriages end in divorce, followed by up to 50% of their gross earnings being garnished to pay for alimony and child support. It's a rough world for these young men and women today do not provide them with the emotional support they need to drive their family to success. Okay, you are talking about the young generation. Heck I am wondering about mine. The older ones 43 and up. Sure, I'll play. I'm 42, that's close enough I think. What I seek in a partner is just that, a PARTNER. Like I said to my fiance before we ended up splitting up was pretty to the point: "I'll be the engine that drives us, you steer the wheel to get us there!" As for attributes, sure I would want my partner to be attractive to me. This is true for anyone. They don't have to be something everyone else sees as "hot", just so long as *I* find her attractive, then the physical love will never die. As for personality attributes, I would love to find a woman that carries herself with grace and dignity. Someone that almost glows with her pride and wisdom. I feel that a woman should allow the man to take the lead, but be strong enough to verbally slap the hell out of him in private if he's gotten out of line. A true partner. I agree. Nice post. Just one any.... The first symptom of stupidity is to think that we already know everything... :hollowichigo: |
Sir Phydeau User ID: 22271457 United States 12/27/2012 02:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [Why would they want to deal with it? They're told from birth that since they have a penis, they're stupid, worthless, have nothing to offer etc etc. Even if they're not told directly, just look at any TV sitcom. The husband is always some drooling moron that needs to drop to his knees and worship the brilliant goddess he is lucky to have around to think for him. Quoting: Sir Phydeau Meanwhile, she has to get the liposuction, electrolysis, breast implants, hair extensions, fake nails and vaginaplasty because absolutely nothing she was born with is right. Its like that knife that has had four blades and three handles, nobody is original equipment any more! Besides beer, ad "real tits" to my list. Meh ... I don't want a plastic woman. Not by any means. "When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?" — John M. Keynes "The way to see by [blind] faith is to shut the eye of reason." - Benjamin Franklin Real men keep Torah. Knighted into the Army of Yahuwah on 10-9-10. Dear disaffected Democrats: Welcome to the Libertarian Party, we think you will find our social tolerance delightful. However in exchange for this, you're going to have to find a way to be ok with people keeping their guns and more of their money. Dear disaffected Republicans: Welcome to the Libertarian Party, we think you will find our small government economic policies to your liking. However in exchange you will have to find a way to be ok with "the gays" getting married. Snacks are on the table, help yourself. Please introduce yourself to someone on "the other side", you might be astonished just how much you actually have in common. |
miabelieves (OP) User ID: 30428793 United States 12/27/2012 02:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't know if your into Christianity or not, but try asking God for your s/o. Lots of people look and search and strive to FIND that one special person. Why not ask God, WAIT and let him GIVE to you like the gift it is. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27904719 Yes I am a follower of Christ. I never said I was searching for anything. I was just interested in knowing how and what men are looking for. With no jokes. Just a conversation about what you want from a relationship. Hold on to your undies, it's gonna be a hell of a ride |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25646201 United States 12/27/2012 02:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is my first thread ever on GLP. I am a long time lurker but never made a thread so be gentle with me. Quoting: miabelieves After reading the post today about the chick wanting to get married and a gentleman posted men today want to feel needed and not deal with Fem-Nazis. I said it was more like men only focus on the beauty of the opposite sex. That men don't care of the personality, character and morals as long as the female "looks good". Then the wonder why the end up with self centered woman who only have the me me me attitude. So, of the honest men here on this site give us woman some straight answers so that we may understand what it is you seek. Let the crazies begin. for me its a big round ass to slap hard on , and nice hanging breasts. woman with meat on her. |
Sir Phydeau User ID: 22271457 United States 12/27/2012 02:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry, it's the only defensive mechanism we men are allowed to have in this day and age. Aggression is frowned upon, even when justified. No one responds to logic any longer and we dudes are not real skilled at the "Warm and fuzzy feel good" vernacular we're expected to use. So, we make jokes to deflect topics when we're uncomfortable. Sure, many will decry this statement thinking it makes them weak to admit it. But that's the truth as best as I understand it. That being said, you're going to get a LOT of jokesters on here. "When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?" — John M. Keynes "The way to see by [blind] faith is to shut the eye of reason." - Benjamin Franklin Real men keep Torah. Knighted into the Army of Yahuwah on 10-9-10. Dear disaffected Democrats: Welcome to the Libertarian Party, we think you will find our social tolerance delightful. However in exchange for this, you're going to have to find a way to be ok with people keeping their guns and more of their money. Dear disaffected Republicans: Welcome to the Libertarian Party, we think you will find our small government economic policies to your liking. However in exchange you will have to find a way to be ok with "the gays" getting married. Snacks are on the table, help yourself. Please introduce yourself to someone on "the other side", you might be astonished just how much you actually have in common. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27904719 United States 12/27/2012 02:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't know if your into Christianity or not, but try asking God for your s/o. Lots of people look and search and strive to FIND that one special person. Why not ask God, WAIT and let him GIVE to you like the gift it is. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27904719 Yes I am a follower of Christ. I never said I was searching for anything. I was just interested in knowing how and what men are looking for. With no jokes. Just a conversation about what you want from a relationship. I know, this was kinda aimed towards the people who were wondering where to meet someone. Men want women to be their selfs.And they want beauty but beauty comes in different shapes and sizes. Beauty isn't conformed to stick thin, or curvaceous, or blondes or redheads. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and believe not every guy is superficial. This is what I've honestly observed from guys. Their is probably more to it than that, but I'm a girl and can't quite possibly understand men fully! |
miabelieves (OP) User ID: 30428793 United States 12/27/2012 02:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry, it's the only defensive mechanism we men are allowed to have in this day and age. Aggression is frowned upon, even when justified. No one responds to logic any longer and we dudes are not real skilled at the "Warm and fuzzy feel good" vernacular we're expected to use. So, we make jokes to deflect topics when we're uncomfortable. Sure, many will decry this statement thinking it makes them weak to admit it. But that's the truth as best as I understand it. That being said, you're going to get a LOT of jokesters on here. Oh, I have no doubt there will be jokers. I think we have already seen it. I was just wondering and thought I would put out there. I think I am smart enough to glean each person. I find this interesting and I am sure most find it silly. I do want to understand what is going on in your heads *see I keep myself from a joke just than* I know men are brought up as be strong, don't cry blah blah blah. That's the problem today no one seems to know how to communicate, IMHO Hold on to your undies, it's gonna be a hell of a ride |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30513772 United States 12/27/2012 02:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nice feet, cute face, a waist smaller than hips and chest, hardy constitution and a love of firearms. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30513772 Being able to cook is also a plus. feet, well I never would of thunk to see feet :) Oh yea, makes all the difference. Who wants to see disgusting crusty heels, gnarled untrimmed nails and general disrepair? Guys usually like the hoofs, even if they don't say so. Keep em up, keep em clean and ready for service. Makes a big difference. |
miabelieves (OP) User ID: 30428793 United States 12/27/2012 02:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nice feet, cute face, a waist smaller than hips and chest, hardy constitution and a love of firearms. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30513772 Being able to cook is also a plus. feet, well I never would of thunk to see feet :) Oh yea, makes all the difference. Who wants to see disgusting crusty heels, gnarled untrimmed nails and general disrepair? Guys usually like the hoofs, even if they don't say so. Keep em up, keep em clean and ready for service. Makes a big difference. that is so funny. I think feet are the strangest looking thing on our bodies. I mean really look at them...just weird looking Hold on to your undies, it's gonna be a hell of a ride |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 17401129 United States 12/27/2012 02:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Would you rather have a hot supermodel woman fem-nazi who breaks your balls or a gentler average looking woman who bows to your whim. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18535219 Fem-nazis have gotta go. It is useless. Break your balls, implies to me that she's honest, direct, brutal, but in a joking or at least constructive way. That's fine. Gentle, okay but not too much...stand up for what's right. Average looking, fine...guys fall in love with physical flaws and quirks, not supermodel looks necessarily. It's unattractive to have a girl that bows to my every whim...might as well just get a maid and have a blow up doll or something, if a guy only wants those things, and not a REALationship. I personally think men are much more than this, and they would realize it if they didn't accept the fem-nazi propaganda, such as saying they only want women to be their servants. It's a lie. Imperfections are what make you perfect. You nailed it with that. I can't stand women with perfect teeth!? My only concern when looking for a woman would be complaining. Not a legit complaint but, those who sole purpose in life is to seek and stay anger. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30513772 United States 12/27/2012 02:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nice feet, cute face, a waist smaller than hips and chest, hardy constitution and a love of firearms. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30513772 Being able to cook is also a plus. feet, well I never would of thunk to see feet :) Oh yea, makes all the difference. Who wants to see disgusting crusty heels, gnarled untrimmed nails and general disrepair? Guys usually like the hoofs, even if they don't say so. Keep em up, keep em clean and ready for service. Makes a big difference. that is so funny. I think feet are the strangest looking thing on our bodies. I mean really look at them...just weird looking Guys are wired to see them in the air on either side of their head. Trust me on this |
Nika User ID: 30888090 United States 12/27/2012 02:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is my first thread ever on GLP. I am a long time lurker but never made a thread so be gentle with me. Quoting: miabelieves After reading the post today about the chick wanting to get married and a gentleman posted men today want to feel needed and not deal with Fem-Nazis. I said it was more like men only focus on the beauty of the opposite sex. That men don't care of the personality, character and morals as long as the female "looks good". Then the wonder why the end up with self centered woman who only have the me me me attitude. So, of the honest men here on this site give us woman some straight answers so that we may understand what it is you seek. Let the crazies begin. Hi mia, I believe you pretty much covered it...answered your own question. I know this doesn't pertain to ALL men, but it does seem that most only care about looks...which most seem to prefer skinny blonds with fake boobs. And these kind of men couldn't give a shit about personality, intelligence, heart or soul. :infnty: :ihavgsbmp: |
miabelieves (OP) User ID: 30428793 United States 12/27/2012 02:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is my first thread ever on GLP. I am a long time lurker but never made a thread so be gentle with me. Quoting: miabelieves After reading the post today about the chick wanting to get married and a gentleman posted men today want to feel needed and not deal with Fem-Nazis. I said it was more like men only focus on the beauty of the opposite sex. That men don't care of the personality, character and morals as long as the female "looks good". Then the wonder why the end up with self centered woman who only have the me me me attitude. So, of the honest men here on this site give us woman some straight answers so that we may understand what it is you seek. Let the crazies begin. Hi mia, I believe you pretty much covered it...answered your own question. I know this doesn't pertain to ALL men, but it does seem that most only care about looks...which most seem to prefer skinny blonds with fake boobs. And these kind of men couldn't give a shit about personality, intelligence, heart or soul. Well so far, unless they are liars, some of these fellows have said I am not right and they look for other things in a woman. Hold on to your undies, it's gonna be a hell of a ride |
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miabelieves (OP) User ID: 30428793 United States 12/27/2012 02:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Post some pics of yourself and I can help with a more detailed critique. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30513772 babahahahahahaha you're so funny post pics of yourself I'm just an old woman trying to figure you men out. I have flaws I know this. I don't need anyone to critique me :} Hold on to your undies, it's gonna be a hell of a ride |
Sir Phydeau User ID: 22271457 United States 12/27/2012 02:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is my first thread ever on GLP. I am a long time lurker but never made a thread so be gentle with me. Quoting: miabelieves After reading the post today about the chick wanting to get married and a gentleman posted men today want to feel needed and not deal with Fem-Nazis. I said it was more like men only focus on the beauty of the opposite sex. That men don't care of the personality, character and morals as long as the female "looks good". Then the wonder why the end up with self centered woman who only have the me me me attitude. So, of the honest men here on this site give us woman some straight answers so that we may understand what it is you seek. Let the crazies begin. Hi mia, I believe you pretty much covered it...answered your own question. I know this doesn't pertain to ALL men, but it does seem that most only care about looks...which most seem to prefer skinny blonds with fake boobs. And these kind of men couldn't give a shit about personality, intelligence, heart or soul. Since those young men would just end up divorced 50% of the time, anyway ... why should they "settle" for anything less than something that makes their tummy flip every time they see her? Don't blame the messenger, I'm just speaking from what I've seen in the last 2 decades of the world sliding downhill. "When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?" — John M. Keynes "The way to see by [blind] faith is to shut the eye of reason." - Benjamin Franklin Real men keep Torah. Knighted into the Army of Yahuwah on 10-9-10. Dear disaffected Democrats: Welcome to the Libertarian Party, we think you will find our social tolerance delightful. However in exchange for this, you're going to have to find a way to be ok with people keeping their guns and more of their money. Dear disaffected Republicans: Welcome to the Libertarian Party, we think you will find our small government economic policies to your liking. However in exchange you will have to find a way to be ok with "the gays" getting married. Snacks are on the table, help yourself. Please introduce yourself to someone on "the other side", you might be astonished just how much you actually have in common. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30513772 United States 12/27/2012 02:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Post some pics of yourself and I can help with a more detailed critique. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30513772 babahahahahahaha you're so funny post pics of yourself I'm just an old woman trying to figure you men out. I have flaws I know this. I don't need anyone to critique me :} Alright, I hear you. May I at least how old or even what decade? |