Maybe if they did not "settle" they would find someone who they would not end up in divorce. I guess that is why I want to know. Most men I know go after the "hottie", I have seen them marry them and than the "hottie", seems to me is an attention ho and starts running around. Now if dude had not settled and found an regular down to Earth gal than he could of had a very loving and trusting relationship that would keep him happy. Or is that old school?
Quoting: miabelieves Oh, touche new friend!
I guess what I'm thinking is something like, "If the car is just going to break down in a few years and I'll be forced to find another one regardless, I might as well get that sports car I've always wanted and enjoy it while I can. What's the point in driving a station wagon if it's just gonna be gone in the same amount of time."
Probably more an issue of them not really thinking it through all the way and seeing the bigger picture you've just described.
That said, I've been in long term relationships with women of all age gaps, sizes and intelligence levels. They ALL ended up cheating or running around.
So, that leaves even me, at the late stage of the game asking a similar question, "If the drama and stress was pretty much the same across the board, then why would I settle for something I don't want?"
Admittedly, I tend to prefer younger women for the sole reason of, in my experience, women over 30 DEMAND I waste at least a year proving I'm not their ex before they'll even BEGIN to open up and show ME if THEY are something that I would want to spend my life with.
