I want to get married to a kind girl :)

Yeah, then you'll find out she's both kind to them and attracted to them, and no longer even attracted to you when the kids are around. But that's the price of success, you have passed on your genes.

You'll need to look outside Tennessee then. The inhabitants there are just a tide of filth.

The only reason that I am happy that I got married is because it resulted in my son being born.

I will never remarry.

I will never have another child.

One needs to understand: there is not someone for everyone. While it sounds nice, it's not true. So you could be one with no one. Or you might find someone. Just don't assume she is out there -- as some said in here --- rather, find a way of accepting being alone (as much as you can).

I felt that way about my first child.

But I also feel that way just as much about my second child.

And if you're now divorced, remarrying is complicated because it would create a step-child / step-parent situation, and those are unnatural and difficult and generally don't seem to get much better.

raising a child is like having an 18 year prison sentence.

Oh please, the guy is supposed to run the show, and he can.

There are plenty of girls out there you WANT, right? Sexy ones, intelligent ones, charming ones. If you have a dick, there are girls you want. You just don't think you can GET them.

But you can.

cud'a used a turkey baster.

There are many guys who are turned away and rejected by women. I am one. 37. Single. Never married. Virgin. Women don't want relationships with me.

We enjoy the old fashioned method.

You're a good age right now, put on some nice cologne and go out and act confident, try things, you'll have a new experience with women! Women are not some sort of unified force, they are just as individual and alone as you are, no matter what it looks like.

And they have a biological clock to worry about, you don't. You can be a father when you're 70, though you might not enjoy raising kids much at that age.

Women are not interested in me. And they are all, more or less, made by society to look for certain kinds of things, and ignore men who don't meet these expectations. So no, it isn't going to happen; I constantly get turned away..

That was a lot of fun...making our son. Unfortunately, his response when we found out that I was pregnant was 'Well I guess you got what you wanted.' and he ignored me the rest of the evening.

My brother figured it out in 2nd grade; If you ask enough girls to dance, one of them is bound to say yes.

Take a look at what you are asking for in a partner. That may be the problem.

Some people think that - but for some people, no one says yes. "It worked for me" doesn't mean it is universal. Some people really get no no no no no and no.

OK what are the things they are looking for:
Height
Money
Success with other women

right?

But really they want the oxytocin. Those are just things that stimulate it. But they are not the only things.

Smell good, they are very sensitive to smell. Be confident. Don't come right out with your weaknesses, sell yourself, all's fair in love and war.

I don't believe that any man is unable to get a woman, far worse is the situation of an unattractive woman who cannot be comfortable in taking the first step over and over.

One more piece of advice, go for the desirable women. The women who have experienced a lot of rejection are harder to get along with, not easier. They have tougher defenses! Sorry women but that was my experience.

Esquire, Man At His Best:

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Everything you need, my friend.

Now go out there and get you some strange!

Wow you're really got quite some defenses there yourself!

Anyway what I wrote above is honest, I am by no means a "ladies' man" but when I saw a particular girl I wanted, I went for her and I got her. I was as honest as possible about what I thought and what I did.

There's no more I can say but good luck to you!

It has been my experience that a lot of men who claim they are being rejected are actually men who have set their sights on women who are way out of their league, and usually are only attracted to the outside of the person, and have no idea who those girls really are.

Finding a good partner for a relationship is not like "fishing", you dont just go and see one and try to catch it...lol and when it doesnt want to be caught, it is not rejecting you or turning you away, it just wasnt interested in the first place, for whatever reason.

Start with baby steps. Go where YOU like to go. Bookstore, grocery store, park, cafe, movie theater, candy shop, gym, where ever, and look around. What are people doing? Who is alone? Watch people and see how they act towards each other. Watch a person who is alone and see how they act alone, completely different from people who are together.

People who are alone arent talking, they are usually pondering. If the person who is alone is looking around at other people, that means that person is interested in what is going on around them, if the person is not, dont bother them, they are not there to socialize. This is an excellent way to find single people. Just remember the golden rule in sales... for every 100 contacts you make, 10 of those are going to be leads, for every 100 leads, you will make a sale. That means on the whole you will attempt to talk to a lot of people, and depending on your approach, your topics of choice for a conversation, and your level of desperation, you will find someone.

Good luck.

I hate to read about so many sexually frustrated people (inclusive me, lol), why can't men and women just screw each others, hard, like we did 1o.ooo years ago in the caves? hehe

Religion and society totally f: up us and we die of it.

In Hungary (where I come from) neither religion or former communism allowed sex or education about it, so people just freaked out, teens having babies, mass teen suicides etc. I guess this is the normal living on this sick planet. (While the elite is having daily orgies)

Mauritius is a great place full of tourist so it shouldn't be too hard to find a hot chick, check the OTHER SIDE of the island! lol

More BS

imho there is no woman who is out of any man's league. (The reverse may be true also but I'm not so sure about it.) Actually all women have certain needs and insecurities, the same ones. Even the hottest girl is insecure about her looks. Even the best female student is not brilliant, because women tend more toward the average in intelligence. Maybe these things are why women try so hard to show their individuality!

But other than that, the advice above is good. You've got to be able to talk to this chick, you might need 50 years of conversation!

Just because you cant get a girl or "love" doesnt mean you cant get sex lol Just pay for it, but you'll be going to hell for it if you dont repent. Who cares if no woman likes you. All these guys on here, "oh no girl likes me, i try this and i try that..." You're going to go through all that damn trouble to please a woman/ to try to find a woman but how come you wont go through trouble to please God? Thats more important.

God gave me a body with a dick and the desire to use it. God gave me the ability to father more babies to house eternal souls.

God also gave me the option to be a monk, but I really didn't want to do that.

Get a guitar and play it in front of chicks. Only the best will notice your talent even if you have none.

get a dance teacher to teach you some rock'in pumping moves
on the dance floor. that should do it.

and stuff a big salami in yer pants!

LOL....I don't know where I heard this, but it's the best advice I could give another man....

Take a picture of all your belongings. Now, fold it in half and put it in your wallet. Everytime you get a warm fuzzy feeling and thoughts of marriage, take said picture out and take a good hard look.

Btw, I agree....dogs rock! The bestest friend a man could ever wish for!

Hope you and yours are enjoying the holidays!

Peace!

This might be good advice, but I want OP to make the choice voluntarily. He should know through experience that he has a choice.

Like Gautama Siddhartha who experienced the pleasures the world had to offer, then retreated to a simple life by a river because he preferred that.

Sure Mac, I'll marry ya...[Heh, Heh, Heh, {twirls cigar}]

What kind of stuff ya got?

I'll split it with ya 80/20.

I'll have to dust off my old Halloween Transvestite costume.

How about next monday?