I lost one of the best friends I ever had when my neighbor, who just turned 80, passed away last year. He was old enough to be my father, and I made certain he didn't consider me his girlfriend.

But I know he would have done anything for me if he could. I would take him where he had to be 'cause he had never driven in his life; doctors, grocery, and shopping for clothing if he needed it.

I miss him terribly. You might be surprised if you get to know your neighbor a little bit better. I loved hearing my neighbor tell me stories of his childhood in Norway, his life as a merchant marine, etc.

He was a decent, honest, and honorable man. I'm certain that I got more out the relationship than he did.