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Message Subject I am the AC who wrote that vision I had when I was 15. I tuned 44 today. So it begins. Does anyone have any questions or need any encouragement?
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I live 1600 miles from her and my father.
I had my flight booked and she told me not to come because there would be no place for me to stay.
My dad is living in her basement and one of her son,s and his wife have taken over and are living in Dad's house.
Can't afford a hotel, can't even afford the airfare, and she'd only be livid that I came without notice anyway.
Not only do I have to do without seeing my father, I'm also worried about his situation because he has told me he's unhappy living with her but won't leave because he's afraid my sister will hate him and when he's near the end of his life, he doesn't want to die hated by one of his kids.
There just isn't an easy solution.
I would've talked things up ages ago if she didn't get mad every time I try to talk about anything but superficial matters. She does not want this resolved. She wants to be in control!!
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When I read this it reminded me of a situation that was intolerable so that after I read this it helped me forgive and believe God could work it out.

Where our selfish desires are directly interfered with, or even where an action which we know to be entirely right is prevented, intolerance only makes matters worse. If expressed, it probably rouses bitter feelings in another. Whether we express it openly or not, it keeps us in a state of nervous irritation which is often most painful in its results. Such irritation, if not extreme in its effect, is strong enough to keep any amount of pure enjoyment out of life.


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I'm not sure what you mean. All both my dad and I want is to be in touch But he's forced into a living situation where me even being in the picture makes that impossible.
Either I try to keep thinking of ways to be in his life and risk her raging at me and controlling my every word or deed, or I walk away from both of them and lose a dad.
It's lose/lose anyway you slice it...and kindness, compassion, and utter
cooperation doesn't work with her.
I'll just have to live with it, but forgiveness isn't going to come easily
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I understand exactly what you mean and if you feel there is nothing you can do to change the situation you got to believe that the Lord is very aware of your pain as well as your dads but love, acceptance and forgiveness though hard as it is may be the start to better things for him as well as you.
 
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