Advice Please - lost my man, how do I get him back?

maybe she left him in here

Thank you. I will give it two more weeks and if he doesn't come back to me I will let him go. He knows how I feel about him, I just don't know how he feels about me.

What kind of things did you say? That might give us a better indication as to the possible level of resentment, lol.

you say he has already moved on to someone else so why waste your time thinking about what could have been?
what makes him so special that you'd even want to get back together given that he cannot even accept your opinion?
you should be glad its over.
learn from the experience and move on.

well he said some nasty things that hurt my feelings for no good reason but having too much to drink, so in return I tossed a few back and told him I didn't want to see him anymore. and that was that. Of course you have to understand the day before he is telling me he loves me and being all sweet, I am the best thing in his life, etc... I think he scared the crap out of himself with the 'love' word and panicked.

I don't know if he is with someone else, I only suspect it. But I could be wrong and worried for nothing.

So far not much for good advice... I guess GLP is not the best place to come.

Okay here is some advice. In my opinion the alcohol does not make people 'nasty' - it just makes it easier for people who already possess the propensity to be 'nasty' to express themselves without their normal sober inhibitions... If he's a jerk to you when he's drunk then that is representative of the type of person he possesses the potential to be even when he's sober. Sometimes guys give you the 'sweet' and 'best thing in my life' routine once they start feeling confident they have secured a new piece of 'carne'.

You should operate with the intention to 'move on' from this guy and if he had any sincere emotional connection to you and any real degree of maturity then he would/will contact you to reconcile. Otherwise he probably moved on and you should prepare to do the same. : )

THANK YOU - GREAT ADVICE!

No problem, el gusto es mio.

People usually want what they can't have. Be unavailable.

O.P you fucked up big time ,you didn'tnow what you had and now it's gone ,I did the same to my ex ,I gave her everything she wanted and needed but she made me feel like I wasn't appreciated so I bounced and she begged me back but I had to show her that she fucked up so now she learns from it and you need to learn from it ,I am single so if you learned your lesson and is under 35 yrs of age then lets flirt

Buy him a shot, after he drinks it put the glass in your pussy and invite him back to bed.

I wish I could turn back the clock and be unavailable, but I screwed that up with a week of telling him I love him and want him back! Is it too late to change that around?

That is just sick.

Advice please!

haha this guy is playing in Toronto on New years eve

Do not go to the bar. Do not call. Let him come to you. Trust me. Even if he comes to you, start all over.

thanks

I don't know if I can do that though! I want to see him! damn...

Learn to fuck better

aha i got invited to that.

That is not the problem... we had the best sex ever. and he knows it. I think the big problem was I was falling in love with him, and that is not what he wanted. What is with men and feelings?

Well if he's anything like me then be harder to get. Most people i know including me enjoy the game of hard to get.

go see psychic, this was the old way to make sure you are with the right partner

do what any crazy mexicana would do. stalk him to his new girlfriends house. while they are inside together, start loudly yelling while you smash out all his car windows.

this will make his new girlfriend think twice about her safety. she in turn will dump your old boyfriend. having little recourse, your old boyfriend will come to the realization that he is stuck with your crazy ass and that he should have never taken up with you in the first place.
take him back and then make him take you on an expense vacation, immediately afterwards dump his sorry ass.
both of you will be then be happy to be rid of the other.

advice?.....swallow!