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In Love with 2 People?

 
IndigoSerenity76
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In Love with 2 People?
I'm not currently having this problem, but I am wondering if it is possible.

I have love for a ton of people, and all of humanity. But actually being in love, is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time?

Thanks in advance for your honest GLP answers :).
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Re: In Love with 2 People?
I'm not currently having this problem, but I am wondering if it is possible.

I have love for a ton of people, and all of humanity. But actually being in love, is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time?

Thanks in advance for your honest GLP answers :).
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I read some old proverb kind of thing somewhere that went something like 'The farmer who chases two rabbits will catch neither.'
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Re: In Love with 2 People?
yes
i got divorced....then married again quick (mistake) then an old flame from high school finds me...and I love her madly. Im screwed.
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Re: In Love with 2 People?
I'm not currently having this problem, but I am wondering if it is possible.

I have love for a ton of people, and all of humanity. But actually being in love, is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time?

Thanks in advance for your honest GLP answers :).
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Love no...Lust yes.
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My thinking as well.
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I must say I like your topics for posts. Its very refreshing!
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Re: In Love with 2 People?
100% yes
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Re: In Love with 2 People?
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i got divorced....then married again quick (mistake) then an old flame from high school finds me...and I love her madly. Im screwed.
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So, you are actually "in love" with your wife and the girl from high school?
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100% yes
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Really? So what does one do in that situation?
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I must say I like your topics for posts. Its very refreshing!
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Thanks :)
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Re: In Love with 2 People?
I read some old proverb kind of thing somewhere that went something like 'The farmer who chases two rabbits will catch neither.'
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Yep, makes perfect sense to me :).
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is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


first you should tell something about yourself! are you a whore?
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Liked the "Lust/Love" post above!


Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ...

THAT will Wane!

Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ...

They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else!
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is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time?
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first you should tell something about yourself! are you a whore?
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Hell no. This isn't about me. This is actually about my ex, thinking he is in love with me and someone else.
"Imagine no possessions"

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Liked the "Lust/Love" post above!


Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ...

THAT will Wane!

Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ...

They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151



Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship.
"Imagine no possessions"

"As Above, So Below"

)O(
Rach
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100% yes
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Really? So what does one do in that situation?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too.
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Liked the "Lust/Love" post above!


Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ...

THAT will Wane!

Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ...

They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151



Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Interesting, have to think about that....If I were you and you want him back I would tell him flat out to get lost and pick the other...just sayin
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100% yes
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Really? So what does one do in that situation?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too.
 Quoting: Bluepill



Do the two people know about each other?
"Imagine no possessions"

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100% yes
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Really? So what does one do in that situation?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too.
 Quoting: Bluepill



Do the two people know about each other?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


NO (one does)


Ok, let the insults fly......
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Re: In Love with 2 People?
Liked the "Lust/Love" post above!


Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ...

THAT will Wane!

Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ...

They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151



Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Interesting, have to think about that....If I were you and you want him back I would tell him flat out to get lost and pick the other...just sayin
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So, you think I should let him go even though we love each other? Also, I did leave him and pushed him away, so I don't blame him for meeting someone else. I just wish I had figured out how I really felt sooner.
"Imagine no possessions"

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Rach
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Really? So what does one do in that situation?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too.
 Quoting: Bluepill



Do the two people know about each other?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


NO (one does)


Ok, let the insults fly......
 Quoting: Bluepill



No, I'm not one to judge. I'm trying to get different opinions. The one that knows, is that one okay with it?
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Liked the "Lust/Love" post above!


Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ...

THAT will Wane!

Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ...

They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151



Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Interesting, have to think about that....If I were you and you want him back I would tell him flat out to get lost and pick the other...just sayin
 Quoting: Bluepill


So, you think I should let him go even though we love each other? Also, I did leave him and pushed him away, so I don't blame him for meeting someone else. I just wish I had figured out how I really felt sooner.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Not at all, I thought correctly that you did want him. I play poker and it would be a poker move. You go all in here. Yes, you could lose him but I think it would shake him up a bit and maybe make him realize you're it...
Both of you vying for him will probably lead to neither of you getting him or he'll just play it for as long as possible..IMHO
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Not sure really...it's a work in progress. So far it feels beautiful and has affected all aspects in my life positively. But that quote above about the farmer catching neither rabbit rings true to me too.
 Quoting: Bluepill



Do the two people know about each other?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


NO (one does)


Ok, let the insults fly......
 Quoting: Bluepill



No, I'm not one to judge. I'm trying to get different opinions. The one that knows, is that one okay with it?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Yes she is...she is in the same situation as me...probably all I should say about it on a public forum :)
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Liked the "Lust/Love" post above!


Yeah ... You can "LOVE" the sexual aspect of a relationship ...

THAT will Wane!

Go with the Loyal and Faithful One ...

They will be THERE ... When the Sexy One is looking for Someone Else!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5943151



Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


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Sounds like he's keeping his options open. Very typical.

You should probably break it off clean with him and stop playing his game as he sounds like a manipulator playing the role of hurt puppy dog to both women.
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I'm sorry to say this Indigo, I think he's playing you and the other woman.
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Okay, so what if he is saying he loves me (keeping in mind we were together 5 years, broken up for several months, we just going to start trying again and he met someone else almost 2 weeks ago), but he loves her too? He has told her how he still feels about me, but feels awful for hurting her and is says he is very sad to see her go and I've seen him, he is extremely sad. Says no matter which one he decides to be with, he will be hurt. I don't know if he is actually in love with me, or in love with her. He says he thinks he is in love with both of us. I also don't know if you can be in love with someone after a week long relationship.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Interesting, have to think about that....If I were you and you want him back I would tell him flat out to get lost and pick the other...just sayin
 Quoting: Bluepill


So, you think I should let him go even though we love each other? Also, I did leave him and pushed him away, so I don't blame him for meeting someone else. I just wish I had figured out how I really felt sooner.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Not at all, I thought correctly that you did want him. I play poker and it would be a poker move. You go all in here. Yes, you could lose him but I think it would shake him up a bit and maybe make him realize you're it...
Both of you vying for him will probably lead to neither of you getting him or he'll just play it for as long as possible..IMHO
 Quoting: Bluepill


Okay. That's kind of what I did...I stop contacting him and told him to stop contacting me after he told me about her. He then told her he loved me and she stopped speaking to him. But now, he isn't sure if he made the right decision because he misses her.
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Rach
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Do the two people know about each other?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


NO (one does)


Ok, let the insults fly......
 Quoting: Bluepill



No, I'm not one to judge. I'm trying to get different opinions. The one that knows, is that one okay with it?
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Yes she is...she is in the same situation as me...probably all I should say about it on a public forum :)
 Quoting: Bluepill


Do you two plan on keeping it that way, or do you plan to be together?
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Sounds like he's keeping his options open. Very typical.

You should probably break it off clean with him and stop playing his game as he sounds like a manipulator playing the role of hurt puppy dog to both women.
 Quoting: gurunade


Kind of. She isn't speaking to him anymore and he isn't contacting her, but he is torn up over it.
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Re: In Love with 2 People?
I'm not currently having this problem, but I am wondering if it is possible.

I have love for a ton of people, and all of humanity. But actually being in love, is it possible to be in love with 2 people at the same time?

Thanks in advance for your honest GLP answers :).
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


Just two ? Hahahahaha !
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I'm sorry to say this Indigo, I think he's playing you and the other woman.
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Normally, I would think that as well. I understand though his feelings. I hurt him when I left and even though he loves me, he is terrified of being hurt again and I get that. I told him to go find someone else, so he did. Now, I changed my mind and finally heard what he has been saying to me for months and now he has to hurt this girl and he hates it. He says they were perfect, got along great, she makes him smile, but he still loves me.
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"As Above, So Below"

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