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relationship advice?

 
Anonymous Coward
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01/01/2013 04:31 PM
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relationship advice?
How do I stop being to paranoid with my partner?
How does a person stop thinking about the millions of girls he was with before?
What do I do about all these girls he's known long before me when they constantly try and pick him up, and him being to soft and doing little about it?

I'm starting to despise myself, these constant thoughts are sickening.

Advice? :/
Anonymous Coward
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01/01/2013 04:35 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
Calm down.

Men are better at going from many partners to exclusively one.

It's those mistakes that made him the man he is now.

Cheer up, if he cheats or leaves don't be bitter take it as a lesson learnt.
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Re: relationship advice?
Tell the girls to fuck off?
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01/01/2013 07:41 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
Calm down.

Men are better at going from many partners to exclusively one.

It's those mistakes that made him the man he is now.

Cheer up, if he cheats or leaves don't be bitter take it as a lesson learnt.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14423482


:/ I just hate waiting for shit to hit the fan.
Hopefully it won't..

Thanks :)
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Re: relationship advice?
Tell the girls to fuck off?
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I'm starting to ;o
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01/01/2013 08:01 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
How do I stop being to paranoid with my partner?
How does a person stop thinking about the millions of girls he was with before?
What do I do about all these girls he's known long before me when they constantly try and pick him up, and him being to soft and doing little about it?

I'm starting to despise myself, these constant thoughts are sickening.

Advice? :/
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29919529


I thought you were serious until I seen "millions".

That's when I knew you were delusional or he was immortal.
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01/01/2013 08:03 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in.

Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball.

On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him.
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01/01/2013 08:08 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
Leave him, hes not worth the hassle. It will seem hard, but it would be harder doing an ept pregnancy test and seeing the word Pregnant. You may not think it will happen to you, but it really could, so be with an ugly guy who is calm and stable and not popular with the ladies, you will live a happier life. There are better enjoyments in life to be had, than sex with a cute guy, trust me.
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01/01/2013 08:09 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in.

Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball.

On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364


You are disgusting.
Anonymous Coward
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01/01/2013 08:09 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
It's called trust, do you trust him?
Anonymous Coward
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01/01/2013 08:11 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in.

Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball.

On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364


You are disgusting.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268


If you met me you'd want me.
Anonymous Coward
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01/01/2013 08:15 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
guys only hook up with an old girlfriend for one reason
non-committal sex. then we conveniently remember why we broke up with them.
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01/01/2013 08:19 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
Stop making a big deal out of NOTHING. Focus your energy on being a better girlfriend to him. Know that you get what you deserve...if you're an awesome girlfriend and try really hard, of course he would never take that for granted.

Unless he would. In that case, I'm single. ;)
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01/01/2013 08:20 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
Get over it.

Or find a man who doesn't keep female "friends".
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01/01/2013 08:22 PM
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Yea there's no such thing as a male friend. It's why you don't see a hot dude hanging out with a 400 pound chick.
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01/01/2013 08:23 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
These aren't the sort of people you want to be taking advice from..
If you want good advice, just have a conversation with him. Sometimes the truth will set you free. You can't trust other people until you trust yourself.
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01/01/2013 08:25 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in.

Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball.

On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him.
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You are disgusting.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268


If you met me you'd want me.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364


What a joke you are. No my type of man makes 10k a month. Sorry you don't work for me, you dirtball.
Anonymous Coward
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01/01/2013 08:26 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
It's called trust, do you trust him?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31291940


Obviously she has instincts enough to not! And those instincts are what kept your ancestors alive back in the day and animals smartly rely on them!
Anonymous Coward
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01/01/2013 08:27 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in.

Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball.

On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364


You are disgusting.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268


If you met me you'd want me.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364


What a joke you are. No my type of man makes 10k a month. Sorry you don't work for me, you dirtball.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268


Yea Your not in my bracket. I make 18k a month. But you should see this stick. It's really quite impressive.
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01/01/2013 08:28 PM

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Re: relationship advice?
My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in.

Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball.

On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364


You are disgusting.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268




Nah, he's right.
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01/01/2013 08:29 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
getting relationship advice on GLP is an oxymoran.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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01/01/2013 09:33 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
le sigh.

What does it take for a man to be a 'good' man?
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01/01/2013 09:35 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
It's called trust, do you trust him?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31291940


Obviously she has instincts enough to not! And those instincts are what kept your ancestors alive back in the day and animals smartly rely on them!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268


Instincts! I've always caught him up to something really bad whenever I had a feeling.
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01/01/2013 09:37 PM
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Re: relationship advice?
What does it take for a man to be a 'good' man?

What does it take for a girlfriend to be chill?
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01/01/2013 09:41 PM

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Re: relationship advice?
OP - the best you can do is try to be as good to him as you can without compromising who you are as a person. You cannot change other people, they can only change themselves, and even then, it only happens if they really want to change. Hopefully, he will realize how his behavior makes you feel, and his love for you will inspire him to change.

The paranoia that you are feeling comes from your own feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. That is why it is important to remember that you cannot allow the person you are with to determine whether you are happy or not, that must come from within you. The person you are with can enhance your happiness, they can even give you happiness, but you should never be dependent on them for happiness.

I hope you are able to put aside your fear and enjoy the person you are with :-)
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01/01/2013 09:44 PM
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01/01/2013 09:57 PM
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Leave him, hes not worth the hassle. It will seem hard, but it would be harder doing an ept pregnancy test and seeing the word Pregnant. You may not think it will happen to you, but it really could, so be with an ugly guy who is calm and stable and not popular with the ladies, you will live a happier life. There are better enjoyments in life to be had, than sex with a cute guy, trust me.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268


Or just take Birth Control and tell the hang on ex emptys to get the fark on with their life.

Honestly If he still has them around, it is for a reason. Let him decide if he lives in the past UNTIL they finally get a real man and never speak to him again. Or If he wants to be fully in the present and have a real future with you.

But if he is not showing you something totally different then they put up with, he is honestly not worth viewing as a long term partner anyway.

Just call him on it and the result will show you exactly what you are to him ( same as they were or the real thing ). And If he wants them around, this has saved you more wasted months or years and you can move on and find the man who will truly appreciate the moment/future with you.
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01/01/2013 10:09 PM
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Leave him, hes not worth the hassle. It will seem hard, but it would be harder doing an ept pregnancy test and seeing the word Pregnant. You may not think it will happen to you, but it really could, so be with an ugly guy who is calm and stable and not popular with the ladies, you will live a happier life. There are better enjoyments in life to be had, than sex with a cute guy, trust me.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268


Yep!

Do you feel tortured by your thoughts? Your instinct?

Now imagine every.single.day for the rest.of.your.life.

Dump him and find someone you can trust.

Why do unmarried women consistently stay with the wrong men instead of dusting off their feet and moving on to someone better? Your clock is ticking, quit wasting time with a player!

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