relationship advice?

Calm down.

Men are better at going from many partners to exclusively one.

It's those mistakes that made him the man he is now.

Cheer up, if he cheats or leaves don't be bitter take it as a lesson learnt.

Tell the girls to fuck off?

:/ I just hate waiting for shit to hit the fan.
Hopefully it won't..

Thanks :)

I'm starting to ;o

I thought you were serious until I seen "millions".

That's when I knew you were delusional or he was immortal.

My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in.

Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball.

On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him.

Leave him, hes not worth the hassle. It will seem hard, but it would be harder doing an ept pregnancy test and seeing the word Pregnant. You may not think it will happen to you, but it really could, so be with an ugly guy who is calm and stable and not popular with the ladies, you will live a happier life. There are better enjoyments in life to be had, than sex with a cute guy, trust me.

You are disgusting.

It's called trust, do you trust him?

If you met me you'd want me.

guys only hook up with an old girlfriend for one reason
non-committal sex. then we conveniently remember why we broke up with them.

Stop making a big deal out of NOTHING. Focus your energy on being a better girlfriend to him. Know that you get what you deserve...if you're an awesome girlfriend and try really hard, of course he would never take that for granted.

Unless he would. In that case, I'm single. ;)

Get over it.

Or find a man who doesn't keep female "friends".

Yea there's no such thing as a male friend. It's why you don't see a hot dude hanging out with a 400 pound chick.

These aren't the sort of people you want to be taking advice from..
If you want good advice, just have a conversation with him. Sometimes the truth will set you free. You can't trust other people until you trust yourself.

What a joke you are. No my type of man makes 10k a month. Sorry you don't work for me, you dirtball.

Obviously she has instincts enough to not! And those instincts are what kept your ancestors alive back in the day and animals smartly rely on them!

Yea Your not in my bracket. I make 18k a month. But you should see this stick. It's really quite impressive.

Nah, he's right.

getting relationship advice on GLP is an oxymoran.

le sigh.

What does it take for a man to be a 'good' man?

Instincts! I've always caught him up to something really bad whenever I had a feeling.

What does it take for a man to be a 'good' man?

What does it take for a girlfriend to be chill?

OP - the best you can do is try to be as good to him as you can without compromising who you are as a person. You cannot change other people, they can only change themselves, and even then, it only happens if they really want to change. Hopefully, he will realize how his behavior makes you feel, and his love for you will inspire him to change.

The paranoia that you are feeling comes from your own feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. That is why it is important to remember that you cannot allow the person you are with to determine whether you are happy or not, that must come from within you. The person you are with can enhance your happiness, they can even give you happiness, but you should never be dependent on them for happiness.

I hope you are able to put aside your fear and enjoy the person you are with :-)

Or just take Birth Control and tell the hang on ex emptys to get the fark on with their life.

Honestly If he still has them around, it is for a reason. Let him decide if he lives in the past UNTIL they finally get a real man and never speak to him again. Or If he wants to be fully in the present and have a real future with you.

But if he is not showing you something totally different then they put up with, he is honestly not worth viewing as a long term partner anyway.

Just call him on it and the result will show you exactly what you are to him ( same as they were or the real thing ). And If he wants them around, this has saved you more wasted months or years and you can move on and find the man who will truly appreciate the moment/future with you.

Yep!

Do you feel tortured by your thoughts? Your instinct?

Now imagine every.single.day for the rest.of.your.life.

Dump him and find someone you can trust.

Why do unmarried women consistently stay with the wrong men instead of dusting off their feet and moving on to someone better? Your clock is ticking, quit wasting time with a player!