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Anonymous Coward User ID: 14423482 Canada 01/01/2013 04:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29919529 Canada 01/01/2013 07:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Calm down. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14423482 Men are better at going from many partners to exclusively one. It's those mistakes that made him the man he is now. Cheer up, if he cheats or leaves don't be bitter take it as a lesson learnt. :/ I just hate waiting for shit to hit the fan. Hopefully it won't.. Thanks :) |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29919529 Canada 01/01/2013 07:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31248330 United States 01/01/2013 08:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How do I stop being to paranoid with my partner? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29919529 How does a person stop thinking about the millions of girls he was with before? What do I do about all these girls he's known long before me when they constantly try and pick him up, and him being to soft and doing little about it? I'm starting to despise myself, these constant thoughts are sickening. Advice? :/ I thought you were serious until I seen "millions". That's when I knew you were delusional or he was immortal. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21596364 United States 01/01/2013 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in. Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball. On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31168268 United States 01/01/2013 08:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Leave him, hes not worth the hassle. It will seem hard, but it would be harder doing an ept pregnancy test and seeing the word Pregnant. You may not think it will happen to you, but it really could, so be with an ugly guy who is calm and stable and not popular with the ladies, you will live a happier life. There are better enjoyments in life to be had, than sex with a cute guy, trust me. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31168268 United States 01/01/2013 08:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364 Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball. On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him. You are disgusting. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21596364 United States 01/01/2013 08:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364 Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball. On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him. You are disgusting. If you met me you'd want me. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 18535219 United States 01/01/2013 08:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Stop making a big deal out of NOTHING. Focus your energy on being a better girlfriend to him. Know that you get what you deserve...if you're an awesome girlfriend and try really hard, of course he would never take that for granted. Unless he would. In that case, I'm single. ;) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31168268 United States 01/01/2013 08:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364 Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball. On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him. You are disgusting. If you met me you'd want me. What a joke you are. No my type of man makes 10k a month. Sorry you don't work for me, you dirtball. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21596364 United States 01/01/2013 08:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364 Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball. On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him. You are disgusting. If you met me you'd want me. What a joke you are. No my type of man makes 10k a month. Sorry you don't work for me, you dirtball. Yea Your not in my bracket. I make 18k a month. But you should see this stick. It's really quite impressive. |
Anonymous Coward 01/01/2013 08:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife worried about all the chicks I banged but to be honest, I couldn't tell you their names. It's like remembering every urinal I took a piss in. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21596364 Stop looking at it from a woman's perspective. Men do not look at sex the same way you do. To a man, its like taking a shit. You feel lighter on your toes then you think about baseball. On the other hand, if he's still talking to them then you should dump him. You are disgusting. Nah, he's right. |
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Rising Son User ID: 31269856 Japan 01/01/2013 09:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP - the best you can do is try to be as good to him as you can without compromising who you are as a person. You cannot change other people, they can only change themselves, and even then, it only happens if they really want to change. Hopefully, he will realize how his behavior makes you feel, and his love for you will inspire him to change. The paranoia that you are feeling comes from your own feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. That is why it is important to remember that you cannot allow the person you are with to determine whether you are happy or not, that must come from within you. The person you are with can enhance your happiness, they can even give you happiness, but you should never be dependent on them for happiness. I hope you are able to put aside your fear and enjoy the person you are with :-) "Be still, and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10 Truth needs no validation because it is self-evident and undeniable. Therefore, anything that requires validation to be realized or justified as truth must contain at least some degree of falsehood. Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak. [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23508092 Australia 01/01/2013 09:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Leave him, hes not worth the hassle. It will seem hard, but it would be harder doing an ept pregnancy test and seeing the word Pregnant. You may not think it will happen to you, but it really could, so be with an ugly guy who is calm and stable and not popular with the ladies, you will live a happier life. There are better enjoyments in life to be had, than sex with a cute guy, trust me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268 Or just take Birth Control and tell the hang on ex emptys to get the fark on with their life. Honestly If he still has them around, it is for a reason. Let him decide if he lives in the past UNTIL they finally get a real man and never speak to him again. Or If he wants to be fully in the present and have a real future with you. But if he is not showing you something totally different then they put up with, he is honestly not worth viewing as a long term partner anyway. Just call him on it and the result will show you exactly what you are to him ( same as they were or the real thing ). And If he wants them around, this has saved you more wasted months or years and you can move on and find the man who will truly appreciate the moment/future with you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25254305 United States 01/01/2013 10:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Leave him, hes not worth the hassle. It will seem hard, but it would be harder doing an ept pregnancy test and seeing the word Pregnant. You may not think it will happen to you, but it really could, so be with an ugly guy who is calm and stable and not popular with the ladies, you will live a happier life. There are better enjoyments in life to be had, than sex with a cute guy, trust me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31168268 Yep! Do you feel tortured by your thoughts? Your instinct? Now imagine every.single.day for the rest.of.your.life. Dump him and find someone you can trust. Why do unmarried women consistently stay with the wrong men instead of dusting off their feet and moving on to someone better? Your clock is ticking, quit wasting time with a player! |