Long distance girlfriend came to town and went out with friends without me... | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30938598 United States 01/01/2013 05:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not sure whether to keep her for some action on the side. She thinks we are together but how can that be when she dissed me and went out with her friends? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1546972 Just be honest with her. Ask her if she wants an exclusive relationship or is this just a standby till she decides what she really wants. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 18713240 United States 01/01/2013 05:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She claims that her friend invited her only. I'm going to have to stick to my guns and not talk to this girl anymore or take her phone calls. Quoting: OP 1546972 What would you do? Keep sticking her? She is hot though. Ugh! dump her ass. I had an ex-gf yrs ago who pulled this shit on me. Dumped her ass immediately and never regretted it. If you tolerate it, she will walk all over you - truth is, if she is already doing this, she's just not that into you so cut your losses and get a girl that appreciates you and wants to spend time with you |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 18713240 United States 01/01/2013 05:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Omg, a girl with a life, dump her, dump her nowwwwww. She'll never just sit on your sofa forever posting on GLP like me. You know you want me OP. Quoting: Anti Vortex you don't get it. Imagine if you have a bf who lives out of town and you rarely see him. He visits town and instead of wanting to spend the short time you have together with you he instead goes out with his buddies and doesn't invite you. Would you tolerate that? Bullshit |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31154490 United Kingdom 01/01/2013 05:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Omg, a girl with a life, dump her, dump her nowwwwww. She'll never just sit on your sofa forever posting on GLP like me. You know you want me OP. Quoting: Anti Vortex you don't get it. Imagine if you have a bf who lives out of town and you rarely see him. He visits town and instead of wanting to spend the short time you have together with you he instead goes out with his buddies and doesn't invite you. Would you tolerate that? Bullshit Actually, yeah I would. Because then I would know if he ever came to live with me that he would have a life outside of the house. I.e. he would be well adjusted and I wouldn't have to constantly take care of him. I've been in long distance relationships and I know how they cross over into living together. But if you're the co-dependent type, dump her for both of your sakes. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 31197015 Japan 01/01/2013 05:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | By "long-distance girlfriend" do you mean "somebody who I spoke to one time on line who i could tell really liked me deep down inside, and who is my real girlfriend even though she doesn't know it yet, and whose restraining order against me is just her way of playing hard to get?" |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23264627 Canada 01/01/2013 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Omg, a girl with a life, dump her, dump her nowwwwww. She'll never just sit on your sofa forever posting on GLP like me. You know you want me OP. Quoting: Anti Vortex you don't get it. Imagine if you have a bf who lives out of town and you rarely see him. He visits town and instead of wanting to spend the short time you have together with you he instead goes out with his buddies and doesn't invite you. Would you tolerate that? Bullshit burn her house down quick before she gets insurance |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14423482 Canada 01/01/2013 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | By "long-distance girlfriend" do you mean "somebody who I spoke to one time on line who i could tell really liked me deep down inside, and who is my real girlfriend even though she doesn't know it yet, and whose restraining order against me is just her way of playing hard to get?" Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31197015 Replace restraining order with daddys shotgun. Welcome to Amerika! |
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Ralph--a house dog User ID: 25802009 United States 01/01/2013 05:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Continue to see the long distance one when she comes to town, but don't sit around pining away for her when she isn't with you. And don't tell her anything about what you are doing. Just let her wonder. In other words, GET A LIFE. Last Edited by Ralph--a house dog on 01/01/2013 05:35 PM "Do Not Go Gentle into that Good Night.....Rage, rage against the dying of the light"-----Dylan Thomas HIS NAME IS SETH RICH [link to biblicalselfdefense.com] [link to forum.1111ers.blog] Always remember that "for the greater good" will not include YOU. "Who decides?" ---Robert A. Heinlein -'Whoever would overthrow the liberty of a nation must begin by subduing the freeness of speech.'—Benjamin Franklin [link to www.westcoasttruth.com] The only thing worth paying full retail for is pantyhose. You cannot do all of the good the world needs, but the world needs all of the good you can do. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 14423482 Canada 01/01/2013 05:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why not pretend like its no big deal and keep banging her? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14907108 While doing that start looking for a decent girl. I mean if she's hot and a good lay why cut her off completely, just cut her off emotionally. THIS. Start wearing a condom and now you can degrade her in ways you promised yourself you wouldn't ever do. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26372742 Canada 01/01/2013 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so many whiny men on glp. op, why don't you talk to your girlfriend? actually explain to her that you were hurt by her actions. tell her that you want to be exclusive. clear communication is based on knowing what you want. if you want her, tell her. don't whine to glp. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31294725 United Kingdom 01/01/2013 05:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why not pretend like its no big deal and keep banging her? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14907108 While doing that start looking for a decent girl. I mean if she's hot and a good lay why cut her off completely, just cut her off emotionally. THIS. Start wearing a condom and now you can degrade her in ways you promised yourself you wouldn't ever do. actually damn good point. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 18713240 United States 01/01/2013 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so many whiny men on glp. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 op, why don't you talk to your girlfriend? actually explain to her that you were hurt by her actions. tell her that you want to be exclusive. clear communication is based on knowing what you want. if you want her, tell her. don't whine to glp. lol u want to turn him into a doormat - that shit don't work. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26372742 Canada 01/01/2013 06:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | so many whiny men on glp. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 op, why don't you talk to your girlfriend? actually explain to her that you were hurt by her actions. tell her that you want to be exclusive. clear communication is based on knowing what you want. if you want her, tell her. don't whine to glp. lol u want to turn him into a doormat - that shit don't work. no, that is how it works with women. you have to be clear in your communication with them. women are masters at communication. men are not. women will pick up on body language, over analyze things, and then one thing into something completely different.....if there is no clear communication from the man. a man admitting vulnerability does not make him weak in a women's eyes. it is being clear in his communication---with himself, and with her. |
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