My beloved dog is dying I can believed, 15 years together buaaaa

3 weeks ago I cradled my 15 year old persian kitty as she passed , and I held her as she transitioned, looking in her eyes, and we told her that we loved her and thanked her for all the happiness and love she had brought into our lives

I just kept petting her head and letting her know how grateful I was for the tim we spent, and even after she stopped moving, I could see light in her eyes. I know that the soul remains with the body even when it appears they are gone...and hearing is the last function to go

I sgree it seems so unfait that their lives are so short compared to ours...but they are pure love. They are only here to love, I cannot comprehend how people can hurt them the way they do sometimes.

You are very lucky to be able to feel OP, and to be able to appreciate this kind of friendship, there are many who do not feel and can't understand even your pain right now...

There are no words which can fill the hurt and emptiness when a friend like that passes, but posters here are right. When you can, bring a new puppy or dog into your life. The cycle continues and you can bring love to another pet's life

Much love to you and your dog, Feru... very sorry to hear about this.

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I'm sorry Feru. Maybe he needs to hear that it's ok to leave and that you'll be ok without him. It might not be true, but maybe it's what he needs to hear? My heart goes out to you.

Dogs don't fear death like we do. Had my Rottweiler cross put to sleep last year and it hurt me much more than it hurt him. I'll see him on the other side :)

I am sorry, Feru... :-(

It is too bad, yes, that dogs live so short a time. They have a heart as big as 10 men. They shame us with their patience, love, and loyal integrity.

Your dog will forever be missed.

Remember him always as a gift from God specifically to you, Feru.

I am tearing up -- my eyes are leaking... :-(

I am sure you are too and your heart is breaking... so sad. :-(

Your doggie, Gringo loco... he love you much forever.

I almost can't handle this thread, it's got me so sad!

I JUST got a dog, a sort of rescue in a way, from a friend. He suspected that the people he was staying with were mistreating his little shih tzu while he was at work, and I had always told him, "If you ever find yourself needing a home for her, I'm right here.". Well, I got her on Saturday. She's only two, but I'm in pure LOVE!

We also have an old pit mix, she's faithful and loving as well. She's almost 11, and already showing signs of getting a little bit slower. She's more my husband's dog, but man oh man, when it's her time things are going to be real real bad around here. Still, it's worth that bit of pain for all the joy she brings to us.

Bless your heart, Feru, so many of us understand and are sorry you are heartbroken.

:( I have my two dogs sleeping next to my bed right now. That's terrible OP. I'm grateful that mine are still young. I fear having to part with them one day. Be strong. Give your dog lots of affection and feed it a nice juicy steak before it goes to jupiter.

I lost my golden retriever three months ago to an aggressive form of cancer. It hurt so much and still does, the look on her face on that final day when she knew what was coming will haunt me for the rest of my life. I'll never replace her because I couldn't bear to see a little goldie puppy running around my house.

Aww, Feru

So sorry you are going through this. I too, send you good thoughts during this difficult time. I hope your dear friend is in comfort, and transitions in peace. Glad you can spend this time with him, your caring and love. Best of wishes for you both.

Sorry to hear.
I remember when he was so sick last year. Sounds like you have loved him unconditionally.

The Rainbow Bridge

:( Sorry. I had my dog for 16 years. It was like losing a family member, I cried like a baby.

Oh Feru, I am so sorry you are losing your friend.

About a week after we lost our beloved doggie, we were sitting in the living room reading when we heard him bark.

We turned to one another and asked, did you just hear what I heard, one last goodbye bark.

He came to let us know he was ok and in a better place.
It comforted us to hear him that one last time.

My heart goes out to you.
Give your doggie an extra hug from me tonight and one for you as well.



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Oh no Feru I'm so sorry to hear about your dear doggy!

Sending you love and hugs...Yes it's the price we have to pay but it is worth every moment.

Why can't humans be as loveable?

We suck.

So sorry, Feru. My dog passed three years ago and I'm still heart broken - haven't been able to get another.

He will be waiting at the Rainbow Bridge and maybe he will even check up on you from time to time before then.

When my dog was alive he would come to my bed right after I got in and would lick my check or give me a poke in the side to say goodnight to me. I would then pet his head. It was his ritual.

After he died I have felt something nudge my check or my side several times right after I lay down on . It's as if he visits from time to time to tell me he'll be waiting at the bridge.

Wishing you the best. It's such a hard thing to go through - losing a wonderful, special friend. But just know, you will see him again.

they will clone your dog in South Korea for a few thousand dollars I think.

I will ask St. Francis of Assisi to accompany both of you this evening. Peace be with both of you. God Bless!

Oh Feru, this is so hard to go through. We are sending you healing thoughts across the miles. Those sweet doggie eyes may close but his love will always be there in your heart right there with you. Don't despair, he is going to a better place and he will be there waiting when it's your turn. There is a better place than this....

I'm sorry, Feru. Been through that myself. It sucks :-(

Sorry to hear :( I have gone through it with 2 black labs. Both ended up with cancer at age 15 and died in their sleep at home next to me. Now I just have 2 cats and don't want to think about facing it again.

Know the felling. My dog is my best friend. He has been the only thing to keep me going sometime. Truly Mans best friend.

Feel for you.

Hope he gets better!

I'm so sorry..this is tough and some people don't understand. If I may share my experience...euthanasia by a vet is quick and peaceful. When it is time, do him that last dignity so he can be spared death pangs. And take care of yourself, and consider a new dog sooner rather than later. Sending love.

Feru and beloved pup.

He will rapture in advance !!

I feel so bad for you Feru. I went through this with my yellow lab about 6 years ago. He was 15 years old and so sick. He could barely walk. I finally called the vet to my house to put him to sleep because I knew he was in so much pain.

For months, I cried every time I thought of him, but knew I made the right decision.

I feel like crying just thinking of what you're going through right now, but when they are that old and sick you will feel a sense of relief that they are no longer in any pain.

Hang in there.

Yes, it's always a good idea to "release" the dying. God bless.

"I can believed"?

The thing about dogs is you form a real bond with them that is friendship. I agree it is a horrible thing to have your beloved friend who loves you unconditionally die and have felt the same thing too many times.

I have a tortoise that I have had for 20 years and I know will outlive me, but there is no real bond other than he comes to me because he knows I am who provides for him. I do have some feelings for him as a living thing but when he dies I doubt I will actually cry like I did when 3 dogs of mine died. Two lived to be 18 and 20 and the other was poisoned at age 7.

hi guys I was out of civilization for few days...with my dog who miraculous survive the crisis. He lives day by day but actually recover most of his personality. He Can´t walk well but makes the effort. The good thing is that he eats and poo ok.

He is like the Highlander.

I did told him that day when he was very ill, that is OK if he is ready to go, I´m ready to let him go.
We sleep together in the floor for 3 days because I was afraid he fell from bed.
Today he woke me up with his typical funny face really close to me.
I know his time is close but goshh he really makes his best effort to be well so I have to give my best effort to keep him well and spend the most time I can with him.
Thanks for prayers and good vibes he is tired but feels better
I know he will go soon, but at least Today was a good day for both of us.

Thanks guys