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My parents ... not sure why I'm posting this...

 
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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Yes she does.

But teach through a positive way my friend.
 Quoting: Sloane


She does not respond to positive teaching.

There are many ways to teach...
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


What should I improve?
 Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi


Don't rely on mass attention to fill the void within.

That void comes from your upbringing.

Try and fill that void yourself or work on finding that special one who fills your void.



I don't use mass attention to fill the void.

It's just that I get bored sometimes ...

and the weather is cold.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes

Vegetable season
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01/04/2013 12:08 AM

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You know what - dont' make a joke about it. Just quit playing with people who are searching and trying to find their way.
 Quoting: Sloane


Jokes open up a place of truth that sticks in the brain.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Last Edited by Sloane on 01/04/2013 12:08 AM
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01/04/2013 12:11 AM

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Just quit playing with people who are searching and trying to find their way.
 Quoting: Sloane


If they made their way to me, it means they are on the right path.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Seriously . . . I've always liked you but you need to get over yourself.

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Just quit playing with people who are searching and trying to find their way.
 Quoting: Sloane


If they made their way to me, it means they are on the right path.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Seriously . . . I've always liked you but you need to get over yourself.
 Quoting: Sloane


That is what they all say.

Until they meet me.

And are instantly smitten. :)
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Hahaha! Alright this time round, you win.

everytime
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I mirror the person I am with and become what they need or are lacking.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


This characteristic lead me to diagnose you with Borderline Personality Disorder.
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I mirror the person I am with and become what they need or are lacking.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


This characteristic lead me to diagnose you with Borderline Personality Disorder.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31121549


I'm willing to bet you have been clinically diagnosed before.
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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I don't use mass attention to fill the void.

It's just that I get bored sometimes ...

and the weather is cold.
 Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi


What do you do when its hot?
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


I don't like hot weather.

When it's hot outside I like to go to the mall.

I enjoy hiking & camping during the summer...
Vegetable season
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01/04/2013 12:18 AM
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OP, I feel for your troubles, but I am concerned that this might be related to Narcissistic Supply issues. I hope you find your way, and sort things out with your parents. You don't have to define yourself according to what others think of you. ((((((LOVE)))))
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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LOL.
Vegetable season
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01/04/2013 12:19 AM
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FYI

You posted it because of attention whore syndrome
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Just quit playing with people who are searching and trying to find their way.
 Quoting: Sloane


If they made their way to me, it means they are on the right path.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Seriously . . . I've always liked you but you need to get over yourself.
 Quoting: Sloane


Hey Sloane... did you know i love you??
"Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense."
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I miss my boyfriend a lot… We decided to stay with our own parents during the vacations…. so he went back to cali and I had to stay here because my dad is doing a research and my mom wouldn't stay alone in our house because in my opinion she has dependency problems.

Since I can remember I have always been depressed… until I met my boyfriend. He kind of made all the darkness go away. I've never felt so comfortable with someone before. I can talk to him about everything and that has really helped me a lot.

During my childhood (from since I can remember to high school) I didn't really received much attention from my parents… at least not emotional attention. I mean, they would always try to please me with material things and they would always say "yes"…. but they were never really there for me.

I wanted regular parents… Parents who say "no" sometimes… parents who punish their kids when they do something that's wrong… and I did a lot of bad things.

My parents never had time for me. They were always with their friends laughing, gossiping and drinking pretty alcoholic drinks. … Maybe that's why I hate alcohol. They would always make an excuse to make a party. The holidays were my least favorite days. During the preparations for the parties my dad was always so angry because he is such a perfectionist. He would often say bad words and curse everything … even what is considered holy.

I always thought he was a huge hypocrite because he used to talk so much about religion and criticize people for doing bad things but he was exactly the same.

I hated my dad for a long time because he used to make my mom cry and I hated her for being so submissive and not doing anything. She would just cry…

They were two-faced…. When we were alone my dad would just work, work, work and practically ignore me and my brother…. and my mother did the same… and when she was not working she was gossiping (there were exceptions)….. but when their friends were around they were good loving parents….

Mom was my favorite because she used to tell us stories sometimes before going to bed and she used to be with us during school awards, plays, graduations… etc…. Dad was always too busy. I'm not sure why… I mean he is a biologist but I've seen my biology professors spend time with their family and go to their school activities…

I think they feel guilty now because my mom cries and apologize for "not being a great mother" …. and my dad has a weird way to express the same. I think it is kind of late… I mean I obviously forgive them but I will never be able to have a personal conversation with them. Honestly, I kind of avoid my dad. I love him but ….idk… I just don't like to be with him… it feels awkward.


Anyway, I think that is all. I just needed to express myself because I've been feeling kind of bad lately.

I cannot wait for the classes to start… I miss college, professors, people and my boyfriend.
 Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi


Your parents had to live in the same world you are growing up in. They were living the life they probably felt they were supposed to be living. Understand that society has a way of shaping people to do the wrong thing...it's kind of like the guys running the show are trying to destroy the family from the root up. Your Mom cries and feels bad because she has matured and sees her follies. It's time for you to try and do the same in terms of maturing and realize that holding on to their mistakes will only hold you back in life. Blaming anyone for your life or feels will only keep you down and will always give you a feeling of depression. You must learn to let it all go and just love them for the people they are. Many people have parents that don't work at all and do drugs and fail so bad their kids can't go to college...you are blessed with hard working parents that over indulged in the party life...judging them all your life is just going to destroy you...
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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OP, I feel for your troubles, but I am concerned that this might be related to Narcissistic Supply issues. I hope you find your way, and sort things out with your parents. You don't have to define yourself according to what others think of you. ((((((LOVE)))))
 Quoting: Junkyard Lily


I'm not narcissistic but thank you for writing :)

I am slowly trying to have a regular relationship with them .

Some day :)

Thank u
Vegetable season
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01/04/2013 12:23 AM
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FYI

You posted it because of attention whore syndrome
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30755360


You're right I did.

But then again my DNA is highly magnetic so wherever I go people follow.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


You're so full of yourself that you couldn't see AC was talking to OP.
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01/04/2013 12:25 AM
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WTF??

Do you really look like that in your avatar and your signature?

burnit
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01/04/2013 12:26 AM
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Why is this pinned? Pretty girl with daddy issues, is top post on a conspiracy message board? What wacky world are we in?
It's cool, you got problems, we all got problems, worse problems.
Can we get back to other crazy shit now?
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01/04/2013 12:27 AM

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Just quit playing with people who are searching and trying to find their way.
 Quoting: Sloane


If they made their way to me, it means they are on the right path.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Seriously . . . I've always liked you but you need to get over yourself.
 Quoting: Sloane


Hey Sloane... did you know i love you??
 Quoting: Qarley


QARLEY!! Hey girlie! Let's highjack this thread, hahaha.

urock
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She's not that attractive people.. wow, get out much?
She's a baby.
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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FYI

You posted it because of attention whore syndrome
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You don't know me
Vegetable season
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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01/04/2013 12:28 AM
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Re: My parents ... not sure why I'm posting this...
I don't use mass attention to fill the void.

It's just that I get bored sometimes ...

and the weather is cold.
 Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi


What do you do when its hot?
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


I don't like hot weather.

When it's hot outside I like to go to the mall.

I enjoy hiking & camping during the summer...
 Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi


What mountain top would you like to reach?
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Idk ... definitely not a cold one.
Vegetable season
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So that means I'm boring ?
 Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi


It means you are not my cup of tea.

But maybe you are in luck, the Brits LOVE tea!
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


OYE! You are usually not so unkind.

"Not your cup of tea"? Really?

Why does it have to be about what kind of female you pursue - and just accept her as a person.
 Quoting: Sloane


Someone must teach her that this type of behavior should be refined.

She has the potential to become a real charming Lady.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes

Everyone has the potential to be really charming.

But her potential is no more than average.
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01/04/2013 12:29 AM

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Seven pages over some silly girl. Nice job truth seekers. See all the red karma this chick has? She's a distraction looking for attention.
In a time of universal deceit - telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
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Sorry, it's super pinned along with the thread "can't stop crying".. yeah that's what's become of this board...
To think I was going to register...
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Seven pages over some silly girl. Nice job truth seekers. See all the red karma this chick has? She's a distraction looking for attention.
 Quoting: RANDOMguy


The odd thing is, she isn't generating hate from other females. I am a little surprised by that, do I not understand women as well as I thought?
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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I miss my boyfriend a lot… We decided to stay with our own parents during the vacations…. so he went back to cali and I had to stay here because my dad is doing a research and my mom wouldn't stay alone in our house because in my opinion she has dependency problems.

Since I can remember I have always been depressed… until I met my boyfriend. He kind of made all the darkness go away. I've never felt so comfortable with someone before. I can talk to him about everything and that has really helped me a lot.

During my childhood (from since I can remember to high school) I didn't really received much attention from my parents… at least not emotional attention. I mean, they would always try to please me with material things and they would always say "yes"…. but they were never really there for me.

I wanted regular parents… Parents who say "no" sometimes… parents who punish their kids when they do something that's wrong… and I did a lot of bad things.

My parents never had time for me. They were always with their friends laughing, gossiping and drinking pretty alcoholic drinks. … Maybe that's why I hate alcohol. They would always make an excuse to make a party. The holidays were my least favorite days. During the preparations for the parties my dad was always so angry because he is such a perfectionist. He would often say bad words and curse everything … even what is considered holy.

I always thought he was a huge hypocrite because he used to talk so much about religion and criticize people for doing bad things but he was exactly the same.

I hated my dad for a long time because he used to make my mom cry and I hated her for being so submissive and not doing anything. She would just cry…

They were two-faced…. When we were alone my dad would just work, work, work and practically ignore me and my brother…. and my mother did the same… and when she was not working she was gossiping (there were exceptions)….. but when their friends were around they were good loving parents….

Mom was my favorite because she used to tell us stories sometimes before going to bed and she used to be with us during school awards, plays, graduations… etc…. Dad was always too busy. I'm not sure why… I mean he is a biologist but I've seen my biology professors spend time with their family and go to their school activities…

I think they feel guilty now because my mom cries and apologize for "not being a great mother" …. and my dad has a weird way to express the same. I think it is kind of late… I mean I obviously forgive them but I will never be able to have a personal conversation with them. Honestly, I kind of avoid my dad. I love him but ….idk… I just don't like to be with him… it feels awkward.


Anyway, I think that is all. I just needed to express myself because I've been feeling kind of bad lately.

I cannot wait for the classes to start… I miss college, professors, people and my boyfriend.
 Quoting: Barbara P. Strigoi


Your parents had to live in the same world you are growing up in. They were living the life they probably felt they were supposed to be living. Understand that society has a way of shaping people to do the wrong thing...it's kind of like the guys running the show are trying to destroy the family from the root up. Your Mom cries and feels bad because she has matured and sees her follies. It's time for you to try and do the same in terms of maturing and realize that holding on to their mistakes will only hold you back in life. Blaming anyone for your life or feels will only keep you down and will always give you a feeling of depression. You must learn to let it all go and just love them for the people they are. Many people have parents that don't work at all and do drugs and fail so bad their kids can't go to college...you are blessed with hard working parents that over indulged in the party life...judging them all your life is just going to destroy you...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10883673



No, I forgave them :)

I love them.

We still don't have a regular relationship... They are trying but it's just awkward.

But some day we will have a regular relationship.
Vegetable season
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Seven pages over some silly girl. Nice job truth seekers. See all the red karma this chick has? She's a distraction looking for attention.
 Quoting: RANDOMguy


Attraction is truth

To some
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Please just Stfu. That makes zero sense. This one was directed to you. Since I have to spell it out.
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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OYE! You are usually not so unkind.

"Not your cup of tea"? Really?

Why does it have to be about what kind of female you pursue - and just accept her as a person.
 Quoting: Sloane


Someone must teach her that this type of behavior should be refined.

She has the potential to become a real charming Lady.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes

Everyone has the potential to be really charming.

But her potential is no more than average.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30670070


Allow Barbie the ability to exercise her free will in regards to that.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


I have a huge potential. i just need to relax.
Vegetable season
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Seven pages over some silly girl. Nice job truth seekers. See all the red karma this chick has? She's a distraction looking for attention.
 Quoting: RANDOMguy


Attraction is truth

To some
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Please just Stfu. That makes zero sense. This one was directed to you. Since I have to spell it out.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6757239


Ask yourself why that makes you angry
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


That came out angrier than I meant it. Haha
My bad. Why should I register, more barbie posts?
Barbara P. Strigoi (OP)

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01/04/2013 12:35 AM
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WTF??

Do you really look like that in your avatar and your signature?

burnit
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yes
Vegetable season
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01/04/2013 12:36 AM
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Re: My parents ... not sure why I'm posting this...
Life is too short to hold a grudge. It sounds like they are trying to make amends in their own dysfunctional ways.

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