I want to ask a question and it's not in a sarcastic way or anything, I honestly wish to hear thoughts about this. Imagine for a moment that this kid was born in a society in which both men and women dressed in long non revealing white robes and both genders wore the hair just the same. Imagine that there weren't any gender specific games or customs (besides of course the natural sexual roles of males fecundating the females and these in turn giving birth, which basically you can't hide).

Now do you think in such societies these kids could at these young ages be able to say, I feel like this or I feel like that? What are these conceptions of being a girl or being a boy but superficial cultural traits developed in our particular societies? Does wanting to wear short skirts and make up and playing with dolls make you girly? do all societies have such traits to be able to determine that measure?

It seems to me this whole thing is just a societal, circumstantial, environmental mindfuck and I ain't no religtard. But let me hear what you folks think.