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Upset Grandma
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My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
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Call the cops ya dumb bitch don't let that little whore run over your fucking family. Tell them what she did and show them your house and she will lose custody and have a restraining order put on her stupid ass.

Sorry about the dumb bitch deal I figured you need a swift kick in the taint on this one.
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File a police report with regards to the vandalized property and establish a good paper trail of her violent behavior. It kind of sounds like she's on drugs to me.

After that I recommend prayer. Find a good Bible believing church and get the pastor to put your case in the church bulletin. Prayer is powerful.
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Sorry, the presence of a violent psychopath around your grandson is not a nurturing environment.
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Blessings and peace to your family.
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Does this fucking look by like Dear Abby to you?
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
Call the cops ya dumb bitch don't let that little whore run over your fucking family. Tell them what she did and show them your house and she will lose custody and have a restraining order put on her stupid ass.

Sorry about the dumb bitch deal I figured you need a swift kick in the taint on this one.
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They did come but because it became a medical emergency I don't what happened after. They took her name, car and where she went but I don't know if I should go down the police station to follow through or what. On top of it I've been dealing with an abscess tooth for 2 days extreme pain. Should I get a restraining order through a domestic violence place locally? I know of one.
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Call her parents and when they come to pick her up, give her a gogurt or a lolly pop and give her some cash to go buy a training bra.
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Hitch the trailer home to the pickup and move somewhere else.
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Beat her ass
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slaphim

You've got to firmly stand up for yourself.
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
File a police report with regards to the vandalized property and establish a good paper trail of her violent behavior. It kind of sounds like she's on drugs to me.

After that I recommend prayer. Find a good Bible believing church and get the pastor to put your case in the church bulletin. Prayer is powerful.
 Quoting: SevenThunders

We do belong to a church. If my old nature would have come out I would have punched her lights out. I think I was too stunned to react when she did that. Beyond disrespectful ,and I do pray for them everyday.
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Hitch the trailer home to the pickup and move somewhere else.
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We live in a 4th generation family home. I feel like leaving and selling the house sometimes, I really do.
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Call the cops ya dumb bitch don't let that little whore run over your fucking family. Tell them what she did and show them your house and she will lose custody and have a restraining order put on her stupid ass.

Sorry about the dumb bitch deal I figured you need a swift kick in the taint on this one.
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They did come but because it became a medical emergency I don't what happened after. They took her name, car and where she went but I don't know if I should go down the police station to follow through or what. On top of it I've been dealing with an abscess tooth for 2 days extreme pain. Should I get a restraining order through a domestic violence place locally? I know of one.
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Yes you very well fucking should you should go there immediately after you get out of the hospital. What you do is tell them what the fuck happened and that she is a crazy bitch and that you want a restraining order and you want to file to get custody of your grandson. You may have to go to social services on the custody deal not real sure never had a kid before but I assume that's where one would go to deal with nut job parents. Take pictures and make sure you get the EMTs and Cops names and info in case you need a subpoena. Also you may want to see if your neighbors will testify to what happened if she was outside screaming like a rabid banshee chances are someone heard/watched her be a fucking loon. So get that shit together and get that cunt out of your kids life.
Trust me if you don't your son sure as fuck wont. No offense but he sounds like a total ladyboy I would knock a bitch the fuck out over her doing something like that.
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Spitting in the face is assault.

Time for her to spend a little time in the county lockup with Bertha.
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Does this fucking look by like Dear Abby to you?
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Hey asshole! Some people have no one else to talk to when they are upset and GLP is a good place to get a bit of support or advice. Part of what makes it such a fine site.
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
Call the cops ya dumb bitch don't let that little whore run over your fucking family. Tell them what she did and show them your house and she will lose custody and have a restraining order put on her stupid ass.

Sorry about the dumb bitch deal I figured you need a swift kick in the taint on this one.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27764698


They did come but because it became a medical emergency I don't what happened after. They took her name, car and where she went but I don't know if I should go down the police station to follow through or what. On top of it I've been dealing with an abscess tooth for 2 days extreme pain. Should I get a restraining order through a domestic violence place locally? I know of one.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 844118


Yes you very well fucking should you should go there immediately after you get out of the hospital. What you do is tell them what the fuck happened and that she is a crazy bitch and that you want a restraining order and you want to file to get custody of your grandson. You may have to go to social services on the custody deal not real sure never had a kid before but I assume that's where one would go to deal with nut job parents. Take pictures and make sure you get the EMTs and Cops names and info in case you need a subpoena. Also you may want to see if your neighbors will testify to what happened if she was outside screaming like a rabid banshee chances are someone heard/watched her be a fucking loon. So get that shit together and get that cunt out of your kids life.
Trust me if you don't your son sure as fuck wont. No offense but he sounds like a total ladyboy I would knock a bitch the fuck out over her doing something like that.
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Also you could have her committed by getting your son and any other character witnesses to go to a judge and file to have a psychiatric evaluation. Seeing as she is technically family you have full right to do this. They will only hold her three days if she can pass a psyche eval, however three days is a good head start on kicking that bitch to the curb and selling your house and dipping to Florida or somewhere where its nice and warm and the cunt is far the fuck away from.
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
 Quoting: Upset Grandma 844118


Why should YOU have to "Anything".

He's a man, isn't he.

Why does he not defend your honour? (like a man)

An old Jew once told me about his wife "If it's time to raise your voice--it's time to raise your hand" Every once in a while she would show up with a black eye that even makeup wouldn't hide.

Now that was a while back, before the NWO decided to get involved in everyones family life.

But you know what....she always seemed real chipper to me.
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Does this fucking look by like Dear Abby to you?
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Hey asshole! Some people have no one else to talk to when they are upset and GLP is a good place to get a bit of support or advice. Part of what makes it such a fine site.
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Thank you. I've been coming here for years.
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
 Quoting: Upset Grandma 844118


Why should YOU have to "Anything".

He's a man, isn't he.

Why does he not defend your honour? (like a man)

An old Jew once told me about his wife "If it's time to raise your voice--it's time to raise your hand" Every once in a while she would show up with a black eye that even makeup wouldn't hide.

Now that was a while back, before the NWO decided to get involved in everyones family life.

But you know what....she always seemed real chipper to me.
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DAMN!:gingerkid:

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I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
 Quoting: Upset Grandma 844118

First, you need to take care of your health, please. Getting all riled up and having a heart issue is not going to help your grandson.

Visitations at your grandson's home are fraught with problems. Why do it? Take him somewhere. If it's volatile, then again, it makes no sense, and probably he'll remember all of you arguing and that's awful to do in front of a child.

The child comes first, not your feelings, your son's, or the mom's.

I know it's difficult. I've been in some very hostile situations before. Stay calm. This is easier when creating a loving environment during the visitation.

Custody battles are very rough. It's a lot of finger pointing. I won't begin to give you advice. It didn't happen overnight. There must be terrible history.

Document everything. It's an ugly fact of any domestic situation, and unfortunantly getting the police involved is part of that process as well as child services.

What does your pastor and husband say? Remember, this is your son's issue, not yours. Imagine you are the mom and your mother-in-law was in the middle. It would be awful, right?

Not judging. I hope you work things out, get to see your grandson, and take care of your health. Sounds like he needs his grandma, yes?

Saying prayers for you for discernment.

If you can get court-ordered visitation for YOU and your grandson seperately, then you can have quality time alone, just you and him in peace.

Don't make snap decisions. Be the better person.

Last Edited by Don'tBeAfraid on 01/07/2013 01:59 AM
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I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
 Quoting: Upset Grandma 844118


Why should YOU have to "Anything".

He's a man, isn't he.

Why does he not defend your honour? (like a man)

An old Jew once told me about his wife "If it's time to raise your voice--it's time to raise your hand" Every once in a while she would show up with a black eye that even makeup wouldn't hide.

Now that was a while back, before the NWO decided to get involved in everyones family life.

But you know what....she always seemed real chipper to me.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12366656

He left with his son before she did this. We were here alone and she was raging after they left. He says he's done with her but I'be heard that before. My husband said I should have punched her for doing that and now everyone is upset. He came home when I called him from the ambulance. I don't know why I kept trying to help her - it's only because of my GS. That's the only reason I guess.
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I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
 Quoting: Upset Grandma 844118

First, you need to take care of your health, please. Getting all riled up and having a heart issue is not going to help your grandson.

Visitations at your grandson's home are fraught with problems. Why do it? Take him somewhere. If it's volatile, then again, it makes no sense, and probably he'll remember all of you arguing and that's awful to do in front of a child.

The child comes first, not your feelings, your son's, or the mom's.

I know it's difficult. I've been in some very hostile situations before. Stay calm. This is easier when creating a loving environment during the visitation.

Custody battles are very rough. It's a lot of finger pointing. I won't begin to give you advice. It didn't happen overnight. There must be terrible history.

Document everything. It's an ugly fact of any domestic situation, and unfortunantly getting the police involved is part of that process as well as child services.

What does your pastor and husband say? Remember, this is your son's issue, not yours. Imagine you are the mom and your mother-in-law was in the middle. It would be awful, right?

Not judging. I hope you work things out, get to see your grandson, and take care of your health. Sounds like he needs his grandma, yes?

Saying prayers for you for discernment.

If you can get court-ordered visitation for YOU and your grandson seperately, then you can have quality time alone, just you and him in peace.

Don't make snap decisions. Be the better person.
 Quoting: Don'tBeAfraid


Thank you. This is what I needed to hear. My GS and I have a very special relationship. I could leave for just 10 minutes and when he sees me he gets all excited and says "where you been all my life grandma?". He is the light for me in this very dark world. I would do anything for him. We have spent alot of time together since he was born.
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saggy titty or GTFO
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That means she swallows. Lucky boy
Spitting in the face is assault.

Time for her to spend a little time in the county lockup with Bertha.
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Thank you. This is what I needed to hear. My GS and I have a very special relationship. I could leave for just 10 minutes and when he sees me he gets all excited and says "where you been all my life grandma?". He is the light for me in this very dark world. I would do anything for him. We have spent alot of time together since he was born.
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You are welcome. The hardest thing is staying calm. We want to lash out when attacked. Don't risk it. Striking her, restraining her, even if she breaks property put you in a very bad situation with the law. Call them instead as it happens. Keep a cell phone handy. Take pictures or video as it happens. I bet she stops.

Every call will be documented. Believe me, a judge will see that you showed restraint, while she acted crazy. Officer testimony will be very valuable.

Help your son stay calm too. The natural response is aggression and this would seriously harm any chance of him spending time with his son.

The goal is quality time with the boy, right? The goal is not to jump in and fight his mom.

Do some deep introspection and see if there's a reason that she's being violent. Do you hate her? Do you wish that the relationship could be healed? I bet that you want the latter. Believe me a boy needs his mom, no matter how bad a mom.

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Spitting in the face is assault.

Time for her to spend a little time in the county lockup with Bertha.
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this^^ clappa
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She sounds like she is either a heavy drug user or a time bomb waiting to go off.

You should most definitely follow through with the police. Get a paper trail. For your own sanity, and your GS's mental health, call the cops the minute she starts. Don't let it escalate to the point where you fear for your own health. They should have been called before she had the chance to break the tv.

If you don't get this documented, with the cops, she can say anything she wants, if she ever decides to go after full custody, or she decides to pick up and leave with the child. You want it on record that she is the problem and not you and your family. If she continues, to the point where it is unbearable for your GS, your son might go for full custody and you want enough against her to show that she is unstable at best.

Plus, your son needs to stop arguing with her. That little boy was hiding because of both of them, not just her. Two to tango.

If she starts again, he shouldn't argue but instead call the police and tell them he fears for his life. Tell them she is unstable and violent and you can't handle her anymore.

And haul her ass into small claims court to pay for your jeep. If you feel guilty about taking that money away from your grandson then just take it and buy him something he needs.

You are allowing her to do this by putting up with it. When she realizes your through taking her crap, she'll stop.

Also remember, grandparents rights aren't absolute. You don't want her cutting you off from seeing him, by making you the bad guy.

If she continues to do this when your grandson is being picked up, call the cops and ask them to have a patrolman meet you there when she is handing him off. Tell them she gets violent.

This is not fair to your GS and if she won't stop it then you will have to.

Good luck.
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two words restraining order and maybe a trip before a judge to take complete custody away but that also depends on if she was the one who started it or was it your son. But definitely she doesnt belong at your house period.
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Call the cops tomorrow and make sure they filed a police report on it. If they didn't, insist that you want one on record.
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Welcome to modern day America, where the women are psychotic and not worth shit.
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I meant women below the age of about 45

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