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My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight

 
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Some folks just need a reset smack ...! Trust me it works .. I'm not sure how it happens too some folks. They get this sense of intitlement, and become fucking monsters.??? Please explain.? I'm perplexed?
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01/17/2013 11:37 PM
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And so are the days of our lives......at the Shady Trails trailer park village. Ya'll come back now, ya' hear!
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01/18/2013 03:47 AM
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
OP, the people who comment with insults obviously have not bothered to read the thread.

Yes, you have done what needed to be done, and you have lifted yourself above the crazy woman's level and done it all legally.

Please disregard the ignorant posts in this thread and keep us updated on how your situation is going.

Last Edited by goodmockingbird on 01/18/2013 03:47 AM
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01/18/2013 04:07 AM
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
You know, it is YOUR house, kick her out!!!

let your son and grand baby stay.
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01/18/2013 04:14 AM

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Does this fucking look by like Dear Abby to you?
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You must be new to GLP.
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And so are the days of our lives......at the Shady Trails trailer park village. Ya'll come back now, ya' hear!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 944253


Myth: Most domestic violence occurs in lower class or minority communities.

Fact: Domestic violence occurs at all levels of society, regardless of their social, economic, racial or cultural backgrounds.
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01/18/2013 04:30 AM
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hiding
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01/18/2013 04:33 AM
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
Your son's girlfriend, who is the mother of the grandson,
is upset.

I bet she is.
Your problem here, is your son.
He got a girl pregnant, and did he pay for the medical
and child support?
Is he paying?
Did he offer to marry her?

Unless your son marries the girlfriend, you have no
legal rights at all in the situation, and he may not
have either depending on what state you live in.

You sound like a somewhat less than well educated
manipulator to me, as a gramma.

You've raised an irresponsible son.

The son of this woman you are defaming on GLP is
probably better off without you contributing to the
irresponsibility of her son.

Where is your son's father? Lots of information not
supplied here. And no way should you be 'buddies'
with this small child your son is responsible for.
That makes you as irresponsible as your son.

People like you make my head hurt.
nutmeg

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01/18/2013 04:44 AM

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Your son's girlfriend, who is the mother of the grandson,
is upset.

I bet she is.
Your problem here, is your son.
He got a girl pregnant, and did he pay for the medical
and child support?
Is he paying?
Did he offer to marry her?

Unless your son marries the girlfriend, you have no
legal rights at all in the situation, and he may not
have either depending on what state you live in.

You sound like a somewhat less than well educated
manipulator to me, as a gramma.

You've raised an irresponsible son.

The son of this woman you are defaming on GLP is
probably better off without you contributing to the
irresponsibility of her son.

Where is your son's father? Lots of information not
supplied here. And no way should you be 'buddies'
with this small child your son is responsible for.
That makes you as irresponsible as your son.

People like you make my head hurt.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 875736


The child's well being should be the #1 priority here... not whether the father or mother are married. The kid should come FIRST! He should NOT be witnessing his mother's violent outbursts! He has to be protected from her. Thank goodness he has a grandma who loves and cares about him.

Last Edited by nutmeg on 01/18/2013 04:46 AM
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I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
 Quoting: Upset Grandma 844118


The next time you're around her with your grandson etc, film it in its entirety on camera. Tell her you're doing this for everyone's safety. If she snaps, you have the disclaimer of having told her you're filming and also PROOF OF HER INSTABILITY. Make a copy, then go to the authorities with the footage. She will get taken care of like she deserves. TEACH THIS BITCH A LESSON OR YOUR GS WILL PAY THE PRICE.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31920063


Great idea...I would suggest hidden cameras.
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01/18/2013 04:55 AM
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
OP, the people who comment with insults obviously have not bothered to read the thread.

Yes, you have done what needed to be done, and you have lifted yourself above the crazy woman's level and done it all legally.

Please disregard the ignorant posts in this thread and keep us updated on how your situation is going.
 Quoting: goodmockingbird


This!!!

What the hell is wrong with some of you?!

OP, I hope you and your fam get this taken care of and do what is best for the child. Do not mind the haters.
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01/18/2013 05:14 AM
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I think what the son's girlfriend did (hopefully now ex) is a classic example of 'biting the hand that feeds you.'

Op, you did great! Have Nothing to do with her. Is GS living with you at the moment or with her?
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01/18/2013 05:15 AM
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Beat her ass
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01/18/2013 05:47 AM
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spit on her face next time you see her and act cool, and now you doniate her and shout on her!
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01/18/2013 02:03 PM
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Re: My sons girlfriend spit in my face tonight
Your son's girlfriend, who is the mother of the grandson,
is upset.

I bet she is.
Your problem here, is your son.
He got a girl pregnant, and did he pay for the medical
and child support?
Is he paying?
Did he offer to marry her?

Unless your son marries the girlfriend, you have no
legal rights at all in the situation, and he may not
have either depending on what state you live in.

You sound like a somewhat less than well educated
manipulator to me, as a gramma.

You've raised an irresponsible son.

The son of this woman you are defaming on GLP is
probably better off without you contributing to the
irresponsibility of her son.

Where is your son's father? Lots of information not
supplied here. And no way should you be 'buddies'
with this small child your son is responsible for.
That makes you as irresponsible as your son.

People like you make my head hurt.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 875736


The child's well being should be the #1 priority here... not whether the father or mother are married. The kid should come FIRST! He should NOT be witnessing his mother's violent outbursts! He has to be protected from her. Thank goodness he has a grandma who loves and cares about him.
 Quoting: nutmeg


Thank you. My son and our family have been there during the pregnancy and in the GS's life for 4 years. My son is very close to his boy and spends lots of time with him. Him providing for his son has never been an issue. Our GS loves his Grandma and his "papa" (my husband) and loves to spend time with us. My son is living here with us right now. He is between jobs (works in Hazmat)

I was the one who brought my GS and his mom home from the hospital to their apt when she was released from the hospital 4 years ago. My son was diagnosed with BiPolar as a teen and is on medication. It has not been easy. I think mom has BiPolar too, because of her mood swings, except she is not diagnosed or on meds (maybe on drugs though, I don't know?)

Surprisingly, through all this, GS is a pretty well adjusted loving and social little boy BUT I know this is affecting him because of some of the things has has said to me.

My sons dad was an alcoholic, I left him and we divorced when my son was 5 months old. His dad died about 10 years ago. My sons have been raised my 2nd husband, we've been married 23 years.
aliensbro

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Does this fucking look by like Dear Abby to you?
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Thank you.. What to do. How about shut the fuck up and whip that bitchs ass or stop talking about it. It broke your heart the kid had to see someone argue... GOD FORBID SOME PEOPLE HAVE REAL PROBLEMS
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01/18/2013 02:16 PM
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Maybe you should mind your own business and let your son be a man instead of a pussy who lets his girlfriend break his flatscreen tv without choking a bitch
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01/18/2013 02:22 PM
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I have not been on this thread for a while......Hope the girl friend is still not living with you OP.
:kitten on fence:
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I have not been on this thread for a while......Hope the girl friend is still not living with you OP.
 Quoting: Blue Skies


No the restraining order was granted and her stuff is still here. We go to court next Thursday.

I guess she hired a lawyer to fight the restraining order. He tried to make me feel bad explaining how a restraining order will affect her getting a job, yada, yada. Then he said if I take it court he "will take me to the carpet". The when I said I have nothing to hide and nothing to fear, and said I won't be treated this way by her, he said "you know you are lying" then hung up on me.

Trying to bully me into dropping it. Wow.
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I have not been on this thread for a while......Hope the girl friend is still not living with you OP.
 Quoting: Blue Skies


No the restraining order was granted and her stuff is still here. We go to court next Thursday.

I guess she hired a lawyer to fight the restraining order. He tried to make me feel bad explaining how a restraining order will affect her getting a job, yada, yada. Then he said if I take it court he "will take me to the carpet". The when I said I have nothing to hide and nothing to fear, and said I won't be treated this way by her, he said "you know you are lying" then hung up on me.

Trying to bully me into dropping it. Wow.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 844118


Just scare tactics. Stick to your guns. I assume your son was present as a witness when the TV was smashed?

Take photos of your broken light too. - Or at least have your mechanic state your light was broken due to blunt force, without other damage to your car in that area.

I think she has lied and put on an act for her lawyer.

I take it GS is with you and your son at the moment?
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01/18/2013 08:47 PM
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The when I said I have nothing to hide and nothing to fear, and said I won't be treated this way by her, he said "you know you are lying" then hung up on me.

Trying to bully me into dropping it. Wow.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 844118



Report him to the Bar Assn., by being abusive-HE is violating the restraining order.

My cousin works investigating such claims, so feel free give him (and his fellows in your state) some work.

Call or email the bar assn. in your state and let them know this guy is threatening/insulting you.
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Just another thought, it may be the guy was not a lawyer at all. Just someone she put up to try and put you off.
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01/18/2013 09:18 PM
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I have got to say that if my girlfriend spit in my mothers face I would re-evaluate my relationship with my girlfriend. That is low class.
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01/18/2013 09:21 PM
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This is honestly what's going on with young mothers these days. They want to grow up to fast, weren't taught to respect elders nor themselves! If she can got into a fit of rage like that its best you get a restraining order, file a report and keep her from your grandson. It only takes once for that baby to be under a TV or behind her and running down the road while she's having a mood swing. ... I'm just being honest! I hope you had witnesses! But seriously those young mothers these days are still kids themselves inside
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Call the cops ya dumb bitch don't let that little whore run over your fucking family. Tell them what she did and show them your house and she will lose custody and have a restraining order put on her stupid ass.

Sorry about the dumb bitch deal I figured you need a swift kick in the taint on this one.
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This, with the exception of the dumb bitch part.
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If they go to jail will you be able to take in the GS for a while or will he go to foster care? I hope he can stay with you and not have to go through that. Why did the girlfriend get so mad to start with? Was there a reason the dad wasn't suppose to take him somewhere? I was just curious what set the whole thing off?
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Just another thought, it may be the guy was not a lawyer at all. Just someone she put up to try and put you off.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9014106


That would be additional charges for the the son's girlfriend, because she is using a 3rd party to violate the restraining order.
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I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
 Quoting: Upset Grandma 844118


CALL the local CPS/DHS and REPORT her. She cannot handle being a mother. FILE A REPORT while this is still fresh, do not wait a week or two. If the child is removed they will look for family first to place the child with. In Oregon it is a crime to assault anyone in front of a child, not sure where you are but it may be grounds for you or your son to get custody. You would be doing a disservice to yourself and your GS to allow this to continue for another moment. Think of what she must do in front of the child when you aren't around if she is this uncensored in front of you. She needs assault charges and you need to press charges. It is NOT okay. Maybe you're used to it after 7 years but take a step back and look at it with fresh eyes...she is SO UNSTABLE, seriously. Have your son help you file the report. Your GS is suffering bigtime, put an end to it and help your son get full custody. TAKE ACTION. NOW. Start looking up CPS, etc and make phone calls, leave messages. I wish I could help more, I'm so sorry.
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I've been dealing with my grandsons mom for 7 years - on and off outbursts of anger. Tonight was the worst. I try to stay out of their business but stepped in tonight because my 4 year grandson was in the middle of their argument (she got mad and broke a flatscreen TV) My son was trying to leave with my GS and after they left she flipped out on me accusing me of letting him leave with my son (it was dads visitation day) She kicked my jeep, mad, busted my light and then spit in my face. I am beyond upset. My neighbor called the police because she was screaming outside. The ambulance came for me because they were afraid I was having a heart attack. My EKG was all over the place. I denied going to the hospital because I was afraid if she came back and my 4 year GS would be in the middle again and get hurt. I'm torn of what to do - I've tried my best and can't do this anymore. My GS and I are best buddies. It broke my heart he was hiding in my room huddled in a corner scared when they were arguing.

What to do? What to do?
 Quoting: Upset Grandma 844118


The next time you're around her with your grandson etc, film it in its entirety on camera. Tell her you're doing this for everyone's safety. If she snaps, you have the disclaimer of having told her you're filming and also PROOF OF HER INSTABILITY. Make a copy, then go to the authorities with the footage. She will get taken care of like she deserves. TEACH THIS BITCH A LESSON OR YOUR GS WILL PAY THE PRICE.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31920063


Great idea...I would suggest hidden cameras.
 Quoting: nutmeg


Or hidden tape recorders. I woudn't tell her about any of them and police don't really like it when you obvious tape stuff. Even of them and especially of them, but of anyone they will lie and tell you you can't record someone in that situation, usually what they say isn't true but best to do it in a way that the person being recorded doesn't know they are being recorded. Otherwise it could be claimed that the recording it self caused them to act agitated.

You can also have a standby cop for times she has to be around (or used to be able to before budget cuts in most places). I forget what that is called. But you set it up ahead and wait for the police to get there before any contact with the person.

Last Edited by CeeLite on 01/19/2013 12:13 AM
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I have not been on this thread for a while......Hope the girl friend is still not living with you OP.
 Quoting: Blue Skies


No the restraining order was granted and her stuff is still here. We go to court next Thursday.

I guess she hired a lawyer to fight the restraining order. He tried to make me feel bad explaining how a restraining order will affect her getting a job, yada, yada. Then he said if I take it court he "will take me to the carpet". The when I said I have nothing to hide and nothing to fear, and said I won't be treated this way by her, he said "you know you are lying" then hung up on me.

Trying to bully me into dropping it. Wow.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 844118


The guy may or may not be an attorney.

By all means report this to the local Bar Association. I am tending to think that an actual attorney would have sent you a letter on his letterhead.

But there are plenty of lawyers who will make a couple of calls and write a letter or two demanding this, that, and the moon on a platter for a couple of hundred bucks.

If this is the case, there is the greatest likelihood that she is lying to her lawyer.

Do you think most drama queen nutcases calmly go into meet a new attorney and lay out the truth about how outrageous their own behaviour has been?

They don't. They go in there thinking they are finally finding someone who is their new best friend, their vindicator, their knight in shining armor. They reel out a load of crap about 'woe is me, Granny is a witch!' and the lawyer doesn't care. He's going to do the same one hour's worth of calls and letters no matter what she tells him. He's already go the template on his computer.

Now is time to get proactive! Inventory Nutgirl's crap she left at your house. Make an excrutiatingly detailed inventory of it ("3 Sam's Club brand cans of diet soda, empty, 1 pack of Generic cigarettes containing 3 cigarettes...").

Next time you hear from 'lawyer', ask for his mailing address so you can send him the inventory of the crap you want removed from your premises by a bonded third party (such as a process server or licensed moving company).

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