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I can't find a job, I feel like a loser!! :(

 
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you're not trying hard enough.
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As far as advice goes, I don't have much. But one thing I will say is don't listen to people like this from Australia. They don't have a clue what they're talking about. My sister is returning to the States from Australia where she had a six-figure job. In America? Can't find a SINGLE job, let alone one that pays that well. Just because Australia is awash in Chinese money doesn't mean America is in the same situation. Don't let the naysayers get you down, we all wish you the best!!
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Go to college :)
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


First of all, you're not a loser. Has your wife and her family said that to you? If not, you're just down on yourself and thinking they think that of you when they really don't. You will be able to provide, you have to change the way you're thinking about all of this.

Is it possible for you to start something on your own? Do you have any skills that you could use to maybe not start your own business right away, but maybe work from your home?
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Isn't In n Out burger expanding like mad in TX? And their mgt-trng plan is really good
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Re: I can't find a job, I feel like a loser!! :(
Out of work since October? What, October last year? If so, that is just over 2 months. In my book that isn't out of work, that is just sort of being between jobs and rest taking time out to do your own thing. I was out of work for 18 months only a couple of years ago, now that was fucking hard, but i still ran a car legally and managed to feed myself and my cat.

Shit is harsh out there and make no mistake, but you have to adapt to the daily situations and just get on with it...sigh.
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


you are being really hard on yourself right now and that is the first thing which must stop.

as for your wife kindly remind her, "for better, or for worse," and this is the time she should be standing shoulder to shoulder with you not agreeing with her family.

apply for financial deferment for your loans, claim hardship and request a hearing.

if you are willing to relocate, then by all means start applying around the country, there are jobs to be had, but maybe just not in your area.

good luck to you...
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
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It has nothing to do with the planet, find , borrow, or grow a pair and get yourself out of what YOU put yourself into.

If you think your a looser then you damn sure are.
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you're not trying hard enough.
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you're not trying hard enough.
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I am a very smart and college educated man!! I can't even get a job at AMPM because I'm over qualified!!
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Should have gotten your ass out in the real workforce when the rest of us did..But Nooo, you were greedy and wanted to make the MOST money...Haha who's laughing now tard. I am a jack of all trades, master of none....but I am and have been working throughout this whole slowdown bullshit.
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


Manufacture something, even if it's on your kitchen table,
and market your product, as if you were the biggest company
in the world.

Marketing is tough for people who are not sales oriented.
There is however, ebay, craigslist, blogs, internet
advertising, radio voice overs, all very cheap. There are
the printed weekly nickel ads or similar, stumping on
street corners, phone calls, mass emails, and for some
products, offering the product as live entertainment
in bars or restaurants after making deals with management.
(Like swimsuits or lingerie)

There are craft fairs also, everywhere.
Home-parties can be successful, invitations to purchase
sent by mail for high dollar items, for artists,
sidewalk displays.

Infomercials are cost effective if you can mass produce
an item. Door to door sales are relatively free for those
who are bullet proof in the feelings department.

A job doesn't make you someone successful.
It makes you a slave.
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
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Your wife should be supportive of you instead of putting you down. Who cares what her family thinks, Keep fighting brother.
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Do you function better and think more clearly when you are happy? Look within you for the source of happiness, it is there I swear it to you. Find it, and these problems will solve themselves. Don't take my word for it, try it. I hope this reaches you.
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


there are jobs out there, might not be what you want but go take any job.

It's easy to get a better job when you already have a job, ya feel me...
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I believe that it is the parent's responsibility to make sure their kids are trained in a skill that can support them. You parent's failed you.
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


im sorry to hear your situation.
try to get a deferment on your student loans for financial hardship. try telling your wife and family your situation and ask if they can offer any advice. do good things, dont give up.
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Thanks I just don't want to lose my family because of this!! :(
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


It's time to face a fact about women. They may be largely attracted to your revenue stream. If that gets downgraded they may reconsider.

This is where you find out if that applies to your wife. It's a gut check.

Actually not a bad gut-check to have early. You don't have kids yet (though that might motivate her to get off her ass and provide in the time of need -- it seems easier for women to get jobs these days.) But indeed, there's no "solution" to this. This market is very hard on men, and if the man doesn't provide income, the women walk.
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you're not trying hard enough.
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you're not trying hard enough.
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I am a very smart and college educated man!! I can't even get a job at AMPM because I'm over qualified!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


Being told your over qualified is BS. Why wouldnt a company hire you for knowing your job too well.
They may just be saying that because they cannot pay what you expect because with all your debt you need alot of money to support yourself and pay off your debts.
If you didnt go to school and applied for the job they would hire you because now your not over qualified because they can pay you whatever they want and do whatever they want with you because you dont have an education. BUT you will have no debt and be able to save but very little.

Its a fucked up world we live in. Get an education and be told you got too much but in a heap of debt. Dont get an education and have a job but get paid very little.
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


Your wife should be supportive of you instead of putting you down. Who cares what her family thinks, Keep fighting brother.
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We'll find out what kind of wife she is here. There's a good chance this is it, but don't fight it, this is totally the wife's decision.

Or if the wife is too unpleasant it could be the husband's decision "Dear, this was gut-check time and I see that you did not try to help out in the crisis, it's better that we go our separate ways and don't have these arguments any more."
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I have been unemployed since October!! I can't find a job! I am kneck high in student loans and the government is even garnishing my income taxes because of it! My wife and her family think I'm a loser and I'm scared I won't be able to provide!! This planet is fucked!!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


Your wife should be supportive of you instead of putting you down. Who cares what her family thinks, Keep fighting brother.
 Quoting: sonic doom


We'll find out what kind of wife she is here. There's a good chance this is it, but don't fight it, this is totally the wife's decision.

Or if the wife is too unpleasant it could be the husband's decision "Dear, this was gut-check time and I see that you did not try to help out in the crisis, it's better that we go our separate ways and don't have these arguments any more."
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In other words, MGTOW. It's an option imho because there are no kids yet.
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you're not trying hard enough.
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you're not trying hard enough.
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I am a very smart and college educated man!! I can't even get a job at AMPM because I'm over qualified!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16773023


You weren't too smart to let AMPM know about your college education, LOL. And the initial k in kneck is invisible when we type it, so "neck".

Calm down. Your college degree didn't bring recruiters to your inbox so forget about it. The paper won't help you. A smart man knows that. If you got a decent education, then you know a little about the world and the times. Figure out how to find a job.

HINT. Be up and dressed as you would want to be seen by the employer of your dreams, every single morning. Get OUT of the house. No excuses. Lounging at home will make you feel like a loser, encourage the family to see you as a loser, and turn you into a loser. Being up and dressed even if your big excitement is taking your coffee in a new place daily to send resumes will help you.

I got a great job from a chance meeting in a blues bar. Actually, I was hired to cover my boss as she wept with hangover and mental illness until well after noon, but it paid great and imagine who would have hired me had I been having coffee at 5 am instead of gin at midnight?

Have your coffee where rich people live and work and don't be an ass. Its amazing how the familiarity of seeing the same face daily creates fondness or friendliness. People who see you dressed and clean daily can imagine you at their workplace.
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good advice

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