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Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’

 
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A sure sign of retardation in a man is when you see him walking with a woman.
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I dont know if this guy realizes how genial this is.

The only kind of man who walks with woman is the one you know is going to fall into a trap, because he is probably the type of man who is looking for the wrong woman.
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Everybody takes the easy way out these days. f your marriage is too hard to deal with, get a divorce. If you treated your body like a cum dumpster, get an abortion. If you stuffed your face with fast food every day, get gastric-bypass surgery. If your lazy, get on welfare.
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And then we have people talking about "Golden Age" and Messiah.
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Thank you for this. I love it.
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Re: Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’
In economic hard times like this, women want protection. They feel they need a man.

In economic good times (up to 2007 or so) the women feel free to fuck over the men.

I think that's what is happening. Now the women want those men, they might be better to them at least for a few years until their fears are gone, but the men have developed a hardened set of feelings.
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Some people are better off alone. I know I am, maybe you guys are, too.

I was raised to cherish and spoil my man and he would take care of me, but you have to pick the right man for that and I did not.

So many are purely selfish and think only of themselves. I'm sure many women are now this way too, but I don't have to deal with them.

Because I thought only of him and he thought only of him, the household suffered until I finally realized there was no point in having him around.

Now, I live alone and wouldn't risk dating for any reason.

I have my own home that I bought and my two daughters love it here. There is nothing wrong with being alone, in fact, I prefer it.
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yeah, grown men are supposed to waste all of their time and money worshiping objects. it seems like if it isn't something pro-female, the white-knight beta males and useless objects are butthurt over it.

the article clearly says that men are down for this lop-sided legal contract anymore, and guess what? somehow men are in the wrong. nothing new here. i hope you females out there enjoy being alone. most men don't need attention/affection, so we're good
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Useless objects? Yeah, I'm beginning to agree. I may start calling them that.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25867801

The typical cynical divorced-robbed men's joke is:

Q: What's useless skin around the vagina?
A: Woman, har har har

Sorry to some precious intelligent women out there, not all of you are, the princesses are.
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No, maybe not.

Once I realized I was doing all of the work and he was spending all of my money, it was a no brainer.

What was HIS purpose? He had none.

Now I live on my own with my kids and life is soooo much better.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33173159


You were earning more than he did, and so you divorced him.

Did you marry him because you expected him to earn more than you?
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Some people are better off alone. I know I am, maybe you guys are, too.

I was raised to cherish and spoil my man and he would take care of me, but you have to pick the right man for that and I did not.

So many are purely selfish and think only of themselves. I'm sure many women are now this way too, but I don't have to deal with them.

Because I thought only of him and he thought only of him, the household suffered until I finally realized there was no point in having him around.

Now, I live alone and wouldn't risk dating for any reason.

I have my own home that I bought and my two daughters love it here. There is nothing wrong with being alone, in fact, I prefer it.
 Quoting: southernwoman 7408542


Do your two daughters miss their daddy? Odd that you didn't think of "them" in your post.
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If you don't have technology, your unemployable. Face facts.
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you keep believing that. with your attention span of a gnat you won't be able to do shit.
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No, maybe not.

Once I realized I was doing all of the work and he was spending all of my money, it was a no brainer.

What was HIS purpose? He had none.

Now I live on my own with my kids and life is soooo much better.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33173159


You were earning more than he did, and so you divorced him.

Did you marry him because you expected him to earn more than you?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


No, when we got together (I already didn't believe in marriage, so no we were not married) I already made more than him. There was no way he would ever earn more than me.

I did expect him to contribute however and he flat out refused.

I offered to let him stay home with the kids and take care of the house, but he didn't want to do that either.

He wanted to do whatever he wanted to do when he felt like doing it and I was supposed to take care of him like I was his mother.
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Some people are better off alone. I know I am, maybe you guys are, too.

I was raised to cherish and spoil my man and he would take care of me, but you have to pick the right man for that and I did not.

So many are purely selfish and think only of themselves. I'm sure many women are now this way too, but I don't have to deal with them.

Because I thought only of him and he thought only of him, the household suffered until I finally realized there was no point in having him around.

Now, I live alone and wouldn't risk dating for any reason.

I have my own home that I bought and my two daughters love it here. There is nothing wrong with being alone, in fact, I prefer it.
 Quoting: southernwoman 7408542


Do your two daughters miss their daddy? Odd that you didn't think of "them" in your post.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


They miss their Dad, how could they not? However, the oldest one is very mad at him, the youngest doesn't really remember him.
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Re: Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’
No, maybe not.

Once I realized I was doing all of the work and he was spending all of my money, it was a no brainer.

What was HIS purpose? He had none.

Now I live on my own with my kids and life is soooo much better.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33173159


You were earning more than he did, and so you divorced him.

Did you marry him because you expected him to earn more than you?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


No, when we got together (I already didn't believe in marriage, so no we were not married) I already made more than him. There was no way he would ever earn more than me.

I did expect him to contribute however and he flat out refused.

I offered to let him stay home with the kids and take care of the house, but he didn't want to do that either.

He wanted to do whatever he wanted to do when he felt like doing it and I was supposed to take care of him like I was his mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


And men are NOT real Men anymore! They're pussies who want what they want and they don't give a fuck about anyone else sometimes. It all depends on who you wind up with. Don't marry a man-child, run instead!
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Some people are better off alone. I know I am, maybe you guys are, too.

I was raised to cherish and spoil my man and he would take care of me, but you have to pick the right man for that and I did not.

So many are purely selfish and think only of themselves. I'm sure many women are now this way too, but I don't have to deal with them.

Because I thought only of him and he thought only of him, the household suffered until I finally realized there was no point in having him around.

Now, I live alone and wouldn't risk dating for any reason.

I have my own home that I bought and my two daughters love it here. There is nothing wrong with being alone, in fact, I prefer it.
 Quoting: southernwoman 7408542


Do your two daughters miss their daddy? Odd that you didn't think of "them" in your post.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


They miss their Dad, how could they not? However, the oldest one is very mad at him, the youngest doesn't really remember him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


So, how is there nothing wrong with being alone, when you have are raising the kids?

See they both miss their dad, even though one is mad and the other hardly remembers much about them. It leaves a hole in their lives. You are aware of the problems young women develop when they have "daddy issues", mainly that the dad was not there for them?

And he's not there for them because you kicked him out, isn't that correct?
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No, maybe not.

Once I realized I was doing all of the work and he was spending all of my money, it was a no brainer.

What was HIS purpose? He had none.

Now I live on my own with my kids and life is soooo much better.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33173159


You were earning more than he did, and so you divorced him.

Did you marry him because you expected him to earn more than you?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


No, when we got together (I already didn't believe in marriage, so no we were not married) I already made more than him. There was no way he would ever earn more than me.

I did expect him to contribute however and he flat out refused.

I offered to let him stay home with the kids and take care of the house, but he didn't want to do that either.

He wanted to do whatever he wanted to do when he felt like doing it and I was supposed to take care of him like I was his mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


And men are NOT real Men anymore! They're pussies who want what they want and they don't give a fuck about anyone else sometimes. It all depends on who you wind up with. Don't marry a man-child, run instead!
 Quoting: hawk8414


Too many of them, way too many, I don't take chances anymore.

I went out with almost every guy that asked me out, none of them were worthy of my time. If it weren't for my two kids, I could honestly say I regretted every date I ever had.
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No, maybe not.

Once I realized I was doing all of the work and he was spending all of my money, it was a no brainer.

What was HIS purpose? He had none.

Now I live on my own with my kids and life is soooo much better.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33173159


You were earning more than he did, and so you divorced him.

Did you marry him because you expected him to earn more than you?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


No, when we got together (I already didn't believe in marriage, so no we were not married) I already made more than him. There was no way he would ever earn more than me.

I did expect him to contribute however and he flat out refused.

I offered to let him stay home with the kids and take care of the house, but he didn't want to do that either.

He wanted to do whatever he wanted to do when he felt like doing it and I was supposed to take care of him like I was his mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


And men are NOT real Men anymore! They're pussies who want what they want and they don't give a fuck about anyone else sometimes. It all depends on who you wind up with. Don't marry a man-child, run instead!
 Quoting: hawk8414


Well certainly not all men are man-children or metrosexuals or pussies. Actually American men are still well thought of on the international dating market, but this guy sounds like a loser and there were no kids, so I have no problem with what the young woman did breaking up with him.

Things are so much simpler when there are no kids. Go your own way, don't ask for money or give it, just leave with what you brung. Whether married or not.
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Some people are better off alone. I know I am, maybe you guys are, too.

I was raised to cherish and spoil my man and he would take care of me, but you have to pick the right man for that and I did not.

So many are purely selfish and think only of themselves. I'm sure many women are now this way too, but I don't have to deal with them.

Because I thought only of him and he thought only of him, the household suffered until I finally realized there was no point in having him around.

Now, I live alone and wouldn't risk dating for any reason.

I have my own home that I bought and my two daughters love it here. There is nothing wrong with being alone, in fact, I prefer it.
 Quoting: southernwoman 7408542


Do your two daughters miss their daddy? Odd that you didn't think of "them" in your post.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


They miss their Dad, how could they not? However, the oldest one is very mad at him, the youngest doesn't really remember him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


So, how is there nothing wrong with being alone, when you have are raising the kids?

See they both miss their dad, even though one is mad and the other hardly remembers much about them. It leaves a hole in their lives. You are aware of the problems young women develop when they have "daddy issues", mainly that the dad was not there for them?

And he's not there for them because you kicked him out, isn't that correct?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


No, he is not there because he would rather run the streets and be on drugs than be a father to them.

Even if I hadn't left him, he wouldn't be there for them.

So there is no point to him.
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Do your two daughters miss their daddy? Odd that you didn't think of "them" in your post.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


They miss their Dad, how could they not? However, the oldest one is very mad at him, the youngest doesn't really remember him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


So, how is there nothing wrong with being alone, when you have are raising the kids?

See they both miss their dad, even though one is mad and the other hardly remembers much about them. It leaves a hole in their lives. You are aware of the problems young women develop when they have "daddy issues", mainly that the dad was not there for them?

And he's not there for them because you kicked him out, isn't that correct?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


No, he is not there because he would rather run the streets and be on drugs than be a father to them.

Even if I hadn't left him, he wouldn't be there for them.

So there is no point to him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


Well, I have no basis to challenge your description of him as worthless. But you DID make two babies with him so how oould you not have known about him ...

Just curious, did you grow up in a two-parent home? Were they both your biological parents?
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I try not to bash average, everyday women...

But those elitist cunts on the tele (enter Mika Brznski, or however you spell her name) who tell average women they can have it all (education/career/children/husband) and all the while send thier kids to private scool and are married to millionaires and come from millionaire families... those women need to be rounded up and humiliated as an example to others!

That woman damn near killed her two children on two separate occasions trying to have it all! But hey ladies, keep on letter her lie to you about real reality.
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They miss their Dad, how could they not? However, the oldest one is very mad at him, the youngest doesn't really remember him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


So, how is there nothing wrong with being alone, when you have are raising the kids?

See they both miss their dad, even though one is mad and the other hardly remembers much about them. It leaves a hole in their lives. You are aware of the problems young women develop when they have "daddy issues", mainly that the dad was not there for them?

And he's not there for them because you kicked him out, isn't that correct?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


No, he is not there because he would rather run the streets and be on drugs than be a father to them.

Even if I hadn't left him, he wouldn't be there for them.

So there is no point to him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


Well, I have no basis to challenge your description of him as worthless. But you DID make two babies with him so how oould you not have known about him ...

Just curious, did you grow up in a two-parent home? Were they both your biological parents?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


I knew him all of five and had been dating him for three months when our birth control failed. Once I had one child, I wanted another because I don't believe in having one child. Sometimes the only people who can understand what you are going through are your siblings. I gave him way too many chances before I finally gave up.

My mom left my Dad when I was 8 yrs old. I was raised by a step father.
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So, how is there nothing wrong with being alone, when you have are raising the kids?

See they both miss their dad, even though one is mad and the other hardly remembers much about them. It leaves a hole in their lives. You are aware of the problems young women develop when they have "daddy issues", mainly that the dad was not there for them?

And he's not there for them because you kicked him out, isn't that correct?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


No, he is not there because he would rather run the streets and be on drugs than be a father to them.

Even if I hadn't left him, he wouldn't be there for them.

So there is no point to him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


Well, I have no basis to challenge your description of him as worthless. But you DID make two babies with him so how oould you not have known about him ...

Just curious, did you grow up in a two-parent home? Were they both your biological parents?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


I knew him all of five and had been dating him for three months when our birth control failed. Once I had one child, I wanted another because I don't believe in having one child. Sometimes the only people who can understand what you are going through are your siblings. I gave him way too many chances before I finally gave up.

My mom left my Dad when I was 8 yrs old. I was raised by a step father.
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"A step father". You are not very close to him, he was like a worker at your house. Yes indeed, as a man I would never step into that role. Thankless all around.

So your dad was gone, you meet a guy, and as typically happens, a woman who missed her dad (you) wound up with the wrong sort of guy.

I am sorry to say it but I see this cycle repeating. No advice here, only that I wish there were some way your kids' dad could become acceptable enough to bring him back.

I am lucky because I was raised in an intact family. I am not looking down on you, I am just luckier.
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I am a woman and I don't understand why women place so much importance on marriage.

Marriage is actually worse for women and better for men.
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Exactly!
clappa

Just brainwashed desperate naive dumb women!
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clappa clappa
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Some people are better off alone. I know I am, maybe you guys are, too.

I was raised to cherish and spoil my man and he would take care of me, but you have to pick the right man for that and I did not.

So many are purely selfish and think only of themselves. I'm sure many women are now this way too, but I don't have to deal with them.

Because I thought only of him and he thought only of him, the household suffered until I finally realized there was no point in having him around.

Now, I live alone and wouldn't risk dating for any reason.

I have my own home that I bought and my two daughters love it here. There is nothing wrong with being alone, in fact, I prefer it.
 Quoting: southernwoman 7408542


Do your two daughters miss their daddy? Odd that you didn't think of "them" in your post.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


They miss their Dad, how could they not? However, the oldest one is very mad at him, the youngest doesn't really remember him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


So, how is there nothing wrong with being alone, when you have are raising the kids?

See they both miss their dad, even though one is mad and the other hardly remembers much about them. It leaves a hole in their lives. You are aware of the problems young women develop when they have "daddy issues", mainly that the dad was not there for them?

And he's not there for them because you kicked him out, isn't that correct?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


There is nothing I can do for them as far as their Daddy issues go. I try to make sure they hear positive things from their Grandfather (my step father) and my brother.

We all have issues, that is just life, but I can protect them from stupid men and that is my job now. If I have never had one worth a shit up to this point, my chances are thin to find a good one.

Besides, I'm tired of the bullshit and that is all it ever really was.
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I'm a attractive 28 year old, female, with a MBA and a bachelors in biology and get passed over for the blond skinny useless arm bling...so don't just blame women when all men want is something to show off.
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thats the problem with women today, they try to sell their college degree or career to get a man, but men dont care about that, men looking for women only care about two things, your looks and if you are a good person
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its more about your looks and what security you can offer as well as the trinkets. I dont think the 'good person' bit matters so much
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I don't think that is the issue with this one. I feel she is setting her priorities and standards by what her nemesis, "the blond skinny useless arm bling," sets as acceptable. That will only end in failure.

She needs her own priorities; Bling for bling should not be one of them if she is to find what is in bold above. Let alone LOVE. She will not find LOVE if she is conditioned by the confinements of social pressures.

(In the tone of Dave Chappelle) She'll likely end-up being a pillhead heroin using soccer mom with a douche bag of husband using her money to bang the newest young dancer at the local titty-bar. The world of vanity is f-ed up.
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No, he is not there because he would rather run the streets and be on drugs than be a father to them.

Even if I hadn't left him, he wouldn't be there for them.

So there is no point to him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7408542


Well, I have no basis to challenge your description of him as worthless. But you DID make two babies with him so how oould you not have known about him ...

Just curious, did you grow up in a two-parent home? Were they both your biological parents?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


I knew him all of five and had been dating him for three months when our birth control failed. Once I had one child, I wanted another because I don't believe in having one child. Sometimes the only people who can understand what you are going through are your siblings. I gave him way too many chances before I finally gave up.

My mom left my Dad when I was 8 yrs old. I was raised by a step father.
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"A step father". You are not very close to him, he was like a worker at your house. Yes indeed, as a man I would never step into that role. Thankless all around.

So your dad was gone, you meet a guy, and as typically happens, a woman who missed her dad (you) wound up with the wrong sort of guy.

I am sorry to say it but I see this cycle repeating. No advice here, only that I wish there were some way your kids' dad could become acceptable enough to bring him back.

I am lucky because I was raised in an intact family. I am not looking down on you, I am just luckier.
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Step father is a thankless role while the kids are young. We all love and appreciate him now. He was a very hard worker, still is, in fact.

I wish he would grow up, but he is over 40 now and is still doing the same crap he did when he was 20.

I can only provide them structure and a good life, they are both over achievers. My oldest is twelve and is in all the advanced AP classes. The youngest is 8 and is in Gifted and Talented classes. I come home to them every night, they have stability. I can't be a father to them though.
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I don't need a woman, I have internet access.
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I was raised a feminist in the 1960s and even took some of the first "women's studies" classes offered at my "large mid-western university".

I worked for a large corporation after graduation and had a corner office by age 28.

After marriage, I purposely turned back the clock and behaved in a traditional female way. I haven't worked since 1991 in the corporate world. I am not a doormat, but I do yield to my husband on disputed matters, although he always seriously considers my advice. Twenty-five years later, I am much happier as my current self. You could say that I did a deliberate experiment on myself to see if feminism or anti-feminism was better for me and I chose anti-feminism.

My husband is the breadwinner, I take care of and have homeschooled our four children, two of who are now Ivy League students. I also try to make a home of comfort and blessing for everyone who lives here. We have everything we need, but we have also been very thrifty through the years to afford this traditional lifestyle. It can be done and my husband and I are very happy now twenty-five years later.

Our motto: Happiness is wanting what you have - not having what you want.
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IMHO the family unit being a wife who takes care of home and family with a husband who makes the money is a good thing.


However, you can put just as much blame on the man as on the woman for they way the family unit has fallen apart.
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All these females who realized they fell in a trap and they now look around and realize there is no going back.

They are old and alone. They have not done enough.
They didnt choose the right person to be their husband.


They believed that keep trying they would eventually find a man "suitable for her".

Now, there is not a single man who considers them "suitable for him".


Its not about having a sex partner.

Women were led to believe they could use sex as a power balancing tool in the relationship to get leverage.

The only way a marriage can work is if the women down right treat the man as the Lord of her life.

Sex as a leverage for power/control/freedom in a relationship only works until the woman is 25-30 years old and only gets weaker as the time goes by.

The only thing that keeps a man loving a woman, and that most of the women in the last 30-50 years WONT EVER EXPERIENCE, is that she gives him the rule of the relationship.

The husband has to be the reason for her to live and be in a relationship. It cant be for herself. It cant be for the children.

The woman cant focus on "career" or "study" or anything else.

For the family unit to work, one of the two has to submit to the other.

Women who treat relationships as a negotiation table will be evaluated on those standards. Once they no longer can keep up their side of the bargain:

1. being the first woman of a man. Very Valuable.
If the woman has had dozens of other men. There will always be some restrictions on the man's heart. The fact there were other men before him. That kind of thing.

It cannot be compared with how the man evaluates a woman when he knows he is the one and only of her life.

Now, for the women to score high on this criteria, at the current day and age, she likelly has to be very young.

Wich comes to the second criteria.

2. Youth and Beauty.
All young women are naturally attractive. That is by God's design. The older the women get, the less attractive they become.

Even a very ugly woman is attractive if she is healthy and young.

But once a woman gets old, there is nothing much she can do to defeat nature, no matter how beautiful she once was. She is competing against younger women.


For criteria number 1 for a western "modern" society, is more like a bonus, rather than a requirement. So many men will not require a woman to be a virgin, but either way, you can be certain that men would prefer his wife to to have had dozens of other males who fucked her.

So even then, the beauty criteria was made to be more relevant. Such a focus was given to beauty, through pride, vanity, covetousness that women were led to believe that JUST BEING BEAUTY WAS ENOUGH.

And thats where they fell.

Not only their beauty is temporary, but the beauty also is not enough to win the heart of a man.

So the actual main criteria ends up being a hidden one.
One that the main stream media, the entertainment industry, culture, education, etc dont talk about. In fact, everything was done to boycott that.

Wich stems back to the fact that women were made for men, not the other way around.

Women are supposed to live for their husbands, be submissive, servile and obedient to them.

All that religious "bullshit" you get from judaism, christianism and islamism.

Thats how everything worked for thousands of years until the 1950's, when TPTB started to make women feel equal, independent, have the same authority and power as men.

Through "science" and birth control, through feminism ideologies, through changes on laws, costumes, labor structure, every single culture venue started to portray a glorified image of what was an impractical women role for society.

In short, thats how everything went down.

A woman who gave her heart to her man, will keep him.
The woman who made demand, tried to negotiate and be rebel, transitioned into lonely moms and over glorified young sex objects.



This is very sad, because many women, had lost their lifes never fully loving and being loved. Because they never gave themselves integrally to their husbands. Never really achieving a stable family unit.

And now, many of them, blame it on man. Who likewise were deceived to treat woman as sexual objects only and to expect them to also work, besides being a wife and a mother.

Women who understand and accept the role of being a wife and a mother will not be forgotten/thrown out or exchanged by younger girls.

Most women never knew that all they had to do was to LOVE THEIR HUSBANDS UNCONDITIONALLY. This is still much stronger than beauty, age or sexual history/background.

You may learn from this.
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Well, if a man cannot afford a woman then, he doesn't need one.
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I was raised a feminist in the 1960s and even took some of the first "women's studies" classes offered at my "large mid-western university".

I worked for a large corporation after graduation and had a corner office by age 28.

After marriage, I purposely turned back the clock and behaved in a traditional female way. I haven't worked since 1991 in the corporate world. I am not a doormat, but I do yield to my husband on disputed matters, although he always seriously considers my advice. Twenty-five years later, I am much happier as my current self. You could say that I did a deliberate experiment on myself to see if feminism or anti-feminism was better for me and I chose anti-feminism.

My husband is the breadwinner, I take care of and have homeschooled our four children, two of who are now Ivy League students. I also try to make a home of comfort and blessing for everyone who lives here. We have everything we need, but we have also been very thrifty through the years to afford this traditional lifestyle. It can be done and my husband and I are very happy now twenty-five years later.

Our motto: Happiness is wanting what you have - not having what you want.
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Very true.

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