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Woozley User ID: 13321572 Sweden 03/17/2013 04:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's a matter of perspective. 'And whereas thou sawest iron mixed with miry clay, they shall mingle themselves with the seed of men: but they shall not cleave one to another, even as iron is not mixed with clay.' That's my take on it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23382441 United States 03/17/2013 04:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We can point fingers and play the blame game all we like, it isn't going to fix anything. It's not going to make you feel any better about the situation either. Quoting: Woozley It's a matter of perspective. 'And whereas thou sawest iron mixed with miry clay, they shall mingle themselves with the seed of men: but they shall not cleave one to another, even as iron is not mixed with clay.' That's my take on it. Of course it is going to fix things. In order to fix something, you have to first know it is broken. That is what we are doing here, we are showing that it is broken. Why is it that every time men try to point out that something is broken to there disadvantage they have to deal with moronic statements such as the one you are spewing. "Oh it is not going to fix anything blah blah blah, so just stand down and just give up". But when chicks have a problem, and usually it is not actually a problem but they just like to cry about shit that is not even real, everyone is like oh yeah you poor baby we need to fix that right away bwahahahahahaha! Fuckin pathetic humans!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36325034 United States 03/17/2013 04:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You know, I sent over 1000 ''meet me'' invitations on Plenty of Fish and I only got about three responses from fat chicks. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30262762 I tried a little experiment on match.com. I posted the normal sort of closeup as a main picture. I left out details about my job etc. in my profile. I got about 2 emails a week and maybe half a dozen smiles. Then I changed my main pic to one of me standing next to my Porsche at an SCCA event. I put in my income stats (nearly 200k a year). You would have thought I was Brad Pitt and Sean Connery's love child! I had almost 120 emails, smiles, and endless chat invitations. Confirmed what I already knew about American women. I did the same experiment myself. Same results. American women are nothing more than parasitical whores. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36325034 United States 03/17/2013 04:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like a bunch of sour grapes to me. Quoting: Spine monkey I've been with my wife for 30 years. I reckon I just got lucky or chose well, right? And all those married couples I know--just lucky. Maybe you guys are making bad choices or something. So how old are you if you've been married for 30 years? You should try dating (just for fun) to see for yourself how bad it really is these days. I hate when people talk about shit they have no fucking idea about and act like your the idiot. Well said. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1524690 Canada 03/17/2013 04:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wouldn't give up my freedom for a man or anything. I just can't see myself doing it. After having been married and divorced, I find that I like having the choice and the freedom to live and choose for myself. I don't need your money or anything else you have. So that argument is out. I don't need the security BS that most women use,"Oh I don't want to be alone." I don't give a shit if he has a car or a truck or a fucking 4 wheeler. I don't care how big his house is or if he lives on a riverboat house,etc... That's his property, I don't have anything to do with it. He gets to clean it and sleep there. I don't care what kind of job he has SO LONG AS HE HAS A JOB! Because I am NOT taking care of him! It is not my job to raise somebody grown! I like to come and go as I please and he can do the same. The only thing I need a man for is sex and he had better be really good at it,too. Not this 3 minute shit. If you're that goddamned bad, you ain't getting with me. I like to get up, get showered and leave after it 's all said and done. Better that way. Fuck love. Too much drama. Fuck pillow talk. When you stupid women find out that you can come and go without worrying over his ass, then he starts to understand that he can't tie you down,and they start thinking about things. Next thing you know, it's a FWB thing and he's the one who starts to have "Feelings." LOL! I've had it happen three times so far. You girls have to stop being so damn needy,looking for some guy to take care of you. Fuck that, you take care of yourself. If he wants you, he'll come around more often. If not, move on. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23382441 United States 03/17/2013 04:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wouldn't give up my freedom for a man or anything. I just can't see myself doing it. After having been married and divorced, I find that I like having the choice and the freedom to live and choose for myself. Quoting: hawk8414 I don't need your money or anything else you have. So that argument is out. I don't need the security BS that most women use,"Oh I don't want to be alone." I don't give a shit if he has a car or a truck or a fucking 4 wheeler. I don't care how big his house is or if he lives on a riverboat house,etc... That's his property, I don't have anything to do with it. He gets to clean it and sleep there. I don't care what kind of job he has SO LONG AS HE HAS A JOB! Because I am NOT taking care of him! It is not my job to raise somebody grown! I like to come and go as I please and he can do the same. The only thing I need a man for is sex and he had better be really good at it,too. Not this 3 minute shit. If you're that goddamned bad, you ain't getting with me. I like to get up, get showered and leave after it 's all said and done. Better that way. Fuck love. Too much drama. Fuck pillow talk. When you stupid women find out that you can come and go without worrying over his ass, then he starts to understand that he can't tie you down,and they start thinking about things. Next thing you know, it's a FWB thing and he's the one who starts to have "Feelings." LOL! I've had it happen three times so far. You girls have to stop being so damn needy,looking for some guy to take care of you. Fuck that, you take care of yourself. If he wants you, he'll come around more often. If not, move on. WOW is this garbage actually coming from the species considered the highest life form on this planet? bwahahahahaha!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 36321558 Spain 03/17/2013 04:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wouldn't give up my freedom for a man or anything. I just can't see myself doing it. After having been married and divorced, I find that I like having the choice and the freedom to live and choose for myself. Quoting: hawk8414 I don't need your money or anything else you have. So that argument is out. I don't need the security BS that most women use,"Oh I don't want to be alone." I don't give a shit if he has a car or a truck or a fucking 4 wheeler. I don't care how big his house is or if he lives on a riverboat house,etc... That's his property, I don't have anything to do with it. He gets to clean it and sleep there. I don't care what kind of job he has SO LONG AS HE HAS A JOB! Because I am NOT taking care of him! It is not my job to raise somebody grown! I like to come and go as I please and he can do the same. The only thing I need a man for is sex and he had better be really good at it,too. Not this 3 minute shit. If you're that goddamned bad, you ain't getting with me. I like to get up, get showered and leave after it 's all said and done. Better that way. Fuck love. Too much drama. Fuck pillow talk. When you stupid women find out that you can come and go without worrying over his ass, then he starts to understand that he can't tie you down,and they start thinking about things. Next thing you know, it's a FWB thing and he's the one who starts to have "Feelings." LOL! I've had it happen three times so far. You girls have to stop being so damn needy,looking for some guy to take care of you. Fuck that, you take care of yourself. If he wants you, he'll come around more often. If not, move on. oh crap! are you human, are you a woman?!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 19681600 Australia 03/17/2013 04:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like a bunch of sour grapes to me. Quoting: Spine monkey I've been with my wife for 30 years. I reckon I just got lucky or chose well, right? And all those married couples I know--just lucky. Maybe you guys are making bad choices or something. Totally agree with this. I've been with my husband for thirty years. Loving every minute. I know a lot of people that have been happily married for a long time. Maybe you people that are so down on marriage are bad pickers. Divorce rates are through the roof. We are talking about statistics, there are less happy marriges these days. Rare as rockinghorse shit. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23382441 United States 03/17/2013 04:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, I am human. But I'm a smart human because I know your games and no, you don't fool me. You assholes are looking for someone to raise you. I already had 2 kids, I don't need any more. Quoting: hawk8414 Where in this thread do men say that what they look for in a women is a person who can raise them? Where did you get that one, did you just pull it out of your ass? bwahahahahahaha!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 34183520 United States 03/17/2013 05:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Look on most dating sites....you will see women that look 60 when they are only 40 because they smoke tan and drink too much....all those things ruin your face. The rest all bought into the I'm a BBW accept me as I am....FAT...I don't need to watch my weight ...I'm a BBW.... Well now you're a lonely fat single old BBW with a wrinkled face way past your years. Guys don't want to date or marry their old fat wrinkled grandmothers. Let alone marry one. You better get used to a friend with benefits and be lucky you got that... |
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Zarx User ID: 4722509 United States 03/17/2013 05:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The good men like me, get cheated on many times. I still stay in the relationship for our 3 children, while mommy goes out and lives the way she wants to. I refuse to let this marriage fail. Last Edited by Zarx on 03/17/2013 05:13 AM For Truth and Love... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1524690 Canada 03/17/2013 05:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, I am human. But I'm a smart human because I know your games and no, you don't fool me. You assholes are looking for someone to raise you. I already had 2 kids, I don't need any more. Quoting: hawk8414 Where in this thread do men say that what they look for in a women is a person who can raise them? Where did you get that one, did you just pull it out of your ass? bwahahahahahaha!! The old "get me a sammich and a beer and then come cver here and blow me" that sounds about like what most men want. Fuck you, man. Nobody needs you. You ain't got nothing I want. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1524690 Canada 03/17/2013 05:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, I am human. But I'm a smart human because I know your games and no, you don't fool me. You assholes are looking for someone to raise you. I already had 2 kids, I don't need any more. Quoting: hawk8414 yu are a godless whore raising godless offspring. go on bullshiting. My children are grown, asshole, And they're doing just fine on their own. Stay in Spain, nobody needs you. You're the fucking parasite. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1524690 Canada 03/17/2013 05:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The good men like me, get cheated on many times. I still stay in the relationship for our 3 children, while mommy goes out and lives the way she wants to. I refuse to let this marriage fail. Quoting: Zarx If you stay, then you are a good man. But if shes' cheating, don't sleep with her anymore. Your life is worth more than her BS. You don't need a gift that keeps on giving if you know what I mean. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23382441 United States 03/17/2013 05:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, I am human. But I'm a smart human because I know your games and no, you don't fool me. You assholes are looking for someone to raise you. I already had 2 kids, I don't need any more. Quoting: hawk8414 Where in this thread do men say that what they look for in a women is a person who can raise them? Where did you get that one, did you just pull it out of your ass? bwahahahahahaha!! The old "get me a sammich and a beer and then come cver here and blow me" that sounds about like what most men want. Fuck you, man. Nobody needs you. You ain't got nothing I want. Holly shit you are going out with some fucked up men. Sorry. I would not treat you like that, but then again I am only 5'5" tall so you would not give me the time of day anyway. |
veracious common sense User ID: 1462016 Canada 03/17/2013 05:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The good men, like me, get burnt once and learn our lesson. I did everything in the world for my wife for 16 years only to have her betray me. She even admitted to everyone it's her fault but it's "her life and she can do what she wants". I doubt I'll ever marry again, but if I do it will be to an Asian or some other culture where the women aren't raised to be psychotic hippos who are never happy. American women SUCK. Yes, there are exceptions but they're few and far between. All the good ones are snatched up young and for a 40 year old like me the choices are divorced moms looking for a payday, or young golddiggers. I'll pass. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30688956 did you live my life too ? good post !! "we must make the world honest before we can honestly say to the children that honesty is the best policy! " George Bernard Shaw. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1524690 Canada 03/17/2013 05:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, I am human. But I'm a smart human because I know your games and no, you don't fool me. You assholes are looking for someone to raise you. I already had 2 kids, I don't need any more. Quoting: hawk8414 Where in this thread do men say that what they look for in a women is a person who can raise them? Where did you get that one, did you just pull it out of your ass? bwahahahahahaha!! The old "get me a sammich and a beer and then come cver here and blow me" that sounds about like what most men want. Fuck you, man. Nobody needs you. You ain't got nothing I want. Holly shit you are going out with some fucked up men. Sorry. I would not treat you like that, but then again I am only 5'5" tall so you would not give me the time of day anyway. My next door neighbor is 5'5 and his problem why he is alone is because he is a goddamn slob! No shit! he will not clean he won't shower, shave or brush his teeth, or get a haircut! And then he wonders why he can't find anyone. I know a family who is staying over there, the girl told me last night that his hot water only lasts 5 mins! and she said that he hadn't washed dishes in 6 months! There were dishes all over the counter from one end to the other and the stove! NO woman wants that. I know I wouldn't. She helped to clean it up but it took her about a damn week. and She even bought anew toilet seat because the old one was cracked and split and yellow with piss stains on it. NO, he's gonna be alone for the rest of his life. I couldn't live like that and I won't. That's what most of the men around here live like and yet, they still want some woman to take care of them? Hell no! OH< and btw, I don't go out with anyone who lives around me. It's a rule. These fools are so jealous of my independence that they hate the fact that I am living on my own. They want to talk shit and hate because I will not fall for their BS. They need us women more than we need them. Besides, these folks are way too nosy around here. They have a habit of getting into your business, too fucking nosy. No privacy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1398304 Canada 03/17/2013 05:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I went out with a man who was an inch shirter than me at 5'4". He was smart and funny. :) But he was also an alcoholic...that is the reason why I am still not with him.....not his height. Mr. 5'5" you need to work on your personality..... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 35928885 United States 03/18/2013 08:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You know, I sent over 1000 ''meet me'' invitations on Plenty of Fish and I only got about three responses from fat chicks. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30262762 I tried a little experiment on match.com. I posted the normal sort of closeup as a main picture. I left out details about my job etc. in my profile. I got about 2 emails a week and maybe half a dozen smiles. Then I changed my main pic to one of me standing next to my Porsche at an SCCA event. I put in my income stats (nearly 200k a year). You would have thought I was Brad Pitt and Sean Connery's love child! I had almost 120 emails, smiles, and endless chat invitations. Confirmed what I already knew about American women. I did the same experiment myself. Same results. American women are nothing more than parasitical whores. Gold digging whores are easy to spot, ffs, avoid them. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25867801 United States 03/18/2013 11:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Correct, it is called divide and conquer. The feminist movement is a divide and conquer scheme, created by satan/illuminati/etc, designed to divide along the gender line, i.e., divide men from women. I have some trouble sleeping, so I will write this and make another attempt to go to sleep. White women in English speaking countries are doing exactly what the richie rich boys want. The whole female population is being targeted but the white english speaking ones seem to be the ones drinking the koolaid for the most part. I come off as being pissed off, but my being pissed off is jusified. Like you mentioned earlier, men get attacked and belittled for complaining when they think that things are wrong. Even as an AC I sometimes think that some of the folks here would hurt me if they could. There's this one single mom AC who makes it a point to attack me in any topic. The ID number ends with a 47 right now. She writes six paragraphs to say nothing. To this day I read the first sentence and the last, nothing else. I saw the exchange with that bonehead star-tard and her response is typical. Men are shown as childish on their TV programming and commercials, and they think that men are like that in real life. We are big childish slobs to them, it justifies their abuse to men who complain here and to any man they deem as undesireable in real life. The states have a whole army of selfish women like her. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25867801 United States 03/19/2013 10:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wouldn't give up my freedom for a man or anything. I just can't see myself doing it. After having been married and divorced, I find that I like having the choice and the freedom to live and choose for myself. Quoting: hawk8414 I don't need your money or anything else you have. So that argument is out. I don't need the security BS that most women use,"Oh I don't want to be alone." I don't give a shit if he has a car or a truck or a fucking 4 wheeler. I don't care how big his house is or if he lives on a riverboat house,etc... That's his property, I don't have anything to do with it. He gets to clean it and sleep there. I don't care what kind of job he has SO LONG AS HE HAS A JOB! Because I am NOT taking care of him! It is not my job to raise somebody grown! I like to come and go as I please and he can do the same. The only thing I need a man for is sex and he had better be really good at it,too. Not this 3 minute shit. If you're that goddamned bad, you ain't getting with me. I like to get up, get showered and leave after it 's all said and done. Better that way. Fuck love. Too much drama. Fuck pillow talk. When you stupid women find out that you can come and go without worrying over his ass, then he starts to understand that he can't tie you down,and they start thinking about things. Next thing you know, it's a FWB thing and he's the one who starts to have "Feelings." LOL! I've had it happen three times so far. You girls have to stop being so damn needy,looking for some guy to take care of you. Fuck that, you take care of yourself. If he wants you, he'll come around more often. If not, move on. WOW is this garbage actually coming from the species considered the highest life form on this planet? bwahahahahaha!! Haven't you heard? Women need men like a fish needs a bicycle. Of course that rule doesn't apply if the gold digging bitch meets Joe Billionaire. Maybe it does once the state handles the preplanned divorce. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 25867801 United States 03/19/2013 10:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You know, I sent over 1000 ''meet me'' invitations on Plenty of Fish and I only got about three responses from fat chicks. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30262762 That's because 80% of the women are chasing after the top 15% of the men. Even fat and homely chicks have been brainwashed into believing that they are "princesses", and are deserving of only the very best. So many of these women are brain-dead, covered in tats, have foul mouths, and have the gall to ask, "where are all the good men?" Or "where are all the REAL men?" The previous poster who mentioned the unbelievably RIDICULOUS entitlement mentality that American women have nowadays, hit the nail right on the head. That is so true and you are one of the only other people here admitting that. Everyone else thinks that they are super easy for some reason. It's usually older married men who last dated in the 1980's who believe that. We had a middle class in the 80's too. |