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Message Subject Why men cheat - this is for all you ladies out there
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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I have been married for 10 years and I have been faithful to my wife. I love her and she is my best friend which is why I didn't cheat. The problem is that we have such mismatched sexual needs. Before marriage my wife used to perform oral on me quite a bit and we had a good sex life. After marriage within the first year there was a huge change. It seems to me that she did what she needed to do to keep me interested enough to get me to marry her. We have sex only when she is in the mood which is about twice a month. When I try initiating anything she comes up with excuses or complains about it. She recognizes that she has a low libidio and has said that she wishes that mine matched hers. I feel myself drifting and moving more and more away from her and I am not in love with her anymore. She still feels like a best friend, but I find myself frustrated and I am starting to resent her as a wife. What is running through my mind is that I am thinking if leaving her as the temptation to cheat is just becoming so strong. So if you want to keep your man interested in you and your marriage then feed he needs. It is very simple as men express and feel love for their partners through sex. It is what bonds us to you and what makes us move mountains for you. We are simple creatures that way.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28249357

So true. I do it whether I am in the mood or not because I know he really needs it. He also gives great foot/back rubs so I have something to look forward to after the fact. We trade off something I like for something he likes. Your wife might want to look into hormone treatments as well. Maybe she is low on progesterone which can mess up the libido big time. They have over the counter creams for that. Might want to google it up and educate yourself on the stage of life your wife is in and then talk to her about it. Or find a doc that does natural hormone treatments. Try to make it work and don't give up on her. You will just find problems with other women or even a sexually transmitted disease.
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