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Message Subject Why men cheat - this is for all you ladies out there
Poster Handle Anonymous Coward
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I have been married for 10 years and I have been faithful to my wife. I love her and she is my best friend which is why I didn't cheat. The problem is that we have such mismatched sexual needs. Before marriage my wife used to perform oral on me quite a bit and we had a good sex life. After marriage within the first year there was a huge change. It seems to me that she did what she needed to do to keep me interested enough to get me to marry her. We have sex only when she is in the mood which is about twice a month. When I try initiating anything she comes up with excuses or complains about it. She recognizes that she has a low libidio and has said that she wishes that mine matched hers. I feel myself drifting and moving more and more away from her and I am not in love with her anymore. She still feels like a best friend, but I find myself frustrated and I am starting to resent her as a wife. What is running through my mind is that I am thinking if leaving her as the temptation to cheat is just becoming so strong. So if you want to keep your man interested in you and your marriage then feed he needs. It is very simple as men express and feel love for their partners through sex. It is what bonds us to you and what makes us move mountains for you. We are simple creatures that way.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28249357

Just my opinion. I could be wrong, because I have been faithfully married to my faithful husband for 50 years, and am well aware that times and people are a 'changing, so maybe my ideas are outdated. I believe that if a spouse no longer wants sex with their partner, then the bond that has them together is not love. When two people meet one another's other needs, then they want to be physically close; and physical closeness between them leads to sexual tension. Except in cases where there is a physical--medical-- cause for the dysfunction. When everything else works, the brain is the most important sex organ. The marital union that God intended for man and wife includes sex; they are to be united emotionally, financially, spiritually and physically. The "unequal yokes" that both men and women on this forum are constantly complaining about seem to me to be because everyone in the young generation now expects their spouse to be perfect. We all have strengths and weaknesses, but once the instant gratification is over for the young people today, then the thrill becomes a chill. Too bad nobody's perfect. Couples could keep their physical love alive if they would just be willing to pick up the slack for the other person in the relationship and cherish their mate. If one is unwilling, then I just don't see that the relationship is based on love.
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