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Message Subject Why men cheat - this is for all you ladies out there
Poster Handle JustCinnamon
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You don't see how that would hurt your life?

You're an idiot, and I'll prove it- go tell her you're cheating and see how she feels.

Think she won't get hurt?

That's like saying crime is always justifiable as long as a cop doesn't see. So go ahead and tell her if you think it doesn't matter.

I bet you couldn't even stand the idea of her fucking another man.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26339639

Thats exactly why I wont tell her because I don't want her to feel like she is not the most important girl in my life. The perfect marriage you see on tv shows they don't consider the evolutionary instinct to mate with as many girls as possible. Now of course I know its modern times, but still its more natural then being with one girl. That being said I found my best friend and sole mate and I would not leave her for anything. She will never find out as much as I want to tell her and explain that its just some sexual companionship with girls I trust and consider close friends. She would never understand that. Thank you media and crazy standards you set.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11922974

So you would be fine with her having sex with different men while married to you?
 Quoting: JustCinnamon

I too am victim to the perceived idea of the perfect wife so it might bother me. The point I was trying to bring up here is that if you are happy, and your significant other is happy why worry about stuff like that. Now if something happened where I was planning on leaving her then its an obligation to tell her. But if its real love then nothing will break that apart, especially some love on the side. People are getting offended by this cant say its not instinct to be with as many girls or guys as possible. Now ask yourself would your marriage be better if both parties were happy? I'm not saying everyone is happy by cheating, but whatever it takes to make you happy do it, and your relationship will thrive.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 11922974

It's not just an "idea." Feelings are involved, hence your "it might bother me." You're not a robot so it's not nearly as simple as you're attempting to make it out to be. For you to say you're not hurting your wife is ridiculous. IF she actually KNEW what you were doing, of course she'd be hurt. Just like you would be if she was out there doing what you're doing. I'm sorry, but you sound like a coward to me who's hiding behind "instinct" and using it as a justification for dishonesty. If it was solely based on instinct, then it wouldn't "bother" you if your wife was out doing the same.

What do you mean why worry about stuff like that? Are you saying she could be out there having sex with other men right now, and as long as you don't know about it, who cares? I'm not offended by what you're writing, I just think you're attempting to fool yourself into believing what you write. What if you found out two years from now that for the last two years your wife was sleeping with other men? It goes beyond just sex. You think your ego wouldn't be crushed? You think your trust wouldn't be?
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