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Message Subject Why men cheat - this is for all you ladies out there
Poster Handle Scarbedazzles
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I have been married for 10 years and I have been faithful to my wife. I love her and she is my best friend which is why I didn't cheat. The problem is that we have such mismatched sexual needs. Before marriage my wife used to perform oral on me quite a bit and we had a good sex life. After marriage within the first year there was a huge change. It seems to me that she did what she needed to do to keep me interested enough to get me to marry her. We have sex only when she is in the mood which is about twice a month. When I try initiating anything she comes up with excuses or complains about it. She recognizes that she has a low libidio and has said that she wishes that mine matched hers. I feel myself drifting and moving more and more away from her and I am not in love with her anymore. She still feels like a best friend, but I find myself frustrated and I am starting to resent her as a wife. What is running through my mind is that I am thinking if leaving her as the temptation to cheat is just becoming so strong. So if you want to keep your man interested in you and your marriage then feed he needs. It is very simple as men express and feel love for their partners through sex. It is what bonds us to you and what makes us move mountains for you. We are simple creatures that way.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28249357

I agree with you totally....I am in my second marriage and I was very much like your wife during the first marriage but when I met my now hubby....I was totally In love. We are together constantly so I always poo poo the other wives who tell me they NEED time with the "girls". I only need time with him. Our sex life is amazing...we were just in Vegas and alone without kids for once....we counted and in 4 days...we did it....12 times! Our usual is about 5x per week except for the 3 or so "questionable" days of the month...then he just gets HIS if you know what I mean. I know he would at least TRY to move mountains for me. He has always told me that if other men knew what he knows about me they would be lined up down the block....rofl...probably not true, but it keeps him happy and thats what matters.

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