I love how the answer from virtually every women in this thread is for the guy to put in more work, put her on a pedestal, do things for her, find out what she likes, do this, do that, do, do, do, do, do...

What if men made you girls work for every ounce of emotional support we gave you? What if we made you work for every single thing we gave up for your, threw in the towel on and or bust our behinds for you? How would that sit with you? You would be screaming chauvinism and sexism if we went down that road.

You cant have it both ways. You cant want the feminist ideals while asking your man to put you on a pedestal. One is about equality and the other is about subservience. If you want your man to treat you like a princess you better treat him like a Victoria Secret model. When one party gets their needs met and the other doesnt there is a VACUUM. You know what happens to a Vacuum...It gets filled. You will end up crying to your girlfriends about how awful he is/was and you will never think for one moment to look in the mirror...

Treat each other well. Treat others as you would like to be treated...If not be prepared to be treated as you have treated others..The golden rule is not about how you treat others but ultimately how others treat you.