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"I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone."

 
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"I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone."
I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone at 42

 
Eight years after that wonderful engagement party in 1989, I walked away from dear, devoted, loyal Matthew, convinced that somewhere out there, a better, more exciting, more fulfilling life awaited me.
Only there wasn't.
Now I am 42 and have all the trappings of success - a high-flying career, financial security and a home in the heart of London's trendy Notting Hill. But I don't have the one thing I crave more than anything: a loving husband and family.
You see, I never did find another man who offered everything Matthew did, who understood me and loved me like he did. Someone who was my best friend as well as my lover.
Toay, seeing friends with their children around them tortures me, as I know I am unlikely ever to have a family of my own. I think about the times Matthew and I talked about having children, even discussing the names we would choose. I cannot believe I turned my back on so much happiness.
Instead, here I am back on the singles market, looking for the very thing I discarded with barely a backward glance all those years ago.
 
[SNIP: The article then goes on to describe how in love they were and how happy she was...until her career and salary started to advance...while his stayed the same]
 
"I still loved him, but I began to feel embarrassed by his blue-collar jobs, annoyed that, despite his intelligence, he didn't have a career....I began to wish he was more sophisticated and earned more. I felt envious of friends with better-off partners, who were able to support them as they started their families.
I stopped seeing Matthew as my equal. I stopped seeing all the qualities that had made me fall in love with him - his fierce intelligence, our shared sense of humour, his determination not to follow the crowd. Instead, I saw someone who was holding me back. 

[SNIP: Ther article then describes how she dumps him and then dates a "bad boy" musician for a time...but it doesn't work out. She has other relationships but none are ever as good. She and Matthiew stayed "just friends" amd continued to communicate. When Matthew found happiness with another woman...something that made her angry and jealous, even though she was the one who dumped him. Then time goes by, and one day she wakes up and realizes she's old and lonely and has no kidds, partner, or love in her life...]

 
Read it here. Long but interesting:
 
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I'll tell you one thing. Matthew was lucky to get away from that evil psycho bitch.
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01/17/2013 11:20 PM
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Good, grass is always greener on the other side of the fence isn't it?
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Whatever
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I am glad Matthew is doing well.



Dont care one Iota for the women who wrote this. What a horrible person.
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01/17/2013 11:23 PM
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blahhhhhhhhhh
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laugh
baffle m with briliance,or startle m with stupidity. everbody outta the pool.
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01/17/2013 11:25 PM
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WHORE
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You can't blame her she was probably just raised that way by her parents who taught her "nobody is good enough for our daughter".
It happens a lot then they just end up like her.
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I can give you a child but no love for you.
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01/17/2013 11:32 PM
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laugh

I'll tell you one thing. Matthew was lucky to get away from that evil psycho bitch.
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^^^^^THIS^^^^^
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01/17/2013 11:33 PM
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I can give you the raw ingredients for a child but no love for you.dubya
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My ex did the same thing to me. She decided to play the world at my expense. She stole from my checking account and ruined my savings and investments just to experience her delights. I got shafted from her betrayal.

Therefore, I got no tears for you lady. Suck it!
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32486805


You can't blame her she was probably just raised that way by her parents who taught her "nobody is good enough for our daughter".
It happens a lot then they just end up like her.
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Read the article. Her parents were very upset and urged her to stay with him.

You may be right about other women and their parents, but

in this case,

the family wanted her to stay with him.


I found the article sad and touching. Yes, he may be better off without her, but only he knows that for sure.

Just a cautionary tale that happens to be true about throwing out the things that do not glitter like gold in our lives.
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 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32486805


You can't blame her she was probably just raised that way by her parents who taught her "nobody is good enough for our daughter".
It happens a lot then they just end up like her.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1018225


Read the article. Her parents were very upset and urged her to stay with him.

You may be right about other women and their parents, but

in this case,

the family wanted her to stay with him.


I found the article sad and touching. Yes, he may be better off without her, but only he knows that for sure.

Just a cautionary tale that happens to be true about throwing out the things that do not glitter like gold in our lives.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28167778


Damn that's crazy she wouldn't even listen to her parents.
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I had 7 women all vying for a chance with me. Two proposed. I just banged them all for awhile then discarded them for some you get chicks.

Good thing about 18 year old girls is there's an unlimited supply. No matter how old I get. Flash some cash. Instant pooty tang for booty bang.
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Re: "I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone."
I left the love of my life because I thought I could do better. Now I'm childless and alone at 42

 
Eight years after that wonderful engagement party in 1989, I walked away from dear, devoted, loyal Matthew, convinced that somewhere out there, a better, more exciting, more fulfilling life awaited me.
Only there wasn't.
Now I am 42 and have all the trappings of success - a high-flying career, financial security and a home in the heart of London's trendy Notting Hill. But I don't have the one thing I crave more than anything: a loving husband and family.
You see, I never did find another man who offered everything Matthew did, who understood me and loved me like he did. Someone who was my best friend as well as my lover.
Toay, seeing friends with their children around them tortures me, as I know I am unlikely ever to have a family of my own. I think about the times Matthew and I talked about having children, even discussing the names we would choose. I cannot believe I turned my back on so much happiness.
Instead, here I am back on the singles market, looking for the very thing I discarded with barely a backward glance all those years ago.
 
[SNIP: The article then goes on to describe how in love they were and how happy she was...until her career and salary started to advance...while his stayed the same]
 
"I still loved him, but I began to feel embarrassed by his blue-collar jobs, annoyed that, despite his intelligence, he didn't have a career....I began to wish he was more sophisticated and earned more. I felt envious of friends with better-off partners, who were able to support them as they started their families.
I stopped seeing Matthew as my equal. I stopped seeing all the qualities that had made me fall in love with him - his fierce intelligence, our shared sense of humour, his determination not to follow the crowd. Instead, I saw someone who was holding me back. 

[SNIP: Ther article then describes how she dumps him and then dates a "bad boy" musician for a time...but it doesn't work out. She has other relationships but none are ever as good. She and Matthiew stayed "just friends" amd continued to communicate. When Matthew found happiness with another woman...something that made her angry and jealous, even though she was the one who dumped him. Then time goes by, and one day she wakes up and realizes she's old and lonely and has no kidds, partner, or love in her life...]

 
Read it here. Long but interesting:
 
  [link to www.dailymail.co.uk]
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Poetic justice.
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welcome to GLP.
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i had some bitch do that same thing and i know the same shits gonna happen to her one day. Why do they think they can just got fuck someone else when you finally give'm your heart
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01/18/2013 12:26 AM
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X's on the back of your hand's/Wash them in the bath room too drink like the band's



Bruises cover your arm's
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01/18/2013 12:28 AM
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And to think how a starving African with AIDs or an Afghan child who just lost his/her family would love to have this author's "problems".

Attention whore, clearly.
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And to think how a starving African with AIDs or an Afghan child who just lost his/her family would love to have this author's "problems".

Attention whore, clearly.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31557420


I thought the same thing "first world problems"

I also thought the author was still trying too get him back by writing that whole article.
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01/18/2013 12:35 AM
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People make mistakes.

Her lesson was for you to learn to love what you have.
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01/18/2013 12:40 AM
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Yes, please Ladies, keep taking your life advice from television and movies. It always works better that way.
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01/18/2013 12:46 AM
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And you still base your worth on stupid material possessions.
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01/18/2013 12:48 AM
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I'll tell you one thing. Matthew was lucky to get away from that evil psycho bitch.
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sometimes you feel sad for something you left behind because you have no imagination.

She left him for a reason and it pained her greatly to do it. Now she doesn't remember why because feeling sorry for herself is easier than creating the life that she envisioned.

Sometimes I feel sad for lost relationships but really it is just emotional nonsense because do I really want that person living with me? No, not really. It was over.

I am actually quite ok with my decisions, or rather the path that things took -I do not always feel in retrospect that I made decisions but more that events occurred that changed things. It's ok. But of course I say that at 50, I had a child who is now a woman herself. At 30 or even 40 I felt more letdown by events than I do now. Now I look for joy wherever I can find it and I think there is lots of it to be had.
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sometimes you feel sad for something you left behind because you have no imagination.

She left him for a reason and it pained her greatly to do it. Now she doesn't remember why because feeling sorry for herself is easier than creating the life that she envisioned.

Sometimes I feel sad for lost relationships but really it is just emotional nonsense because do I really want that person living with me? No, not really. It was over.

I am actually quite ok with my decisions, or rather the path that things took -I do not always feel in retrospect that I made decisions but more that events occurred that changed things. It's ok. But of course I say that at 50, I had a child who is now a woman herself. At 30 or even 40 I felt more letdown by events than I do now. Now I look for joy wherever I can find it and I think there is lots of it to be had.
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Its always about you, isnt it?

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