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TDJ (OP) User ID: 32464733 United States 01/20/2013 07:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Poor kid, my heart really goes out to her. Same thing happened to me. It was relentless. Boys used to poke my breats with paint brushes in art class, among other things. Sad that it still happens. Quoting: Vic-chick13 Boys can't help themselves but I'm sorry that happened. Boobs are fascinating to teenage boys If something can corrupt you, you're corrupted already. Bob Marley “The duty of a patriot is to protect his country from its government.” THOMAS PAINE (1737-1809) Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. Bruce Lee |
TastyThoughts User ID: 1308649 United States 01/20/2013 08:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What is that phrase? Oh, that's right it is, "lead by example." I wonder what the long term psychological effects will be on the child for the personnel of the school not offering protection from sexual harassment. I wonder how the decision makers in the situation treat other incidents of sexual harassment? Makes me disgusted to think there maybe a lot of swinging pedophiles a-foot in that region. "They cannot see what's-up if They are looking down." (TastyThoughts) "Something is smelly! Something is smelly, like an old barnacle encrusted shoe washing ashore in the middle of summer." (TastyThoughts) "Yes happy Earth day. Now go tell the wicked to stop damaging the Human Species therefore/and the Earth; For, they are discombobulating the entire Universe and upsetting the Most High God." (TastyThoughts) |
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Dr. Manhattan User ID: 28822130 United States 01/20/2013 08:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Poor kid, my heart really goes out to her. Same thing happened to me. It was relentless. Boys used to poke my breats with paint brushes in art class, among other things. Sad that it still happens. Quoting: Vic-chick13 Boys can't help themselves but I'm sorry that happened. Boobs are fascinating to teenage boys Boobs are fascinating no matter what age you are. You gals keep those beautiful curves nestled up inside your shirts and us men just can't help but obsess over them. |
TDJ (OP) User ID: 32464733 United States 01/20/2013 08:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Another thought is could her breasts keep her from playing sports or cause her back or other health probs in the future? Maybe she is miserable and would like the reduction but it's not up to the school to suggest that it's her fault she's being harassed If something can corrupt you, you're corrupted already. Bob Marley “The duty of a patriot is to protect his country from its government.” THOMAS PAINE (1737-1809) Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. Bruce Lee |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 12366656 United States 01/20/2013 08:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Poor kid, my heart really goes out to her. Same thing happened to me. It was relentless. Boys used to poke my breats with paint brushes in art class, among other things. Sad that it still happens. Quoting: Vic-chick13 Well at least they wern't Homos! and good thing you didn't fencing class huh--LOL :-) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32547856 United States 01/20/2013 08:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Anyone who would make fun of a kid with scars from a heart condition deserves to be hit. And getting surgery to change your body to prevent bullying doesn't sound like a good idea, might make it worse actually since she would probably be known as that girl that had to get a boob reduction. Just have her wear bigger shirts. |
MarkinAZ User ID: 20006444 United States 01/20/2013 08:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The parents have every right to be outraged. Frankly an all girls school might be a good idea for a year or two until she's used to having such ample breasts, etc. But the school has a responsibility to stop the bullying and harassment. A breast reduction is MAJOR surgery - much more complicated and far more dangerous than a simple set of implants being placed is. To force such a surgery on a child - long before she can decide for herself whether it's a good idea or not - after knowing the risks, scaring, possible complications, etc., is nothing short of criminal. This kid doesn't need such a traumatic surgery even considered until she can legally decide for herself. What she does need is a vastly better school and school administrators. This girl doesn't have a defect or a congenital problem. She simply has early development of breasts! Nothing more! Far too many male children are not breast fed today and wind up longing all their lives for the breast they never got as a baby. This can manifest in all kinds of idiotic behavior when they're discovering their own buddinig sexual feelings fo rthe first couple of months. |
mopar28m User ID: 14265444 United States 01/20/2013 08:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So instead of putting a stop to the bullying and promoting equality and not to discriminate based on the appearance of someone, they suggest the child alter their features? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32524672 Great thinkng there idiots. EXACTLY!!!! vaccinefreehealth blogspot com The risk far outweighs any benefit as the risk will vary from child to child. facebook.com/graphixyourway |
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mopar28m User ID: 14265444 United States 01/20/2013 08:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe she wouldn't be harassed if she stops dressing like a whore. Of course I don't know if that's true or not, but kids are dressing more slutty to be like their so called role models and celebrity idols. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32620255 Women aren't asking to be raped when they dress in such a way that makes them look good. Girls aren't asking to be harassed if they dress in that same manner YOu can NOT blame the victim. vaccinefreehealth blogspot com The risk far outweighs any benefit as the risk will vary from child to child. facebook.com/graphixyourway |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32620255 United States 01/20/2013 08:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe she wouldn't be harassed if she stops dressing like a whore. Of course I don't know if that's true or not, but kids are dressing more slutty to be like their so called role models and celebrity idols. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32620255 Women aren't asking to be raped when they dress in such a way that makes them look good. Girls aren't asking to be harassed if they dress in that same manner YOu can NOT blame the victim. I understand your point, but sometimes a better approach is to avoid confrontation or in this case harassment. When women dress provocatively, they are seeking attention. The school probably got tired of her inappropriate outfit. I don't know why they didn't just expel her. Assuming this is true, of course. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21510401 United States 01/20/2013 08:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Poor kid, my heart really goes out to her. Same thing happened to me. It was relentless. Boys used to poke my breats with paint brushes in art class, among other things. Sad that it still happens. Quoting: Vic-chick13 Boys can't help themselves but I'm sorry that happened. Boobs are fascinating to teenage boys Boys don't poke the female teachers in the breast, so ya they do know better. The world will not allow for corporeal punishment anymore so they have nothing to lose. Your in time out little boy...wow! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32685857 United States 01/20/2013 08:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If this is like most public schools the school probably would not care if she was turning tricks at school dressed as a Furby, as long as they did not have to deal with it. They simply don't want to be bothered. The person who suggested the breast reduction probably went back to her usual busy day of painting her 3 inch nails as soon as she hung up from talking to the Mom. I know a public school teacher who told her 6th grade (male) students how to get porn using Limewire. Your taxpayers dollars paid to for that instruction. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 32620255 United States 01/20/2013 08:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If this is like most public schools the school probably would not care if she was turning tricks at school dressed as a Furby, as long as they did not have to deal with it. Quoting: zenobiaphobia They simply don't want to be bothered. The person who suggested the breast reduction probably went back to her usual busy day of painting her 3 inch nails as soon as she hung up from talking to the Mom. I know a public school teacher who told her 6th grade (male) students how to get porn using Limewire. Your taxpayers dollars paid to for that instruction. I went to public school and we had a dress code. They were very strict. I remember they even suspended a kid for wearing a t-shirt with just the numbers 69. Times must have really changed in only a decade. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21510401 United States 01/20/2013 09:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe she wouldn't be harassed if she stops dressing like a whore. Of course I don't know if that's true or not, but kids are dressing more slutty to be like their so called role models and celebrity idols. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 32620255 Women aren't asking to be raped when they dress in such a way that makes them look good. Girls aren't asking to be harassed if they dress in that same manner YOu can NOT blame the victim. I understand your point, but sometimes a better approach is to avoid confrontation or in this case harassment. When women dress provocatively, they are seeking attention. The school probably got tired of her inappropriate outfit. I don't know why they didn't just expel her. Assuming this is true, of course. I always tell my son to cop a feel anytime he can at schhol, whats the worse that can happen, three day vacation at home and you can still have your work and get credit too. |
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MuslimAmerican User ID: 26542172 United States 01/20/2013 09:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A Missouri mother is outraged after her daughter's school district allegedly suggested the 13-year-old get a breast reduction to stop bullying. Quoting: TDJ Tammie Jackson said her daughter, a sixth-grade student at Central Middle School is being sexually harassed because of her breast size, Fox2Now.com reported. [link to www.foxnews.com] My child wouldn't be going back there, the school and children's parents of those harassing her would all be sued. They're basically telling the girl and her parents to conform to the harassment. There's not much uglier than suggesting someone get under the knife so they're better accepted by others. Feed the hungry, visit the sick, free a captive if he be unjustly confined(kidnapped/enslaved by someone). Assist any person oppressed, whether they're of the Muslim or non-Muslim. - Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) |
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beeches User ID: 28167778 United States 01/20/2013 09:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A Missouri mother is outraged after her daughter's school district allegedly suggested the 13-year-old get a breast reduction to stop bullying. Quoting: TDJ Tammie Jackson said her daughter, a sixth-grade student at Central Middle School is being sexually harassed because of her breast size, Fox2Now.com reported. [link to www.foxnews.com] My child wouldn't be going back there, the school and children's parents of those harassing her would all be sued. They're basically telling the girl and her parents to conform to the harassment. There's not much uglier than suggesting someone get under the knife so they're better accepted by others. This is true. And the boys would know they had won when the girl comes back so changed. Mutilate my body for a bunch of punks? That school needs its tax money pulled. Liberalism is totalitarianism with a human face – Thomas Sowell |