I have had enough fun for life time.

Step one, stop drinking and partying. step two, stop sleeping in and hold a job. Step three, quit bitching, show no emotion. Neediness, want, doubt, will make a woman run for the hills.. flirt, but after sex be indifferent, and they will stick around like ferrel cats.

There is a place of joy and happiness for everyone on this planet if you truly seek it. Find your grove in life and live it. You have a long ways to go with lots of excitement on the horizon! Good luck and have fun!

I am saying this for your own benefit because I too had a pretty life shattering experience. 2012 may have not been the end of the world, but it was the end of my world.

For a few weeks, I wandered aimlessly until I found a motivation to do something different.

My best advice to you is stop sitting on your ass. You obviously have far too much time on your hands to let thoughts of a girl from ten years ago control you. Secondly, the women probably smell the sorrow from your previous hole you seem to be unable to crawl out of.

Again, I am saying this for your own good.

Wake the fuck up man! And snap out of it. You are creating your own hell and you have got to let shit go. Stop carrying all of this negative baggage.

Life isn't about a woman either and 9 out of 10 of them will never really get to 'know' you - so stop revealing so much of yourself. They like 'mystery'.

But as I stated - a lady in your life is secondary. It sounds like your life is in shitsville and you need a bus pass out.

Look dude, get involved with your community and stop wallowing in your bullshit. You are creating this bum fuck reality you describe and then you want sympathy from the internet?

This is the BEST help you can get! Fill your time with meaningful things and stopping picking at scabs that should have healed long ago had you not kept looking back. The future is where your head should always be facing.

I wish you the best and for fucks sake don't become some digit on the late night news from doing some dumb shit.

OP, women be crazy.

Stay away, we will only cause heartache

Learn to foget. We all have sad love stories. My true love broke my heart, I am fine now. I just exist, I dont allow anyone to hurt me anymore.

ill rescue you


im 29 female, never hed job. live with my parentz. never hed boyfreind.


every guy who ever showed interest in me in life iz merried now, never went out with me

grow up dude, harden off and quit feeling sorry for yourself.

Do something worth while to someone else, instead of trying to satisfy yourself all the time. Man child time is over honey.

Gotta let go. It was a long time ago.

Past is past...find new happy :)

Oh come on you are ONLY 30!!!! The best is yet to come. Any moment when you least expect it - it's TRUE!

Stay positive and focus on the best things in life.

:lrntofly:

I disagree.

Step one, shut the fuck up. Step two, keep mouth fucking shut.

You made your bed, lie in it or kill yourself, nobody can stand a fucking little kid in a grown man's body i.e. a complainer.

Consider people suffering from torture, starving, dying due to dirty water, living with 10,000 others in a ghetto, walking the streets at night in Chicago, human slave trade, chinese prisons, and if you really think about it you might feel better about your situation.

*Sniff*

Dang CotA,

From "stop sitting on your ass" to "creating a bum fuck reality" to "you need a bus pass out of Shitsville" and "stop picking scabs"

That was beautiful! And I mean it!

Life is tough, OP. Be tough..
Nothing, I mean NOTHING is more disgraceful than ending your own gift of life in ignorant, unilluminating despair because you haven't been able to get all you want (to this date).
Peace OP. It's headed your way.

Sleep on this, have good dreams and never sleep on it again.

Son? Is this you?

Lunch is ready.

Come on down. You can continue whining and bitching in your room later.