How do I stop thinking about this girl I can never get with???? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32988982 Thailand 01/25/2013 11:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32996439 United States 01/25/2013 11:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | meditate, first she is only out of your league because you put her there. so you are saying that you are inadequate, and putting her on a pedestal. now you don't have to believe what i am about to say, you can go the rest of your life with this issue. or... you can forget about her, focus your attention on fixing you by building your confidence in yourself. first by countering your thinking, be aware of the thoughts that are coming into your head, then reverse them, i.e. "i'm not good enough, to "i am good enough. not in a conceded way but in a knowing way. if you take a year of your life and work on this you will be surprised at where you are a year from now. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2066283 Netherlands 01/25/2013 11:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Shes like way out of my league and my stupid brain is obsessed with her. And she is engaged! Quoting: V 32998567 How do I stop this madness and stop obsessing about her???? You are sick in the head! Advice: Fuck a prostitute and you are healed! Treat women like whores, sex objects but with respect and they will love you for it! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 32997237 United States 01/25/2013 11:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The only reason you are obsessing is because you think you cant have her.Wouldnt be nearly as interesting if you thought you could have her. Trust me when I say that if you cant have someone or some thing it is for your own good even if you dont see why. May take a long while but at some point you will see something thats makes you so glad you couldnt have her. |
cosmicgypsy User ID: 31282946 United States 01/25/2013 12:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe this novel approach to solving your problem will in some little way help...providing a kind of kick to your consciousness back forty to get a grip. [link to www.youtube.com] [link to www.youtube.com] [link to www.youtube.com] You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete. -Buckminster Fuller ...I adapt to the unknown, under wandering stars I've grown, by myself, but not alone... [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30844028 United States 01/25/2013 01:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You must be young. Young people haven't suffered enough let downs to learn how to control your emotions yet.Life, through disappoinyments , helps you become strong over what you waste your time worrying about things that are a waste of time. so I guess I have no help other than a lesson learned. |
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Mister_Worlwide User ID: 26282771 United States 01/25/2013 05:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Shes like way out of my league and my stupid brain is obsessed with her. And she is engaged! Quoting: V 32998567 How do I stop this madness and stop obsessing about her???? There's nothing like Miami's heat.... ...Padre Island, TX does beat it! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 27317240 United States 01/25/2013 05:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you thought there was no chance whatsoever under any circumstances, you would stop thinking about her. I'd give my left nut to bang Milla Jovovich but, since that will never happen, I don't lose sleep over it. Until you realize that there is no chance, you will continue thinking about her as success seems at least potential. So, the solution is simply to make a move or move on. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1452506 United States 09/07/2013 08:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In my case, she has a bf and i respect that, but we have a very strong connection. I don't want to pursue her and take her from the guy she's with, it's goes against my code. Also if you she accepted my advances while she's in a relationship with another guy I don't think I would trust her that much. I got it bad,can't help it. |
Mr. Reality User ID: 1350479 United States 09/07/2013 08:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Been there. Ya need to go get drunk with some friends and go bar hopping, then you will see lots of girls and then you can find a new girl to think about all the time. “When injustice becomes law, resistance becomes duty.” -- Thomas Jefferson "My 2nd Amendment will Die with Me" -- iwinallday |