If I was told I was terminally ill tomorrow I would be 100% screwed. Not because of my impending death: who cares about that. Who would take care of my mother? Who would help my son who still needs help? I cannot afford decent insurance. My savings have been exhausted due to circumstances beyond my control. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31735474
It is PROVEN by science that whatever happy people do, they do it 30% more effeciently.
So why should you be afraid of who is taking care of your mother? Your fear doesnt help you in any way at all. Your fear wont take care of her.
You have been taught your entire life to react to problems with fear. When on the other side science is showing that fear is the wrong way of handling problems. It slows you down, it deludes you in a moment of importance.
What you are calling a solution is simply not true =) But i really understand how hard it is to really understand that.
The LAST thing I'd be thinking about and worried about is ME. I don't have that luxury. Maybe people who have money, family to take care of them, friends with the means to help have that. But I don't. If you do, then lucky you. But until you have stood in my shoes don't say that. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31735474
Its not about fear against yourself, but about all fear. If its fear against you, or fear in concern of others its all the same.
And how can you know your life is any harder than the rest of us? We are all living in a very chaotic world right now =)
I guess what I'm saying is all this self involvement-"look on the bright side" stuff is a real luxury that some of us could not ever have...given our circumstances. That's real. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31735474
Its not a luxury, its a choice. Watch some of the videos i posted =) Do some research!