So you find out you will be in a wheelchair for the rest of your days. What next?

Become a gigolo

Is there a demand? I think not.

By finding some really soft pillows.
Your butt is going to hurt after a while.

The gear is fine...the rest is complicated.

slap some awesome rims on the wheelchair and add heated n cooled seat

Last Edited by mrmuffins69 on 01/27/2013 11:48 PM

Wow. Pretty shallow.

I know people in wheelchairs.
It's reality.

It's hard to wax poetic when your ass is covered in sores.

Gallows humor always helps!

I hear lap dances are in..... just sayin. 20 bucks you can have ass in your face and not get thrown out...

Stay positive! You still have your brillant mind, heart and personality. I was 41 when I was told I had peripherial nueropathy. VA threw meds at me, gave me a walker and leg braces. Didn't know if one day I would be in a wheel chair. I dont use the leg braces only the walker if I have to walk far distances. I use a scooter (cool) at amusement parks. You can find many ways to find peace and happiness other then focus on the wheel chair.

why in a wheelchair? They have those robotic legs now. I'd bee all over that shit. I think is the medical miracles episode of TED TALKS.

OK. thanks for the honesty.

you get a gold star pay account and post useless bullshit here day after day!!!



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Op,

There are many handicap people in this world. Being in a wheelchair doesn't mean life is over nor does it mean that you can't contribute & experience all the emotions of living. I'm able to walk but not run or even jog any great distance. Sure, there are lots of things I know I will never be able to do now, like climb mountains etc but that doesn't mean life is over. It just means that I have to adjust to my reality and make life the best possible experience I can.

Shit, no problem, they got bionic implants now...be the first Cyborg on your block!!!

Learn how to fight from a wheelchair so when cops attack and beat you you can try to protect yourself.

A girlfriend of mine just killed a deer and a guy friend gets fucked all the time, both in chairs. Sorry Op, sincerely, maybe you can still be a badass though, since I know of 2 personally who are:)

I mean it doesn't really change anything as far as how you interact with the world. Yes life is so much more difficult for you, but you contribute just the same to loved ones and all you care to do in the world.

I have a close friend who dove into a river and hit a rock and has been quadraplegic for many years. And yet his life is so satisfying and complete today. He's such an inspiration to me.

It's a state of mind.

But I am not in your shoes and by no means making light of it. It must be so incredibly challenging in every way.

:hanginthere:

Find and continue to research alternative treatments.

In addition go to various Christian faith healers, and find one that's genuine.

And keep praying

With good care that is most certainly not the case.

True enough. I would also want one of those extendo grabber things to reach the cupboards lol.

Wife's a quad, life has no meaning it all random bullshit so pick a direction snd start moving and if you don't like it..... there is always thekiller pain to think about. Plan on getting new friends, its basically fucked but its your only game in this town.

You can't contribute sitting down? Robert Wyatt managed nicely:



And read everything by this guy:

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Callahans dick did not work. But he had killer orgasms from this place on his neck. It relocates. Read the book, the guy was hysterical.

Oh yeah that was really helpful! :/

Click......

Get Netflix!

I start working on getting my home wheel chair friendly.

Find a vehicle that I drive to get around.

It will be just a slow process of getting everything figured out.

LOVE Netflix!!

But it does get old after awhile.

OP, not in a wheel chair but close to that....I'm avoiding that at all cost. I have MS.

I work full time, from home. I make phenominal money and I am not kidding. I'm married and have a five year old child.

Yes I'm exhausted most of the time, but I didn't let it get me down.

So what is next....get some determination. Refuse to let this be the block that stops you from fullfilling what you want for yourself.