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V-day sucks.. Signed, the "nice guy"

 
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01/28/2013 12:59 PM
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V-day sucks.. Signed, the "nice guy"
Being a perpetually single white male, Ive found V-day to be torture of the soul.. Im always the "nice guy," the "friend." The guy who is usually chosen to hear the sob stories of my girl friend's asshole boyfriends..
Its funny how a compliment such as, "you're such a nice guy," or a such a "sweet heart," can actually fall under the category of insults.. I've just heard it on so many occasions that it burns to my core.. Because, I know what it truly means.. It means, 'I want to let you down gently because, you're nice and sweet enough to listen to my bull shit, but are not worthy of my companionship.. I'd rather spend my time with a jerk that doesn't truly appreciate what I have to offer.' Or simply, 'you're not good enough to be my man.'

So, here's to another "single V-day." This will be my 20th lonely V-day of my 32 years on this shitty little spec of rock.. Discounting of course, the first 11 years of life before I had had a "crush" on someone, and ONE year where V-day actually had meaning..

Id wager there are many here at GLP who feel the same.. And I know I will also get the usual ridicule from many on here who are more bitter than I.. Go ahead and gimme the "you're a pussy" and "grow up" comments.. At this juncture, almost everything said in my general direction will probably be a crushing blow to my spirit..

Thanks for the vent GLP, you're always good for that..
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01/28/2013 01:15 PM
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Re: V-day sucks.. Signed, the "nice guy"
V-Day is awesome if your single, just go down to the bars/clubs that night. Its like shooting fish in a barrel. Seriously, you need to see the opportunities in life. They are everywhere. V-day is like christmas 2.0
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01/28/2013 01:18 PM
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Re: V-day sucks.. Signed, the "nice guy"
hahahha... thanks man.. However, Im a rather awkward guy and "picking up girls" has never been a strong suit for me.. Shit, I visit GLP on the regular.. LOL

Plus, Im a ginger.. Kinda doomed
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01/28/2013 01:20 PM
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Re: V-day sucks.. Signed, the "nice guy"
is that why them alines have that big old joker mouth or that scar where they had thier mouths narrowed.

Because they suck?
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01/28/2013 01:30 PM
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Re: V-day sucks.. Signed, the "nice guy"
Looks help, but they are not everything. It is all about having self trust and believing that you are enough for the girl. Seriously I know some guys who are average/not good looking and they get girls all the time because of they have that feel that they are entitled to the girl, that they are enough and that they are doing the girl a favor for sleeping with them. You can change your self, it just takes hard work and will power.

I used to be shitty with women, I am not amazing, but I pull now more than ever. We are all born with this knowledge in us, we just have to find a way now to access it because our modern social conditioning has surpressed it for control purposes with all the media/portraying men to be bumbling idiots. Your a man, and that's enough for any women. Be the best man you can be.

All the best OP thats my two cents.
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Re: V-day sucks.. Signed, the "nice guy"
Maybe my problem is that Im not necessarily looking to "hit ass." I want to find someone.. Not just someone Im into, because that happens a lot for me and unless it's mutual it just hurts..
Maybe you're right though.. Perhaps I should go out and just pull some tail and never call em back.. Shit, who am I kidding.. LOL
Thanks for the advice.. Confidence is key, just hard to get it back after a crushing blow to the ego from mis reading someone who I "thought" was interested.. Such as life.. Its always about timing I suppose.. Gotta catch em when they like you.. Or, make em like you first? Id dunno.. Im very rusty at the "game."
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01/28/2013 01:56 PM
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Re: V-day sucks.. Signed, the "nice guy"
Well i didn't say you had to not call em back, that's your choice if you want to still hang out with them. The girl might be really cool and you can choose to continue to see her. The perspective you want to have is that you are the buyer not the seller. Not every girl is going to like you, thats life. You can't force attraction onto people and make them like you. Attraction is not a choice. Just have an abundance mind-set, its easy really. There are women around every corner. If one girl is not into you...thats cool, there are plenty more who will be.

There is the general rule of 1/3,1/3,1/3. 1/3 of women will hate you, the other will really be into you and the last third will think your a cool guy but for w/e reason wont sleep with you(sexual chemistry not there). Your job is to figure out the ones who want you. Your right, some of it is timing. However, alot of it is simply talking and interacting with as many girls as possible and being comfortable doing so. That comes with experience. And you don't get experience by sitting around and doing nothing about it. The fact of the matter is. No one gives a crap if you are shitty with women or are successful with them. You are the only one who should give a shit. Right? Its just like in life...aside from you mom/dad...no one gives a shit about your success in life. You need to do it all. Its a great feeling once you start seeing your own success.

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