hi

i'm so sorry you feel this way
but from my understanding , the bond that still remains - and links you to her is two way

she remains linked to you too
it isn't pithy to say she doesn't want you to be in despair as she will-quite literally - feel it too


i really hope this doesn't upset you but the bonds of love are eternal

for her sake -as she can't 'move on' until you let go and give her permission

and that is the greatest act of love of all

it's not to never think of her or bring her to mind
but when you do- recount the love and let her go

we all get there in the end - but she has done her time
and yours is still ahead of you

she isn't gone but round the corner -willing you to live life well and join her at your time

another perpective - i do hope it helps