I always took it..abusive and hateful words , because I listened to pastors saying GOD hates a divorcing, and if I left, God would leave me. I talked to them, on what he is really like behind closed doors, and they would'nt listen to me, and would give my husband even more resposibilities within the congregation.

I was in an abusive marriage since high school, 19. One day I had it, and cried to GOD please tell me why this man is so hateful and cannot show love. I was becomming a hollow shell of a person, losing who I once was.

So I prayed and asked...If I left would you hold this against me Father?

He answered me in a dream just before I woke.

"What does righteousness have to do with unrighteousness? I am not for unyoked marriages and never was!"