SO i just spit on my wifes face

Hey, relax, I'm being gentle.

So your wife lets your 10 and 15 year old kids sleep in the bed and you have to sleep on the couch... why don't they sleep in their own beds?

I mean, if you are in a position where you don't have beds for them, that's fair enough.

I'm just trying to get a handle on your situation.
You say it's been like this for 12 years?

Do you love your wife? (spitting in her face aside)
Do you believe she loves you?

If it's not too forward, do you make love anymore? When was the last time you did?

yes all our kids have the own rooms own beds.

this is a ongonin g think that ive tried to crake...this WIL hurt our kids when they grow up(I think at least..specially my girl)

sure we make love say every 7-10 day ..im 42 and shes about the same..i want it 2-3 a week..when I say 7-10...that can range to 2-3 weeks

Ok, that's fair enough.

So I assume you've talked to her about the kids sleeping in the bed right?

What does she say?

sorry bout double post..

its ALWAYS ill talk to them about it...how mom and dad need timeblhablhgablha...for the last 12 yrs:/(and she does,but the kids appear in the middle of the night)

in 2002 when I pleaded TO MY WIFE TO TAKE MY DAUGHTER out of a daycare center that I thought m,ight be harmful,she basically said fk u..after that I told her all the kids shit was on her I had no controll

Quote what you know but never Quote what you say-Roppee

So it's the kids basically calling the shots on the bed situation then?

Man you have got to get harsh.

A 15 year old can take a little harsh talk, I say at the next opportunity you go to bed real early before any of them.

As soon as those kids show their face in the bedroom you're ready for it and gotta be like "go to your own room."

If they start moaning you gotta be like "GO TO YOUR OWN ROOM RIGHT NOW!"
Be loud and harsh and shit but be cool, don't actually get mad and no swears.

If they ignore your verbal and start crawling in, get up and say "fine."

Then go sleep in one of their rooms... and fart as much as you can eh? lol

With the 15 year old I think a good angle is to ask her if any of her friends still sleep in mommy and daddy's bed and how she'd feel if they found out that she did.

A little peer pressure by proxy if you will, teenagers fear humiliation of that nature above all else... anything that may make them look childish in front of their friends.

Now that's just how I'd work it, I don't know shit about shit tbh but you gotta get loud and proud sir.

Time to go alpha male.
Your goddamn bed, your goddamn kids.
You sleep in the first one and the second one do what you fucking tell them.

You and your wife are the law in that house man, your kids are not.

As for your wife, I think you ought to get off GLP now and go check on her, spitting in her face was pretty low and I'm sure you feel pretty bad about it now.

Go hold her and hug her and maybe give the dog a pat on the head... mutt's probably feeling a bit low himself.



Last Edited by Lucky Charms on 02/02/2013 01:17 AM

I meant what I said and said what I meant. Roppee is gay, one hundred percent.

So you stupidly step in shit and when your wife is compassionate to an animal (which likely had no idea what it did wrong) you spit on her. Grow up and at least try to act like a real man. Hard to believe a woman would marry you let alone breed with you.

TY!Tahts why I went alph on the dog taking a shit next to my chair.and when my wife brought the dog back in afte 5 seconds when I tied him to the tree...to me my wife just said"fuck you I run this house not u" and let the dog back in

and then I spit on her

no not a lougie...just some spit..is all

The OP is a wife beater. He will be in the news foe killing his wife and will end up in death row.

He hits women a horrible person

damn I thought you brits had more sense..sham...but understandable lmao

hahaaha that is a good 1

really?lets me put a pile off shit on you..see how you take it

your just a retard recycling shit

In my experience having a man spit in your face is 10x more humilating than getting hit. Hitting is not okay obviously, but you can see where people lose their temper or whatever. Spitting in someone's face is a gesture of absolute disgust, like they are a worthless piece of trash.

your right!whay can I do?

I feel so helpless in my home and raising my children

Tell her you are ashamed of yourself. and that you love her. And why you are frustrated. You guys really need to work out your problems, because its way more than just the dog thing. You dont want to stay frustrated and keep blowing up over stuff

ive tried...honeslty for 12 yrs..do I just lay out the "divorce" stuff?i don't want that....
I vowed to myself at 12 when my parents split..i would NEVERE do that to my child..and I love my wife

BossBitch is correct. Getting so inflamed over something as inconsequential as stepping in dog $**t is indicative of deeper issues. I'm glad to see that you realize that your response to her actions was misguided.

Try talking to her. Make a real effort to understand where the issues lie and figure out how you can work together to solve them.

Also, try to learn to let the little things go. I hope the best for your relationship.

ill consider you actions and ty for a none bais post

So the perfectly potty-trained dog takes a shit right in front of your chair...
Your kids sleep with their mother every night and they're teenagers...
Dad sleeps on the couch every night for the same period...
Your wife lets the dog right back in as to say fuck you (as you said)...

There is a very clear pattern going on here. The problem is in between the keyboard and the chair. Seriously dude! Get a grip!! Look what you have done to your family.

Your dog thinks you deserve a pile of shit.
Your poor kids are so disturbed they can't even sleep alone.
You have to sleep on the couch. Great sex life no doubt.
Your wife can't even tell you how disgusted she is with you probably because she thinks you do something terrible... Like SPIT in her face!

For the sake of your family, figure it out.

no"idiot"!!!!once agian read the post befor yours!wow so informative

yes plz help me figure it out!
yes what u write is true!

I feel my kids are lead into this "field",just like we were