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Artaius San User ID: 33505944 Germany 02/02/2013 08:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yes. Thank you my friend. You came here as the answer Quoting: 141 For the calling of their hearts Even now, judging, pointing fingers Blaming Still you see through Sees in their eyes the fear The loneliness The insecurity You are only the enemy They need to blame To accuse To look away the fear They carry so deep There will come a time when you believe everything ends. This will be the beginning [Louis L'Amour] ~ A r c t u r u s |
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141 (OP) User ID: 26573604 Denmark 02/02/2013 08:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | yes. Quoting: Artaius San Thank you my friend. You came here as the answer Quoting: 141 For the calling of their hearts Even now, judging, pointing fingers Blaming Still you see through Sees in their eyes the fear The loneliness The insecurity You are only the enemy They need to blame To accuse To look away the fear They carry so deep Thank YOU my friend Heart to heart just be love in truth... |
keLiy User ID: 31781644 United States 02/02/2013 08:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this came on a day that things maxed out in the nightmare dept. just when i said i can't take no more and my mind feels like it's just gonna fall apart. but somehow i woke up with new determination and strength and then i came here and saw your poem and it seemed like a good omen. appreciate it. |
141 (OP) User ID: 26573604 Denmark 02/02/2013 08:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this came on a day that things maxed out in the nightmare dept. just when i said i can't take no more and my mind feels like it's just gonna fall apart. Quoting: keLiy 31781644 but somehow i woke up with new determination and strength and then i came here and saw your poem and it seemed like a good omen. appreciate it. Happy you did see it Bc sometimes we just find ourselves there Where nothing really makes sense and we can't take anymore Then we just need to be reminded On how strong and amazing we really are There in behind our feeling of worthlessness and selfblame And embrace our true power And be it Thanks for sharing your beautiful heart Lots of love and power to you just be love in truth... |
Artaius San User ID: 33505944 Germany 02/02/2013 08:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It takes a lot of work and experience and the will to see people through the heart, to see through this destructive behaviour against one another. It´s sad, some people don´t recognize, what they´re doing to themselves, but it´s in the habits.. When all we should do at this moment in time, is hear the inner (re)bell. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [link to vimeo.com] Last Edited by A r c on 02/02/2013 08:23 AM There will come a time when you believe everything ends. This will be the beginning [Louis L'Amour] ~ A r c t u r u s |
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141 (OP) User ID: 26573604 Denmark 02/02/2013 08:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It takes a lot of work and experience and the will to see people through the heart, to see through this destructive behaviour against one another. Quoting: Artaius San It´s sad, some people don´t recognize, what they´re doing to themselves, but it´s in the habits.. When all we should do at this moment in time, is hear the inner (re)bell. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . [link to vimeo.com] It sure does... But when we get to there, we realize that we are all indeed one... Not just as a theory that sounds nice and sweet, harmonic... But something self experienced, through all the struggle, pain, blood and tears... Through all the bullcrap and empty words, we dig into right that what makes it real... Which makes it so real that we can't help ourselves sharing and sharing it, for all to understand that, no matter the price and no matter what we are called... Bc we know it is true and we know that there is no way around this, for no one, and we keep insisting... Out of our open hearts... just be love in truth... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31735474 United States 02/02/2013 09:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 141, can you write a poem for me please? It's about how you move beyond hurt, anger, and doubt. the person I love has played a small deception with me recently, and today I am hurting so much that I think my heart is going to die. what can you say to a person who is called to believe when a level of trust has been broken? There has been no intimacy with another person, but too much close talking and too often has caused a doubt in my heart. how does one move beyond feelings of distrust and doubt? In life, do we give another chance or do we walk away? You always talk about love in many ways. I wonder what you would say about this type of situation. I think it can extend to many situations beyond that of a love relationship, can't it? If you write something, please call it: Trust and Deception If not, I will keep reading because I see some helpful thoughts in all these writings! |
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141 (OP) User ID: 26573604 Denmark 02/02/2013 10:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 141, can you write a poem for me please? It's about how you move beyond hurt, anger, and doubt. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31735474 the person I love has played a small deception with me recently, and today I am hurting so much that I think my heart is going to die. what can you say to a person who is called to believe when a level of trust has been broken? There has been no intimacy with another person, but too much close talking and too often has caused a doubt in my heart. how does one move beyond feelings of distrust and doubt? In life, do we give another chance or do we walk away? You always talk about love in many ways. I wonder what you would say about this type of situation. I think it can extend to many situations beyond that of a love relationship, can't it? If you write something, please call it: Trust and Deception If not, I will keep reading because I see some helpful thoughts in all these writings! Hey my friend... I'll do what I can to help you... I know that situation very well... Was in this marriage and had never loved anyone as deeply as her, we were married for 7 years, didn't had any kids together, but our love was deep and we were friends and could talk about everything, even we also had our differencies... In 2008 I found out that there was some kind of intimacy between her and another man, I couldn't all put my finger on it, but I knew and I could feel it every time where she connected with him, bc I am very sensitive and when I love someone I love them deep like that... Deep like everything melts together... Time passed, and it was some hard days, I struggled for our marriage, bc the love was still there... So deep... And in the good times we would get even closer to eachother, and in the bad times I would only have thoughts of leaving it all... Finished, broken.... It was at the same time, late 2010 that I began to wake up, spiritually, something of a ride in itself, and the other on top of it... Well, our marriage ended in 2011... Where I took the decision to leave, even the love was still so deep, and it still is, but there was no trust left... Leaving also lead into a whole bunch of experiences, not all of them amazing, some very ugly.. But each and everyone I could learn from and grow deeper.... And too I have seen this pattern repeating itself, that those I love this deeply somehow deceive my trust... There may be many reasons for that, I can only love and trust fully, am not in the controlling business, and that I know scares some, that deep love where you are 'allowed' just to be yourself, together with another person... However, it has given me a lot of experience and love, which I share at the best of my ability... Wasn't kidding when I wrote that sometimes pain is our guide to what is real... So in order to be real, there is only one way and that is through it... I can't chose for you, it is an important choice... So my advice for you is to get clarity... Listen to this person, talk with your friends... But most of all, listen to yourself, listen to that what makes sense at the innermost... And act from there Easy to say, hard to do, I know that... Still I know you can... I hope any of this has been any help, and I will see if a poem pops up, they usually come by themselves... And feel free to share deeper, also at my email, [email protected]... I know these things hurt like hell, and can really cut you the deepest... Of all my heart, lots of love to you just be love in truth... |
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141 (OP) User ID: 26573604 Denmark 02/02/2013 10:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wasn't even going to click on this and when I did, I said, "Oh darn! Another long poem!". Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17888588 So glad I read it. Fabulous! Great job!!!! Haha sorry about that, my friend Happy it was worth the read, and that there was something in it for your amazing heart... Lots of love to you Love all those 8´s in your number :o) Last Edited by 141 on 02/02/2013 10:18 AM just be love in truth... |
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141 (OP) User ID: 26573604 Denmark 02/02/2013 11:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you have the desire to come to America and need a place to live for awhile..... Quoting: Pyractomena borealis And write..... One of the most beautiful places in America awaits you...... There will soon be many empty rooms... Bring your loved one.... All that you will be asked to do is water the flora... Not a small job in a place where rain does not fall when needed most.... You will have the house to yourselves..... Love to you my Friend! Would actually love that I don't need much of life A place to sleep and some food And of course an internet connection (as long as we have that lol) Don't mind working hard either, am actually a great physiotherapist and healer Am not here to collect anything, just to share as long as I'm here And for now I have nothing that keeps me anywhere, my love is in Canada, but are working through some stuff, and I am just waiting... as if the Father wants me to be ready for something... Most of my friends, that relate to me, I know through the internet People here are mostly just busy being busy, so nothing keeps me here... So that might not be a bad idea, find that many in the US are more open than here... And it's boring always to communicate through screens, when I actually love to talk and listen to others... So truly sounds interesting, my friend Lots of love to you Last Edited by 141 on 02/02/2013 11:08 AM just be love in truth... |
absinthita User ID: 31735474 United States 02/02/2013 11:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 141, can you write a poem for me please? It's about how you move beyond hurt, anger, and doubt. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31735474 the person I love has played a small deception with me recently, and today I am hurting so much that I think my heart is going to die. what can you say to a person who is called to believe when a level of trust has been broken? There has been no intimacy with another person, but too much close talking and too often has caused a doubt in my heart. how does one move beyond feelings of distrust and doubt? In life, do we give another chance or do we walk away? You always talk about love in many ways. I wonder what you would say about this type of situation. I think it can extend to many situations beyond that of a love relationship, can't it? If you write something, please call it: Trust and Deception If not, I will keep reading because I see some helpful thoughts in all these writings! Hey my friend... I'll do what I can to help you... I know that situation very well... Was in this marriage and had never loved anyone as deeply as her, we were married for 7 years, didn't had any kids together, but our love was deep and we were friends and could talk about everything, even we also had our differencies... In 2008 I found out that there was some kind of intimacy between her and another man, I couldn't all put my finger on it, but I knew and I could feel it every time where she connected with him, bc I am very sensitive and when I love someone I love them deep like that... Deep like everything melts together... Time passed, and it was some hard days, I struggled for our marriage, bc the love was still there... So deep... And in the good times we would get even closer to eachother, and in the bad times I would only have thoughts of leaving it all... Finished, broken.... It was at the same time, late 2010 that I began to wake up, spiritually, something of a ride in itself, and the other on top of it... Well, our marriage ended in 2011... Where I took the decision to leave, even the love was still so deep, and it still is, but there was no trust left... Leaving also lead into a whole bunch of experiences, not all of them amazing, some very ugly.. But each and everyone I could learn from and grow deeper.... And too I have seen this pattern repeating itself, that those I love this deeply somehow deceive my trust... There may be many reasons for that, I can only love and trust fully, am not in the controlling business, and that I know scares some, that deep love where you are 'allowed' just to be yourself, together with another person... However, it has given me a lot of experience and love, which I share at the best of my ability... Wasn't kidding when I wrote that sometimes pain is our guide to what is real... So in order to be real, there is only one way and that is through it... I can't chose for you, it is an important choice... So my advice for you is to get clarity... Listen to this person, talk with your friends... But most of all, listen to yourself, listen to that what makes sense at the innermost... And act from there Easy to say, hard to do, I know that... Still I know you can... I hope any of this has been any help, and I will see if a poem pops up, they usually come by themselves... And feel free to share deeper, also at my email, [email protected]... I know these things hurt like hell, and can really cut you the deepest... Of all my heart, lots of love to you Hi, I am actually signing in to post so you guys can see who I "am" here. I only recently registered...having the feeling I may need to share and be known to others with the many things going on in my life. I want to thank you for sharing that, 141, it is indeed helpful. It's very difficult to contemplate that transitions may possibly have to happen, but I do have to listen to that inner self. I'm trying hard to hear! :) I want to wake up, and maybe this is part of the process. So very painful though. I'm no whimp, but I am hoping for some respite from the very big turbulence I've had to endure in the past several years. I've asked for help from "above" --whatever that is :) I'm simply asking for some peace, to feel joy again, and I'm asking for it so I can better do my job which involves working with children. I want them to have the best of me and sometimes I fear they are getting half because I'm struggling with so much. There is so much more I could do if I could just have some peace and stabilization in my life. It is not just for me, though the pain of it all (and believe me, it's much more than this issue with the man in my life)is a bit much to handle and I hope for some relief. I hope I wake up. I hope things get better. Thanks for spreading these ideas. It helps! |
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141 (OP) User ID: 26573604 Denmark 02/02/2013 11:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 141, can you write a poem for me please? It's about how you move beyond hurt, anger, and doubt. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31735474 the person I love has played a small deception with me recently, and today I am hurting so much that I think my heart is going to die. what can you say to a person who is called to believe when a level of trust has been broken? There has been no intimacy with another person, but too much close talking and too often has caused a doubt in my heart. how does one move beyond feelings of distrust and doubt? In life, do we give another chance or do we walk away? You always talk about love in many ways. I wonder what you would say about this type of situation. I think it can extend to many situations beyond that of a love relationship, can't it? If you write something, please call it: Trust and Deception If not, I will keep reading because I see some helpful thoughts in all these writings! Hey my friend... I'll do what I can to help you... I know that situation very well... Was in this marriage and had never loved anyone as deeply as her, we were married for 7 years, didn't had any kids together, but our love was deep and we were friends and could talk about everything, even we also had our differencies... In 2008 I found out that there was some kind of intimacy between her and another man, I couldn't all put my finger on it, but I knew and I could feel it every time where she connected with him, bc I am very sensitive and when I love someone I love them deep like that... Deep like everything melts together... Time passed, and it was some hard days, I struggled for our marriage, bc the love was still there... So deep... And in the good times we would get even closer to eachother, and in the bad times I would only have thoughts of leaving it all... Finished, broken.... It was at the same time, late 2010 that I began to wake up, spiritually, something of a ride in itself, and the other on top of it... Well, our marriage ended in 2011... Where I took the decision to leave, even the love was still so deep, and it still is, but there was no trust left... Leaving also lead into a whole bunch of experiences, not all of them amazing, some very ugly.. But each and everyone I could learn from and grow deeper.... And too I have seen this pattern repeating itself, that those I love this deeply somehow deceive my trust... There may be many reasons for that, I can only love and trust fully, am not in the controlling business, and that I know scares some, that deep love where you are 'allowed' just to be yourself, together with another person... However, it has given me a lot of experience and love, which I share at the best of my ability... Wasn't kidding when I wrote that sometimes pain is our guide to what is real... So in order to be real, there is only one way and that is through it... I can't chose for you, it is an important choice... So my advice for you is to get clarity... Listen to this person, talk with your friends... But most of all, listen to yourself, listen to that what makes sense at the innermost... And act from there Easy to say, hard to do, I know that... Still I know you can... I hope any of this has been any help, and I will see if a poem pops up, they usually come by themselves... And feel free to share deeper, also at my email, [email protected]... I know these things hurt like hell, and can really cut you the deepest... Of all my heart, lots of love to you Hi, I am actually signing in to post so you guys can see who I "am" here. I only recently registered...having the feeling I may need to share and be known to others with the many things going on in my life. I want to thank you for sharing that, 141, it is indeed helpful. It's very difficult to contemplate that transitions may possibly have to happen, but I do have to listen to that inner self. I'm trying hard to hear! :) I want to wake up, and maybe this is part of the process. So very painful though. I'm no whimp, but I am hoping for some respite from the very big turbulence I've had to endure in the past several years. I've asked for help from "above" --whatever that is :) I'm simply asking for some peace, to feel joy again, and I'm asking for it so I can better do my job which involves working with children. I want them to have the best of me and sometimes I fear they are getting half because I'm struggling with so much. There is so much more I could do if I could just have some peace and stabilization in my life. It is not just for me, though the pain of it all (and believe me, it's much more than this issue with the man in my life)is a bit much to handle and I hope for some relief. I hope I wake up. I hope things get better. Thanks for spreading these ideas. It helps! Know that feeling well, to be struggling and not feeling that you can give that what you usually can... And having no understanding of what is happening... Like drowning on the inside... Know for sure you're no whimp, it takes true courage to share like you do, my friend... I wish I could say to you that it'll soon be better, but I won't lie, and the truth is I don't know... I know this world is so filled with games and confusion, so much ego and weird stuff, so that we are all affected one way or the other... I also know that growth often comes with the price of pain and struggle that we have to go through, that our wounded bleeding hearts have the choice to go deeper to understand better... Of all my heart it hurts me to see so many innocent hearts being worn out, being hurt deeply, dragged into games they do not understand... And it is no game, it is so real, and many goes down never to come back, brokenhearted... That's why it is so important to share, to really take that what is hard and to share it, so that we see life from eachothers heart, that helps us understand the brother and sister walking next to us and helps us understand ourselves... Also for you love... It is so easy to be drawn into something, bc of flatter, insecurity or whatever, to find oneself suddenly in a place where you do not have your heart in it... It is about sharing and letting go, to forgive ourselves and eachother, to find that true path, together... Not that you need to stay together, but find that love, find that true tune that was between you and still is, always will be, and let that be the foundation for whatever path you chose... Our lives are so vulnerable, from one moment to the next we may be gone, so this moment we have to chose love, no matter the pain and the brokenness... Chose love for our own sake, for those next to us and for this world... At some point, it will be better, it all will, in this world... And of my heart, that is a promise... just be love in truth... |
141 (OP) User ID: 26573604 Denmark 02/02/2013 11:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Beautiful words from a great soul Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1469248 Clear insight and very much needed especially after last night. Hope you and your love are soon together as one. Yes I hope the same, and have faith that the best will shine through, that truth and love will dawn, for us all, in this world... And even if we are not to be together, still I chose love, not bc it is easy or free, but bc it is what I need, what we all need, whether we know it or not... What this world needs... And whatever the price may be, let us from the bottom of our hearts chose that love, and share that love... Lots of love to you, my friend And thanks for your kind words May you and your loved ones be blessed just be love in truth... |
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Pyractomena borealis User ID: 1970363 United States 02/02/2013 12:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you have the desire to come to America and need a place to live for awhile..... Quoting: Pyractomena borealis And write..... One of the most beautiful places in America awaits you...... There will soon be many empty rooms... Bring your loved one.... All that you will be asked to do is water the flora... Not a small job in a place where rain does not fall when needed most.... You will have the house to yourselves..... Love to you my Friend! Would actually love that I don't need much of life A place to sleep and some food And of course an internet connection (as long as we have that lol) Don't mind working hard either, am actually a great physiotherapist and healer Am not here to collect anything, just to share as long as I'm here And for now I have nothing that keeps me anywhere, my love is in Canada, but are working through some stuff, and I am just waiting... as if the Father wants me to be ready for something... Most of my friends, that relate to me, I know through the internet People here are mostly just busy being busy, so nothing keeps me here... So that might not be a bad idea, find that many in the US are more open than here... And it's boring always to communicate through screens, when I actually love to talk and listen to others... So truly sounds interesting, my friend Lots of love to you You can have lunch in Canada if you have the hankering. There is nothing so powerful as truth, and often nothing so strange ~ Daniel Webster Omnia Vincit Amor ~ Virgil The more you learn, the less you know ~ Socrates That writer does the most, who gives his reader the most knowledge, and takes from him the least time. ~ Charles Caleb Colton |