Dude you nailed it.

My current ex, tried snooping through my facebook account when I was in the shower Sunday. So, when I was with my Uncle at the bar Sunday night watching the Super Bowels, er Bowl, I get a text from her asking if I had been talking to an old friend of mine that I had known since she was fifteen.

Needless to say, my current ex has two kids, by two separate guys. The youngest, a boy - his father is gone in prison for an unknown amount of years now for trafficking guns.

We were supposed to be taking it slow - but real life circumstances have expedited her expected responses from me. Such as us moving in together. Which ain't happening because April 2012 - I just got out of a five year long term relationship that nearly cracked me mentality. I had a great job and now I'm struggling to keep my internet and lights on.

So this old friend comes along and yes she is a female and yes I do have feelings for her. I confront my ex telling her that I need some time to think because she has so many expectations on me. I want kids and she already has two and how selfish is it of me to expect her to have two more? Secondly, I cannot accept her children as my own because, it is REALLY hard. The oldest is a girl who HAS a dad in her life and the children treat me like a rug.

So, I back out of it this weekend reconsidering everything. Naturally Saturday she wanted to drink and party, so we did, lightly, end up back at my place and of course naturally she wants a little more of me.

I give because, I do like her but there is too much history with her. Also the first night we met, I had picked her up and we went to our usual watering hole. Later that night her ex shows up stalking the scene and naturally she ran back to him and slept with him.

Sadly, though, she pleaded how she cared and how she fucked up and I was pretty forgiving and let it go. But now, it's like no. You're not going to tell me who I can and cannot talk to! You sit on facebook all the time talking to people! How is this any different? Ya know, those kind of feelings.

So anyways, she texts me Sunday saying 'Has that XXXXXXX chick tried talking to you.'

Well shit...

What was I to say? This is one of those... damned if you do, damned if you don't. I am not sure why she would just randomly ask me this, but I stew on it for a min before giving an answer.

Prior to this, I had sent a text to the friend on Friday, because of the things I am involved in, I don't have much time anymore to be a partyer, not that I ever was, but I notice - chicks love to 'dance'. But regardless, I simply asked, 'Would I even have a chance of being with you?'

Naturally, she did not answer this which I took as good or bad.

Prior to this episode, her and I go back a min when a similar event like this happened. Now, it is like replay all over again. I know the chick I was with (as of yesterday) was playing me, I couldn't put my finger on it but I knew some how some way she was pulling the wool over my eyes.

Any how, the other never responded back to the text and when I was asked 'Has that XXXXXXX chick tried contacting you?'

I said, naturally, no - why?

She said, don't lie.

I said, what has you believing otherwise?

She says, because I know.

Great, dug in a hole and mind you ANY time she has found a moment to doubt - she has. And I have been nothing but supportive up until she basically forced me into a corner of making a decision of whether I would raise her kids as my own - while the one father 'sits' in prison and the other smokes green all day but doesn't pay child support.

I said - fuck it. I told her that, we are done. There is no point in doing this anymore honestly.

Naturally, I feel set up. Was the other girl talking to her? The same kind of shit happened a few months back with her! So I forward the other girl the text and she says how does she know me and all these other questions. Honestly, I am as confused as her, but I like this chick a lot and if I could have a chance to slowly be with her - I would.

Nope, that shit blows up in my face too. She tells me I'm a piece of shit and a worthless friend. The other says I'm a liar, while she sits and talks to guys on Facebook.

These bitches are fucking insane. They think their pussies made of gold!