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Its always the 'creepy' guys that try to come off as nice guys...
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Hey there. Can i buy you a cup of coffee?

:creepy:
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No thank you. I don't drink coffee.
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How about some caramels?
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Nope, don't do hfcs candy either.
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The solution to OP's dilemma is the $10 Jimmy Dean Sausage gift card.


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5 year relationship; 2 year engagement just ended out of left field 10 days ago.

Completely broken and bewildered!
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How about some caramels?
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Nope, don't do hfcs candy either.
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What do you do?

Besides charming guys you meet on the Internet.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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5 year relationship; 2 year engagement just ended out of left field 10 days ago.

Completely broken and bewildered!
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blink what happened?
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People who think giving someone a 10 dollar coffee gift card is creepy are the creepy ones.
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What's creepy is the gift card in itself it is the manipulation. Sorry but I have intuition and I'm feeling this guy is married and doing this! If your single and you like someone, tell them. Acknowledge it to her! Big deal if she doesn't feel the same way. Tell her to please keep the gift card!
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Manipulation?? So if a guy at work buys a coffee for me, he's manipulating me?

I don't think I'd call it "intuition," I'd call it paranoia.

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Nope, don't do hfcs candy either.
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What do you do?

Besides charming guys you met on the Internet.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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If you are happily married then why are you here?

Right Now
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When people post threads asking for advice, why are they suspicious when someone in a position to offer advice does so?
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5 year relationship; 2 year engagement just ended out of left field 10 days ago.

Completely broken and bewildered!
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blink what happened?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


2 year workers comp case that has prevented me from having steady income.

Funny thing, it'll be over within 3 months, everything settled and out the door.
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Nope, don't do hfcs candy either.
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What do you do?

Besides charming guys you met on the Internet.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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If you are happily married then why are you here?

Right Now
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Take the gift card back and give her a fifty dollar bill, when she looks back at you point at your crotch and wink...

Then she will have no doubt your a perv and you will either get laid or she'll throw the fifty back in your face...

Either way, you'll know where your relationship stands...
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Agreed, Zuzu (and, despite all evidence to the contrary, it is a wonderful life).

Can you imagine, a gift card for coffee is so wrought with hidden messages?

Lucky OP didn't take her stapler. He'd be in deep shit.

Hmm, a stapler and coffee card. What could it mean? Prep! Get your "staples" and don't forget the coffee.

It must mean OP is married and wants to take his co-worker to his bunker (but not in Alabama) to start a Morman shoot-off sect.

Sheesh....
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5 year relationship; 2 year engagement just ended out of left field 10 days ago.

Completely broken and bewildered!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28095157


blink what happened?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


2 year workers comp case that has prevented me from having steady income.

Funny thing, it'll be over within 3 months, everything settled and out the door.
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Well even though it must be painful, be glad you did not tie the knot with someone who could not weather the storms with you. Marriage has its highs and lows, but when two people love each other they can get through anything. Look at this more like a new beginning, rather than a heartbroken ending. hf
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I do like this women, but I never told her, I just wanted to be nice. It seems that whenever you do something nice for a women, they take it the wrong way.

What should I do? Should I confront her about it, or just keep the card?
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I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
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5 year relationship; 2 year engagement just ended out of left field 10 days ago.

Completely broken and bewildered!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28095157


blink what happened?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


2 year workers comp case that has prevented me from having steady income.

Funny thing, it'll be over within 3 months, everything settled and out the door.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28095157


Well even though it must be painful, be glad you did not tie the knot with someone who could not weather the storms with you. Marriage has its highs and lows, but when two people love each other they can get through anything. Look at this more like a new beginning, rather than a heartbroken ending. hf
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I guess, the numbness has worn off, juat gotta deal with the loose ends and move on entirely.
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I do like this women, but I never told her, I just wanted to be nice. It seems that whenever you do something nice for a women, they take it the wrong way.

What should I do? Should I confront her about it, or just keep the card?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4658130


I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
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Please do tell us more about you poor oppressed women. As long as I don't have to walk in high heels.

As a guy, your suggestion is wrong in principle. OP is not guilty of anything, let alone some vague sins of men as a whole. It's weak to apologize for nothing.

The best response is to realize there are plenty of fish in the sea. (and no I am not suggesting you go on pof.com )
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Agreed, Zuzu (and, despite all evidence to the contrary, it is a wonderful life).

Can you imagine, a gift card for coffee is so wrought with hidden messages?

Lucky OP didn't take her stapler. He'd be in deep shit.

Hmm, a stapler and coffee card. What could it mean? Prep! Get your "staples" and don't forget the coffee.

It must mean OP is married and wants to take his co-worker to his bunker (but not in Alabama) to start a Morman shoot-off sect.

Sheesh....
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:)Agreed.

It's kind of sad that people are so suspicious of the smallest of actions. No such thing as a good deed for some, I guess.
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5 year relationship; 2 year engagement just ended out of left field 10 days ago.

Completely broken and bewildered!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28095157


blink what happened?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


2 year workers comp case that has prevented me from having steady income.

Funny thing, it'll be over within 3 months, everything settled and out the door.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28095157


Yep she bailed at just the wrong time. And you'll have some cool stories to impress your new gf's with.

Notice the plural in gf. It can be plural until it's an engagement.
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What do you do?

Besides charming guys you met on the Internet.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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If you are happily married then why are you here?

Right Now
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When people post threads asking for advice, why are they suspicious when someone in a position to offer advice does so?
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Good question. I had no idea happily married people were viewed as suspect if they lurked/offered advice on GLP.

My husband also lurks and posts here, so its fun for us to read threads and discuss.
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I do like this women, but I never told her, I just wanted to be nice. It seems that whenever you do something nice for a women, they take it the wrong way.

What should I do? Should I confront her about it, or just keep the card?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4658130


I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
 Quoting: PatiencePlz


Please do tell us more about you poor oppressed women. As long as I don't have to walk in high heels.

As a guy, your suggestion is wrong in principle. OP is not guilty of anything, let alone some vague sins of men as a whole. It's weak to apologize for nothing.

The best response is to realize there are plenty of fish in the sea. (and no I am not suggesting you go on pof.com )
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Apologizing doesn't always mean you are admitting you're wrong but more of a gesture that you regret and feel bad for a response/action that was misunderstood and taken out of context and not for what it was not intended for. I don't think the guy did anything wrong. If he wants to give a gift card away so be it! Maybe a litttle "empathy" comes to mind! Sheesh!
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5 year relationship; 2 year engagement just ended out of left field 10 days ago.

Completely broken and bewildered!
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blink what happened?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


2 year workers comp case that has prevented me from having steady income.

Funny thing, it'll be over within 3 months, everything settled and out the door.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28095157


Yep she bailed at just the wrong time. And you'll have some cool stories to impress your new gf's with.

Notice the plural in gf. It can be plural until it's an engagement.
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Got that right my friend. Indeed there will be many gf's in the months to come!
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I do like this women, but I never told her, I just wanted to be nice. It seems that whenever you do something nice for a women, they take it the wrong way.

What should I do? Should I confront her about it, or just keep the card?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4658130


I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
 Quoting: PatiencePlz


Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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If you are happily married then why are you here?

Right Now
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When people post threads asking for advice, why are they suspicious when someone in a position to offer advice does so?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


Good question. I had no idea happily married people were viewed as suspect if they lurked/offered advice on GLP.

My husband also lurks and posts here, so its fun for us to read threads and discuss.
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I'm a happily married guy, 15 years +. Well, usually happy, there are some typical strains of longterm marriages, and I enjoy commiserating with others in my position too!

But that said, we who have, in one way or another, survived the dating minefield, perhaps enjoy passing on our wisdom. And from men and women both, it's generally not very politically correct. Truth is stranger than fiction, and if you approach the battle of the sexes with that mindset, you'll get an exciting and rewarding (not always comfortable or easy) experience.
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I do like this women, but I never told her, I just wanted to be nice. It seems that whenever you do something nice for a women, they take it the wrong way.

What should I do? Should I confront her about it, or just keep the card?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4658130


I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
 Quoting: PatiencePlz


Please do tell us more about you poor oppressed women. As long as I don't have to walk in high heels.

As a guy, your suggestion is wrong in principle. OP is not guilty of anything, let alone some vague sins of men as a whole. It's weak to apologize for nothing.

The best response is to realize there are plenty of fish in the sea. (and no I am not suggesting you go on pof.com )
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


Apologizing doesn't always mean you are admitting you're wrong but more of a gesture that you regret and feel bad for a response/action that was misunderstood and taken out of context and not for what it was not intended for. I don't think the guy did anything wrong. If he wants to give a gift card away so be it! Maybe a litttle "empathy" comes to mind! Sheesh!
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That's the mindset that gets a guy friendzoned for sure.

Sorry, I cannot approve that as advice for my fellow guys.
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F/ her.

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I do like this women, but I never told her, I just wanted to be nice. It seems that whenever you do something nice for a women, they take it the wrong way.

What should I do? Should I confront her about it, or just keep the card?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4658130


I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
 Quoting: PatiencePlz


Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
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The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
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I do like this women, but I never told her, I just wanted to be nice. It seems that whenever you do something nice for a women, they take it the wrong way.

What should I do? Should I confront her about it, or just keep the card?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4658130


I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
 Quoting: PatiencePlz


Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
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The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
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What a load of bollocks. What did she expect, the keys to a new Ferrari?

Why should he respect her wall? If he cares that is. "no" sometimes means "yes", and the ones who are the most unsure about are the women themselves. I know this contradicts some of the "game" literature, but it's my experience.

No man is out of any woman's league.

Maybe no woman is out of any man's league either. We're all just human organisms and souls. That's a big secret but it's true.

Fucking with people's bread and butter? wtf are you talking about? He didn't tell lies about her to the boss, he gave her a coffee card.
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If you are happily married then why are you here?

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When people post threads asking for advice, why are they suspicious when someone in a position to offer advice does so?
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Good question. I had no idea happily married people were viewed as suspect if they lurked/offered advice on GLP.

My husband also lurks and posts here, so its fun for us to read threads and discuss.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018

I'm a happily married guy, 15 years +. Well, usually happy, there are some typical strains of longterm marriages, and I enjoy commiserating with others in my position too!

But that said, we who have, in one way or another, survived the dating minefield, perhaps enjoy passing on our wisdom. And from men and women both, it's generally not very politically correct. Truth is stranger than fiction, and if you approach the battle of the sexes with that mindset, you'll get an exciting and rewarding (not always comfortable or easy) experience.
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Good for you! I love being married, and I married a great guy, who treats me very well. We are best friends and have survived many hard times that always taught us the really valuable lessons about life. We've had plenty of good times as well, too many at times and I never want this to end. I am so grateful to have him, I would hate to be single in this day and age, values and morals are long gone for many people.

And yes, wisdom is the sweetest gift from being married.

hf
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When people post threads asking for advice, why are they suspicious when someone in a position to offer advice does so?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


Good question. I had no idea happily married people were viewed as suspect if they lurked/offered advice on GLP.

My husband also lurks and posts here, so its fun for us to read threads and discuss.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018

I'm a happily married guy, 15 years +. Well, usually happy, there are some typical strains of longterm marriages, and I enjoy commiserating with others in my position too!

But that said, we who have, in one way or another, survived the dating minefield, perhaps enjoy passing on our wisdom. And from men and women both, it's generally not very politically correct. Truth is stranger than fiction, and if you approach the battle of the sexes with that mindset, you'll get an exciting and rewarding (not always comfortable or easy) experience.
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Good for you! I love being married, and I married a great guy, who treats me very well. We are best friends and have survived many hard times that always taught us the really valuable lessons about life. We've had plenty of good times as well, too many at times and I never want this to end. I am so grateful to have him, I would hate to be single in this day and age, values and morals are long gone for many people.

And yes, wisdom is the sweetest gift from being married.

hf
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Hi!

But, please explain your other post to me, my wisdom isn't getting that at all!
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I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
 Quoting: PatiencePlz


Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
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The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
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What a load of bollocks. What did she expect, the keys to a new Ferrari?

Why should he respect her wall? If he cares that is. "no" sometimes means "yes", and the ones who are the most unsure about are the women themselves. I know this contradicts some of the "game" literature, but it's my experience.

No man is out of any woman's league.

Maybe no woman is out of any man's league either. We're all just human organisms and souls. That's a big secret but it's true.

Fucking with people's bread and butter? wtf are you talking about? He didn't tell lies about her to the boss, he gave her a coffee card.
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Just shows how she thinks her pussy is plated with gold. Look at that poor pathetic creep, he has the audacity to be attracted to a woman. What a pervert.
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I do like this women, but I never told her, I just wanted to be nice. It seems that whenever you do something nice for a women, they take it the wrong way.

What should I do? Should I confront her about it, or just keep the card?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 4658130


I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
 Quoting: PatiencePlz


Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals



The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


This entire post sounds like it comes from someone who sees themselves as "above" others. "Makes them feel like they are on a lesser level"? My suggestion for anyone who thinks this way would be, "Get over yourself, you're not that great."
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