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I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
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Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals



The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
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What a load of bollocks. What did she expect, the keys to a new Ferrari?

Why should he respect her wall? If he cares that is. "no" sometimes means "yes", and the ones who are the most unsure about are the women themselves. I know this contradicts some of the "game" literature, but it's my experience.

No man is out of any woman's league.

Maybe no woman is out of any man's league either. We're all just human organisms and souls. That's a big secret but it's true.

Fucking with people's bread and butter? wtf are you talking about? He didn't tell lies about her to the boss, he gave her a coffee card.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


from a business/HR standpoint he is most certainly fucking with her bread and butter, she may now feel that the workplace is not comfortable. Most people are aware of gift giving policies in the workplace, and that you only gift down to your subordinates around the holidays. I didnt make up these rules, many companies frown om this type of behavior for the exact reason that op is upset, it causes needless workplace drama and strife. Maybe she just wants to come to work and not have that happen in the workplace.

She did the right thing by giving it back. OP needs to grow up.
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I would definitely talk to her and apologize if you somehow gave her the impression that you were hitting her. Let her know that is not/ was not your intention. You could kindly say that you did get the card for free and you were not going to use so rather than seeing it go to waste you thought you'd give it away.

If you say nothing than she may believe her impression of you was correct.

btw... you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day.
 Quoting: PatiencePlz


Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals



The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


This entire post sounds like it comes from someone who sees themselves as "above" others. "Makes them feel like they are on a lesser level"? My suggestion for anyone who thinks this way would be, "Get over yourself, you're not that great."
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals


Well in case you hadnt noticed, the playing field is not level.

That's just the way it is.
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Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals



The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


What a load of bollocks. What did she expect, the keys to a new Ferrari?

Why should he respect her wall? If he cares that is. "no" sometimes means "yes", and the ones who are the most unsure about are the women themselves. I know this contradicts some of the "game" literature, but it's my experience.

No man is out of any woman's league.

Maybe no woman is out of any man's league either. We're all just human organisms and souls. That's a big secret but it's true.

Fucking with people's bread and butter? wtf are you talking about? He didn't tell lies about her to the boss, he gave her a coffee card.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


from a business/HR standpoint he is most certainly fucking with her bread and butter, she may now feel that the workplace is not comfortable. Most people are aware of gift giving policies in the workplace, and that you only gift down to your subordinates around the holidays. I didnt make up these rules, many companies frown om this type of behavior for the exact reason that op is upset, it causes needless workplace drama and strife. Maybe she just wants to come to work and not have that happen in the workplace.

She did the right thing by giving it back. OP needs to grow up.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


Can I be the first to flame this?

If the concern were HR gift policies, it would not have mattered if it's a "cheap, regifted" coffee card or something "manlier". But "cheap, regifted" is the first thing on your mind, as if she was worthy of a greater gift.

Nowhere does it say that he's her boss. He describes her as "coworker". There's no HR policies most places against giving cheap regifted coffee cards to coworkers.
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Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals



The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


This entire post sounds like it comes from someone who sees themselves as "above" others. "Makes them feel like they are on a lesser level"? My suggestion for anyone who thinks this way would be, "Get over yourself, you're not that great."
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals


Well in case you hadnt noticed, the playing field is not level.

That's just the way it is.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


Yes I've noticed. Women get constant breaks in terms of affirmative action. It's been that way for many years.

Not saying it's easy being a woman, but let me challenge you to walk a mile in "my" shoes.
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just face it that you blew it.handing a woman a gift card is not the way to impress anyone. if you turned the situation around how would you feel. would you feel like wow!this really made my day. i would feel like ummm? throwing it in the trash is about the same as someone handing me a coffee gift card. you should of had a better tactic, like "hey i'm headed to grab a coffee, can i bring you something". if she said "sure thanks" you could at least have made a friendly gesture, but dont mention anything about a giftcard. it's like pulling out a buy one get one free coupon on a dinner date!
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The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


What a load of bollocks. What did she expect, the keys to a new Ferrari?

Why should he respect her wall? If he cares that is. "no" sometimes means "yes", and the ones who are the most unsure about are the women themselves. I know this contradicts some of the "game" literature, but it's my experience.

No man is out of any woman's league.

Maybe no woman is out of any man's league either. We're all just human organisms and souls. That's a big secret but it's true.

Fucking with people's bread and butter? wtf are you talking about? He didn't tell lies about her to the boss, he gave her a coffee card.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


from a business/HR standpoint he is most certainly fucking with her bread and butter, she may now feel that the workplace is not comfortable. Most people are aware of gift giving policies in the workplace, and that you only gift down to your subordinates around the holidays. I didnt make up these rules, many companies frown om this type of behavior for the exact reason that op is upset, it causes needless workplace drama and strife. Maybe she just wants to come to work and not have that happen in the workplace.

She did the right thing by giving it back. OP needs to grow up.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


Can I be the first to flame this?

If the concern were HR gift policies, it would not have mattered if it's a "cheap, regifted" coffee card or something "manlier". But "cheap, regifted" is the first thing on your mind, as if she was worthy of a greater gift.

Nowhere does it say that he's her boss. He describes her as "coworker". There's no HR policies most places against giving cheap regifted coffee cards to coworkers.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


flame away. The fact is you have to be careful about even giving a compliment in the workplace, as it can be perceived the wrong way. It doesn't matter the value of the gift, any gesture/ gift puts the company at risk. Had op done this outside of the workplace, it would be different.

Again, op is upset at the reaction he got, which has turned into a 6 page thread because he didnt like being rejected.

She did the right thing. If op continues to pursue this with her he's asking for trouble.
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How about some caramels?
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Nope, don't do hfcs candy either.
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What do you do?

Besides charming guys you meet on the Internet.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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Happily married to what? Your cat?
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And to the AC flaming me, I never said op was her boss, I said that usually the only time it is appropriate to give a gift in the workplace is during the holidays, when you thank any people that report directly to you.

You should learn to comprehend what you read.
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Agreed, Zuzu (and, despite all evidence to the contrary, it is a wonderful life).

Can you imagine, a gift card for coffee is so wrought with hidden messages?

Lucky OP didn't take her stapler. He'd be in deep shit.

Hmm, a stapler and coffee card. What could it mean? Prep! Get your "staples" and don't forget the coffee.

It must mean OP is married and wants to take his co-worker to his bunker (but not in Alabama) to start a Morman shoot-off sect.

Sheesh....
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These damn women are crazy.
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Nope, don't do hfcs candy either.
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What do you do?

Besides charming guys you meet on the Internet.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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Happily married to what? Your cat?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6543219

my husband. we have a dog, actually, he's 2 but stillacts like a puppy.

I don't really like cats much.
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What do you do?

Besides charming guys you meet on the Internet.
 Quoting: Open Your Eyes


Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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Happily married to what? Your cat?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6543219

my husband. we have a dog, actually, he's 2 but stillacts like a puppy.

I don't really like cats much.
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You don't like your fellow humans too much either.
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Study assholes - like the guys in high school that wore leather jackets, smoked, and started fights. THESE are the guys that girls are attracted to - not nice guys. They don't believe it of course, but it's obvious. Just look at the hottest girls and what passes for a "boyfriend".

You have to learn to BE the asshole. Just faking it is obvious. Act rich and nasty, smoke at home - nicotine changes the personality, but it makes your cum taste bad(according to a former stripper girl).

For some folks, doing cocaine might tend to change your personality into an attractor.

NEVER APOLOGIZE. YOU are always right, and she isn't. She'll get angry, but the emotional sweep from happy to angry and back is what really addicts her to you.

Good luck.
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That seems to be why some women like negroes.
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Unless he's done something obnoxious before to make her write that note, I don't see why he should apologize for anything. Sorry I gave you a free giftcard? Lol

"you should not blame her too much. It is the men that create women to react this way. You would know what I mean if you walked in a woman's shoes for a day."

This is a nice excuse for the women who choose to treat men like garbage. The fact is, for the most part, you get what you give. If a woman's not being treated by men the way she wants to be treated, the problem is her. Don't take the easy way out with the lame excuse above.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals



The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


This entire post sounds like it comes from someone who sees themselves as "above" others. "Makes them feel like they are on a lesser level"? My suggestion for anyone who thinks this way would be, "Get over yourself, you're not that great."
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals


Well in case you hadnt noticed, the playing field is not level.

That's just the way it is.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


Who knew someone would come along in this thread who'd make the woman in the original post look like a saint...

What I've noticed is that most people who seem to think they're on the "upper level"...really aren't. It's all in their imagination.
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The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


This entire post sounds like it comes from someone who sees themselves as "above" others. "Makes them feel like they are on a lesser level"? My suggestion for anyone who thinks this way would be, "Get over yourself, you're not that great."
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals


Well in case you hadnt noticed, the playing field is not level.

That's just the way it is.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


Yes I've noticed. Women get constant breaks in terms of affirmative action. It's been that way for many years.

Not saying it's easy being a woman, but let me challenge you to walk a mile in "my" shoes.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33389306


I hear ya. Trust me, I 've seen it all, on both sides. Feminism is always in the background and we women know when to use it and how to abuse it. I don't agree with all of it, but I've adapted to the world we are in. you have to, its survival of the fox like cunning women of the world.

Get on board, or get out of the way, women know what they do, they have to.
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Who knew someone would come along in this thread who'd make the woman in the original post look like a saint...

What I've noticed is that most people who seem to think they're on the "upper level"...really aren't. It's all in their imagination.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals


I agree AC...18 comes across as absolutely horrid; a woman who views nice innocent guys with contempt; a vile, petulant, vengeful person.
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The bottom line is she didnt want the cheap, re-gifted $10 coffee card. She has a job and obviously can afford a cup of coffee. In the workplace men should know better than to do something like that, for one op got a reaction that upset him and now she has to duck and hide from the cheap creepy guy. Fucking with people's bread and butter is not cool.

Op should have just bought some coffee or donuts/muffins for everyone and quit blaming the woman for being a bitch. Women hate when men who are out of their league show them any attention, it makes them feel like they are on a lesser level. Deal with it, y'all wanted feminism, now we use in every facet of our lives.

When you are too nice, people get clingy. Respect her wall, op, she doesnt want you.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


This entire post sounds like it comes from someone who sees themselves as "above" others. "Makes them feel like they are on a lesser level"? My suggestion for anyone who thinks this way would be, "Get over yourself, you're not that great."
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals


Well in case you hadnt noticed, the playing field is not level.

That's just the way it is.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


Who knew someone would come along in this thread who'd make the woman in the original post look like a saint...

What I've noticed is that most people who seem to think they're on the "upper level"...really aren't. It's all in their imagination.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals


men that get rejected a lot are women haters. Desperate men hit on women in the workplace. Men are dangerous creatures at times, especially the ones that claim to hate women/marriage, yet still want to hit on them and fuck them.

Yup. It was just my imagination...
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Who knew someone would come along in this thread who'd make the woman in the original post look like a saint...

What I've noticed is that most people who seem to think they're on the "upper level"...really aren't. It's all in their imagination.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


men that get rejected a lot are women haters. Desperate men hit on women in the workplace. Men are dangerous creatures at times, especially the ones that claim to hate women/marriage, yet still want to hit on them and fuck them.

Yup. It was just my imagination...


My goodness, you are horrid. OP just wanted to do something nice, but very modest, for a girl he kind of liked. The OP is probably a gentleman who would never purposely harm anyone. And you treat him like he's jack the ripper. But, of course, you would probably find the real jack the ripper charming.
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Who knew someone would come along in this thread who'd make the woman in the original post look like a saint...

What I've noticed is that most people who seem to think they're on the "upper level"...really aren't. It's all in their imagination.
 Quoting: Zuzu's Petals


I agree AC...18 comes across as absolutely horrid; a woman who views nice innocent guys with contempt; a vile, petulant, vengeful person.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6543219


Her reaction is a bit confusing/over-the-top. I feel like I've missed something in the original post that warranted this reaction.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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Happily married to what? Your cat?
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my husband. we have a dog, actually, he's 2 but stillacts like a puppy.

I don't really like cats much.
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You don't like your fellow humans too much either.
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lol, no just creepy guys in the workplace.

Later, have fun defending mr. cheap, creepy guy.

tomato
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Who knew someone would come along in this thread who'd make the woman in the original post look like a saint...

What I've noticed is that most people who seem to think they're on the "upper level"...really aren't. It's all in their imagination.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


men that get rejected a lot are women haters. Desperate men hit on women in the workplace. Men are dangerous creatures at times, especially the ones that claim to hate women/marriage, yet still want to hit on them and fuck them.

Yup. It was just my imagination...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6543219


My goodness, you are horrid. OP just wanted to do something nice, but very modest, for a girl he kind of liked. The OP is probably a gentleman who would never purposely harm anyone. And you treat him like he's jack the ripper. But, of course, you would probably find the real jack the ripper charming.


Yup, truth can be horrid at times.
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Happily married to what? Your cat?
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my husband. we have a dog, actually, he's 2 but stillacts like a puppy.

I don't really like cats much.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


You don't like your fellow humans too much either.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6543219

lol, no just creepy guys in the workplace.

Later, have fun defending mr. cheap, creepy guy.

tomato
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OP is not creepy. Just a young guy trying to be nice in a simple way. You are the creep.
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This entire post sounds like it comes from someone who sees themselves as "above" others. "Makes them feel like they are on a lesser level"? My suggestion for anyone who thinks this way would be, "Get over yourself, you're not that great."
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Well in case you hadnt noticed, the playing field is not level.

That's just the way it is.
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Who knew someone would come along in this thread who'd make the woman in the original post look like a saint...

What I've noticed is that most people who seem to think //they're on the "upper level"...really aren't. It's all in their imagination.
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men that get rejected a lot are women haters. Desperate men hit on women in the workplace. Men are dangerous creatures at times, especially the ones that claim to hate women/marriage, yet still want to hit on them and fuck them.

Yup. It was just my imagination...
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??? I'm lost. Perhaps you're pinning your own issues on this poor OP. Seek therapy? You don't come across as "happily" anything.
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Yup, truth can be horrid at times.
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You have said nothing that was true, creepo.
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02/05/2013 09:05 PM
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And to the AC flaming me, I never said op was her boss, I said that usually the only time it is appropriate to give a gift in the workplace is during the holidays, when you thank any people that report directly to you.

You should learn to comprehend what you read.
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You said this:
"Most people are aware of gift giving policies in the workplace, and that you only gift down to your subordinates around the holidays.:

My reading comprehension is pretty darn good.
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It's so true that nice guys get treated like crap. Too many women say that they are attracted to "confidence". Confidence means in this case means nothing more than a guy who is a self-centered jerk.

The nice guy tries to do something nice, and he is accused of having the same base intentions of the "confident" guy.
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Its always the 'creepy' guys that try to come off as nice guys...
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Female logic: Unattractive man flirting = creepy
Attractive man flirting = charming
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WAY OFF... attractive is any man who is confident, and doesn't have to buy someone to get their attention. Any man can be attractive, and not just because he's wealthy or good looking in a conventional way... just be clean, healthy, develop your mind, and come on to her by talking about something interesting. All great love, and sex, starts in the mind, the body is just an extension of another kind of attraction. Ten dollar gift cards will not get you laid. End of story.
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Amen amen amen amen amen!!!!!!! MEN please listen to these words of truth!!!!!!! Omgosh this is education 101!!!!! Great words!!!!!
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What do you do?

Besides charming guys you meet on the Internet.
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Huh? I've never met, nor charmed a guy on the internet, I 'm happily married. hf
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Happily married to what? Your cat?
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my husband. we have a dog, actually, he's 2 but stillacts like a puppy.

I don't really like cats much.
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Sorry to be out of line but ... no kids?
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Its always the 'creepy' guys that try to come off as nice guys...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 3114018


Female logic: Unattractive man flirting = creepy
Attractive man flirting = charming
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21712215


WAY OFF... attractive is any man who is confident, and doesn't have to buy someone to get their attention. Any man can be attractive, and not just because he's wealthy or good looking in a conventional way... just be clean, healthy, develop your mind, and come on to her by talking about something interesting. All great love, and sex, starts in the mind, the body is just an extension of another kind of attraction. Ten dollar gift cards will not get you laid. End of story.
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Amen amen amen amen amen!!!!!!! MEN please listen to these words of truth!!!!!!! Omgosh this is education 101!!!!! Great words!!!!!
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Oh yeah, smelling good helps too. It's probably more important than looks, and it's something you can control.
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Re: wtf is going on with women
It's so true that nice guys get treated like crap. Too many women say that they are attracted to "confidence". Confidence means in this case means nothing more than a guy who is a self-centered jerk.

The nice guy tries to do something nice, and he is accused of having the same base intentions of the "confident" guy.
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Quit playing the poor nice guy thing! Grow up and man up because the poor nice guy is really the manipulated because that's all the poor nice guy has ever practiced. Please educate yourself self and learn a new way. Maybe take a class from a confident godly man!
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It's so true that nice guys get treated like crap. Too many women say that they are attracted to "confidence". Confidence means in this case means nothing more than a guy who is a self-centered jerk.

The nice guy tries to do something nice, and he is accused of having the same base intentions of the "confident" guy.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6543219


Too be honest, it is w/e makes the Gina tingle,throb and drip. If a camp fire is starting between her legs, then she will respond. It seems like the jerk/self confident type behavior makes that happen.

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