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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33796650 United States 02/06/2013 04:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yep, a guy I used to work with had to pay for a little boy that wasn't his because the law in my state says that if you raise the kid for so many years it's considered your responsibility to pay child support if you separate from the mom. I'm a girl and I think it's total bull****! |
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PENG User ID: 1159762 United States 02/06/2013 04:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Article Quoting: Zombietard MONTREAL - A father has been ordered to pay child support to his ex-wife despite results of DNA testing that found three of the four children he helped raise are not biologically his, a Quebec Superior Court ruled. ... His daughters are aged 12, 14, and 16, and his son is nine. DNA testing revealed the son is his only biological child. To make matters worse, his ex-wife told him his three daughters were all fathered by different men, he said. [link to www.winnipegsun.com] dafuck???? In the states don't be fooled.... It happened here also. A good friend of mine had this happen to him. I was shocked. Apparently, he received a sign on delivery letter that had DNA results in it, saying he was not the father. He had gone thru a pretty long custody battle before he knew any of this. It was after his divorce that some years later, this letter came along. Can you imagine?! I remember saying to him omg, sue her for all the back child support and custody hearings. The court said, not only "no", but he continued to pay for another year until the payments transferred to the biological father. He said the courts response was that all decisions were made in "the best interests of the child". So, until another daddy comes along, you're screwed. I should note that this is in Ohio. Not sure what the laws are in each state. Last Edited by PENG on 02/06/2013 04:55 PM "May the road rise up to meet you.... May the wind be always at your back..." |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 19640341 United States 02/06/2013 04:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is why you NEVER get attached to women with kids. Period. They are fucking parasites. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1490522 Women with kids are not parasites. Women and their kids are the future generation. Whether you like that idea or not it's the truth. Women only get away with it because men are not men anymore. Are men not men anymore because of the women's movement that has contributed to the subversion of the family home and positioning men in female roles, as well as giving men the mindset that if women are now equal then they are to be treated as competition? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1053533 United States 02/06/2013 05:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My next door neighbor, Jeff, was paying for years for his daughter from his first marraige. When she turned 18, his ex told him that the daughter was not his. He had a paternity test done, and found out she was not biologically his. He was devastated, as was his daughter. This did not change the way Jeff felt about his daughter, as he loved her, and had a close relationship with her. She was still his daughter, no matter what. Quoting: tiger1 As for the ex, what she did was inexcusable. She hurt the child, in the process of getting back at her ex. Except now he can legally fuck her ;) I get that you're joking, or at least hope you aren't saying that you'd do that with your own daughter, if it turned out she wasn't your bio-kid. This does make you look a bit bad. Please clarify what you meant for those in the home audience? |
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BRIEF User ID: 381742 United States 02/06/2013 05:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My next door neighbor, Jeff, was paying for years for his daughter from his first marraige. When she turned 18, his ex told him that the daughter was not his. He had a paternity test done, and found out she was not biologically his. He was devastated, as was his daughter. This did not change the way Jeff felt about his daughter, as he loved her, and had a close relationship with her. She was still his daughter, no matter what. Quoting: tiger1 As for the ex, what she did was inexcusable. She hurt the child, in the process of getting back at her ex. Except now he can legally fuck her ;) I get that you're joking, or at least hope you aren't saying that you'd do that with your own daughter, if it turned out she wasn't your bio-kid. This does make you look a bit bad. Please clarify what you meant for those in the home audience? I have all boys, and they are my children, genetically and otherwise... If it's 18 and not your kid (or relative) to can legally tap dat...although cousins can be nailed too, because Einstein married his cousin and they had kids... I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
INK3 User ID: 33505212 United States 02/06/2013 05:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | . Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850150 If he was married to the woman during the times she gave birth, the minor children are considered to be legally his responsibily. In the USA too. . that just seems so incredibly unfair! So is it alright for the woman to deceive the man? Why can't there be a legal action against her, for fraud or something? "When tyrants tremble in their fear, and hear their death knell ringing, When friends rejoice both far and near, how can I keep from singing" page7 |
wing-ed User ID: 25814838 United States 02/06/2013 05:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you agree with the Quebec court's ruling? 6% Yes. 663 votes 89% No. 9180 votes 5% Not sure. 474 votes Survey at link ! Holy, holy,holy, Lord God Almighty, which was, and is, and is to come.Praise the one who gives you peace beyond all understanding Yes that scripture still sounds good ! |
geminilion User ID: 12895036 United States 02/06/2013 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Regardless what the court rules, the man should continue his relationship with HIS children and take the fucking whore wife to court and sue for custody, then make that bitch pay him child support! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30075865 ..."The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny ... it is the light that guides your way." Heraclitus |
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PENG User ID: 1159762 United States 02/06/2013 05:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | . Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850150 If he was married to the woman during the times she gave birth, the minor children are considered to be legally his responsibily. In the USA too. . that just seems so incredibly unfair! So is it alright for the woman to deceive the man? Why can't there be a legal action against her, for fraud or something? You would think so. A civil restitution? What AC says is true. It's what s in the best interest of the child. I think the bio dad shouLd Then PAY the legal dad all money back! "May the road rise up to meet you.... May the wind be always at your back..." |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 33827232 United States 02/06/2013 05:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is why you NEVER get attached to women with kids. Period. They are fucking parasites. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1490522 Women with kids are not parasites. Women and their kids are the future generation. Whether you like that idea or not it's the truth. Women only get away with it because men are not men anymore. Women get away with it BECAUSE the courts have turned men into wage slaves. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 27515407 United States 02/06/2013 05:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | . Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18850150 If he was married to the woman during the times she gave birth, the minor children are considered to be legally his responsibily. In the USA too. . Are you serious? That is not fair- what if the woman whores around, he still has to legally pay for the critch nuggets? I don't believe it... it's absolute;y true, any child your wife has while you are married to her are legally your children...can't believe this is news to anyone. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29719801 Canada 02/06/2013 05:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Btw, for those looking for small info on that case... I've heard at the radio today (in Montreal) an interview with the guys. He was devastated, he have to pay 900$can per month in child care and he currently live with his parents... you can just imagine |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 5216330 United States 02/06/2013 06:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think there should be a DNA test required at birth of every child.Thousands of men that are married are raising kids they believe to be theirs when they really arent.Married or not the test should be required then there is no doubt as to paternity.Might cut back on some of the married women and men screwing around too. I know two men that are paying child support even though the children arent theirs. If you are married its usually automatically awarded regardless and if the father wasnt married at the time but just accepted responsibility it was his child without asking for DNA test they usually have to pay. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23956419 United Kingdom 02/06/2013 06:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is why you NEVER get attached to women with kids. Period. They are fucking parasites. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1490522 Women with kids are not parasites. Women and their kids are the future generation. Whether you like that idea or not it's the truth. Women only get away with it because men are not men anymore. its because all the laws are stacked in favour of women that men are not able to be men anymore |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 21201441 United States 02/06/2013 06:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I met the father of my children, he already was a single dad to his 7 year old daughter (who is now in her 20's). After we married, she went to see her druggie birth mom and got in more and more trouble and traumatized in some really bad ways - none of which we were aware of at the time because it was out of state. She ended up with a lot of bills that came her father's way for her treatment and legal issues. The girl once came home and said that she didn't have to listen to her father because her mom said he wasn't even her dad. Well, when her father got the bill for many thousands of dollars from the state for all her troubles, it was suggested that they find out if she really was his or not. The DNA test came back and it showed that the woman had cheated on him and he indeed was not the biological father, after all, even though it didn't change much about them being "father and daughter" in general. Well, in a landmark decision, the court actually found in favor of my (now ex) husband and said he didn't owe the fees since he was not the biological father, even though he was on the birth cert and had raised her for a good part of her life. Well, suddenly, the legal system in California was in an uproar, and all these other men fighting the same issues who were unable to win their cases were contacting his lawyer to get the details of the case and try to overturn the judgments against them for children that were not really their biological children. And of course, rather than set a legal precedent and let all these men off the hook, the state had to get their money any way they could, so they reversed the decision and have been taking every penny they can get their hands on from him, and all the others, too. It's just how they roll. Was pretty interesting for a minute there, though, when the courts seemed to finally come to their senses, didn't last. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21201441 United States 02/06/2013 06:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I met the father of my children, he already was a single dad to his 7 year old daughter (who is now in her 20's). After we married, she went to see her druggie birth mom and got in more and more trouble and traumatized in some really bad ways - none of which we were aware of at the time because it was out of state. She ended up with a lot of bills that came her father's way for her treatment and legal issues. The girl once came home and said that she didn't have to listen to her father because her mom said he wasn't even her dad. Well, when her father got the bill for many thousands of dollars from the state for all her troubles, it was suggested that they find out if she really was his or not. The DNA test came back and it showed that the woman had cheated on him and he indeed was not the biological father, after all, even though it didn't change much about them being "father and daughter" in general. Well, in a landmark decision, the court actually found in favor of my (now ex) husband and said he didn't owe the fees since he was not the biological father, even though he was on the birth cert and had raised her for a good part of her life. Well, suddenly, the legal system in California was in an uproar, and all these other men fighting the same issues who were unable to win their cases were contacting his lawyer to get the details of the case and try to overturn the judgments against them for children that were not really their biological children. And of course, rather than set a legal precedent and let all these men off the hook, the state had to get their money any way they could, so they reversed the decision and have been taking every penny they can get their hands on from him, and all the others, too. It's just how they roll. Was pretty interesting for a minute there, though, when the courts seemed to finally come to their senses, didn't last. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21201441 And no, she wasn't sent off to be victimized by her "druggie mom" - we had been told that she had gotten clean, a job, a home, and wanted to see her daughter, plus the daughter had been crazy to go get some attention from her mom. It went bad after that and we had a lot of trouble trying to get them to give her back. It was a very sad situation. |