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| 13th-Century Offer Upgrade  User ID: 32527598  Canada02/06/2013 03:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 33523792 United States02/06/2013 03:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | GLP user posted this on another Thread, and it is such a punch in the guts I want to repeat her story - about a woman friend of hers who has seen her marriage fall apart because of perversion addiction, thanks to porn. Quoting: 13th-Century She writes: "I absolutely 100% believe that porn corrupts the soul. I happen to know someone who was in a loving and committed relationship but he could not help his addiction to porn. His wife didn't like porn and while she says she did everything he asked of her in bed, she refused a threesome. So instead he started meeting random people and even couples for casual sex. She had suspicions but trusted him blindly, but her instinct prevailed and she looked at his phone, emails, and a craigslist account he had and found he'd been fucking around on her for months and months, all while lying to her face and telling her how beautiful she was to him and how he loved her so much and she was his whole world. As you can imagine she is pretty fucked up after this, because she centered her life around him and now has nothing. Her future, her plans, everything changed in an instant and her world is upside down. She is my best friend and my heart breaks for her, I can only imagine the kind of shock, grief, denial and ultimately, emotional pain she is going through. I heard the douchebag denied it even though she has text messages, emails and posts written by him about meeting people for sex. That idiot threw it all away for casual sex. A beautiful family and the guy seemed like the sweetest, nicest, most committed husband ever, I guess it was all an act, because he turned out to be a sexual deviant. "I fully believe that all the porn he is addicted to desensitized him to the beauty of natural sex, so he kept wanting more and more perverse acts. Where does it stop? How many men out there are leading secret lives??" Thanks for sharing, Princess. Think what it does to the young women also that do the porn |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28215031 United States02/06/2013 04:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is amazing how much of a woman's anatomy can be seen on the internet these days. If the internet was available when I was in high school, I don't think I could resist. How many young guys could? Today, I think most men have come to the conclusion that they have seen it all and one more is just going to be about the same as the last one. There are other more important things in life to seek after. I always say if porn becomes an issue in your day-to-day interactions, then it's time to make a change. That's not always easy to do for some because the temptation to view that stuff can be very strong. Sometimes outside help is needed, but hopefully a guy will stop before that's needed. What it comes down to is a guy has to ask himself, "What's important in life? Spending time looking at porn, or spending time working on a relationship, or pursuing other things. |
| 13th-Century (OP) User ID: 32527598 Canada02/06/2013 04:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is amazing how much of a woman's anatomy can be seen on the internet these days. If the internet was available when I was in high school, I don't think I could resist. How many young guys could? Today, I think most men have come to the conclusion that they have seen it all and one more is just going to be about the same as the last one. There are other more important things in life to seek after. I always say if porn becomes an issue in your day-to-day interactions, then it's time to make a change. That's not always easy to do for some because the temptation to view that stuff can be very strong. Sometimes outside help is needed, but hopefully a guy will stop before that's needed. What it comes down to is a guy has to ask himself, "What's important in life? Spending time looking at porn, or spending time working on a relationship, or pursuing other things. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28215031 One thing you don't consider. Good comment, but, think about it: "Working on a relationship," when your absolute, devoted, dedicated "in love" sexual monogamous incentive has been pulled out from under your psyche forever... That has been made impossible for many many young men now. Just another piece, and she better behave.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14779720 United States02/06/2013 04:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| BRIEF User ID: 381742 United States02/06/2013 04:38 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Porn is not the problem, people with mental issues is the problem...spoons don't make people fat, watching people fuck doesn't make you cheat. I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 4837034 United States02/06/2013 04:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| ElusivePisces User ID: 11156436 United States02/06/2013 04:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| BRIEF User ID: 381742 United States02/06/2013 04:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19512059 United States02/06/2013 04:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It is amazing how much of a woman's anatomy can be seen on the internet these days. If the internet was available when I was in high school, I don't think I could resist. How many young guys could? Today, I think most men have come to the conclusion that they have seen it all and one more is just going to be about the same as the last one. There are other more important things in life to seek after. I always say if porn becomes an issue in your day-to-day interactions, then it's time to make a change. That's not always easy to do for some because the temptation to view that stuff can be very strong. Sometimes outside help is needed, but hopefully a guy will stop before that's needed. What it comes down to is a guy has to ask himself, "What's important in life? Spending time looking at porn, or spending time working on a relationship, or pursuing other things. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28215031 If we lived in a nude tolerant type society, nudists walking around whereever and common, porn would not sell so much because our psychology would not be as shocked by nude bodies. Also, seeing them in real life, and in a "no big deal" sort of way during our every day lives would have a HUGE impact on our psychology. That's one real solution, but you have to get past the ignorant "moral" idiots to get there, unfortunately. Another real solution, in addition to the nudity thing, is everybody being very, very healthy, not socially isolated, and living very healthy cultures, overall. Then we are very satisfied with our partners and have amazing daily interaction of an intimate, but not always sexual, nature that satisfies our heart and mind completely... porn just would not be as interesting under that condition; real life would be far more interesting. "Who cares what these dummies on the video screen are doing, I got this beautiful person to enjoy time with tonight!" If you isolate people from seeing human nature, nudity, then when they do see it on media it affects them profoundly... that can then easily turn into all kinds of produced porn and suck people in deeper and deeper as they get a sexual high from watchin the stuff, and often rubbing themselves in the process. China simply blocks all porn... you cannot browse to it on the internet; quite fascinating. Now, as for the girl being so upset, this is also due to general ignorance. She should simply discuss everything rather than think that "her world has ended" and other such nonsense. She's just playing out her role in the rediculous psychological production she's been trained with. Ahhh, brainwashing, it's what's for dinner! |
| ElusivePisces User ID: 11156436 United States02/06/2013 04:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Porn is not the problem, people with mental issues is the problem...spoons don't make people fat, watching people fuck doesn't make you cheat. Quoting: BRIEF But it just might, for some men, impair their performance, just a little bit. And of course we understand that you (BRIEF), are the exception to the rule. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 16765625  United Kingdom02/06/2013 05:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | GLP user posted this on another Thread, and it is such a punch in the guts I want to repeat her story - about a woman friend of hers who has seen her marriage fall apart because of perversion addiction, thanks to porn. Quoting: 13th-Century She writes: "I absolutely 100% believe that porn corrupts the soul. I happen to know someone who was in a loving and committed relationship but he could not help his addiction to porn. His wife didn't like porn and while she says she did everything he asked of her in bed, she refused a threesome. So instead he started meeting random people and even couples for casual sex. She had suspicions but trusted him blindly, but her instinct prevailed and she looked at his phone, emails, and a craigslist account he had and found he'd been fucking around on her for months and months, all while lying to her face and telling her how beautiful she was to him and how he loved her so much and she was his whole world. As you can imagine she is pretty fucked up after this, because she centered her life around him and now has nothing. Her future, her plans, everything changed in an instant and her world is upside down. She is my best friend and my heart breaks for her, I can only imagine the kind of shock, grief, denial and ultimately, emotional pain she is going through. I heard the douchebag denied it even though she has text messages, emails and posts written by him about meeting people for sex. That idiot threw it all away for casual sex. A beautiful family and the guy seemed like the sweetest, nicest, most committed husband ever, I guess it was all an act, because he turned out to be a sexual deviant. "I fully believe that all the porn he is addicted to desensitized him to the beauty of natural sex, so he kept wanting more and more perverse acts. Where does it stop? How many men out there are leading secret lives??" Thanks for sharing, Princess. as someone addicted to porn, I agree with all your sentiments. I wish there was a way to turn porn off because I do not have the mental will to pull myself away from it. I try to quit every month and usually last a week at best. I will try again tomorrow after reading your message and hope for the best. |
| ElusivePisces User ID: 11156436 United States02/06/2013 05:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| BRIEF User ID: 381742 United States02/06/2013 05:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Porn is not the problem, people with mental issues is the problem...spoons don't make people fat, watching people fuck doesn't make you cheat. Quoting: BRIEF But it just might, for some men, impair their performance, just a little bit. And of course we understand that you (BRIEF), are the exception to the rule. I've always been the exception to most rules... I don't blame guns for killing people, I don't blame beer for someone being an alcoholic, I don't blame food for people being fat, and I don't blame porn for some idiot cheating on his wife...it's just dumb to do so. I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 33464745 United States02/06/2013 05:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 33817983 United Kingdom02/06/2013 05:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What's the difference between a couple in a new relationship having sex on a daily basis or a married couple having sex twice a week, or a single person copping off to images twice a week? Are people in normal relationships considered sex addicts? So why the obsession with porn addiction. We should be very grateful for all the good looking sluts being prepared to be filmed in the most humiliating circumstances. |
| NDH User ID: 17103446  Australia02/06/2013 05:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think because porn is so easily accessed it has become a problem . Children etc can access i threw the internet no problem in a matter of seconds even if its not deliberate . It's gone way past the days where younger brothers used to steal there older brothers Playboy mag . Now alot of teenage girls have no self respect in them selves because shows like jersey shore etc show that its ok to have sex with different men every week . Don't get me wrong i'm not being a over the top Preacher i'm just pointing out some facts that came to mind :) |
Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 22334 United States02/06/2013 05:33 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Social Media sites such as facebook, getglue, what the fuck ever is the greatest force in the degeneration of relationships. People are constantly contacting, commenting statuses, photos, private messages... trading tales, complimenting each other... and trying to come up with the most clever thing on the newsfeed... From wake up to bed time... people are having unprecedented interactions with a multitude of people... 50 years ago access to such was simply non existent. this innovation in communication leads to flirting and the disdain of your spouse or boy/girlfriend. That leads to the destruction of relationships. People always seem way more interesting online than they do in person... that is a dangerous illusion to the simple minded... _______________________  |
| NDH User ID: 17103446 Australia02/06/2013 05:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Social Media sites such as facebook, getglue, what the fuck ever is the greatest force in the degeneration of relationships. Quoting: Dr. Acula People are constantly contacting, commenting statuses, photos, private messages... trading tales, complimenting each other... and trying to come up with the most clever thing on the newsfeed... From wake up to bed time... people are having unprecedented interactions with a multitude of people... 50 years ago access to such was simply non existent. this innovation in communication leads to flirting and the disdain of your spouse or boy/girlfriend. That leads to the destruction of relationships. People always seem way more interesting online than they do in person... that is a dangerous illusion to the simple minded... Great Post Dr.Acula ! True |
| WTF User ID: 22471303  France02/06/2013 05:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14779720 United States02/06/2013 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Social Media sites such as facebook, getglue, what the fuck ever is the greatest force in the degeneration of relationships. Quoting: Dr. Acula People are constantly contacting, commenting statuses, photos, private messages... trading tales, complimenting each other... and trying to come up with the most clever thing on the newsfeed... From wake up to bed time... people are having unprecedented interactions with a multitude of people... 50 years ago access to such was simply non existent. this innovation in communication leads to flirting and the disdain of your spouse or boy/girlfriend. That leads to the destruction of relationships. People always seem way more interesting online than they do in person... that is a dangerous illusion to the simple minded... What you have just described is GLP! lol I don't do FB but that sounds exactly like us here at GLP... well... some of us. I'm an A.C. so I can be a man sometimes, a woman sometimes, 65, 20... you get the point.. but really you can do that with FB too... Uh-oh has GLP destroyed anyone's relationship??? |
| BRIEF User ID: 381742 United States02/06/2013 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So how did relationships become so impaired in our modern society then? Women started acting like men... The world really is ending, I know it when find myself agreeing with Brief! LOL I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 33108552 United States02/06/2013 05:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 33733231 United States02/06/2013 05:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | GLP user posted this on another Thread, and it is such a punch in the guts I want to repeat her story - about a woman friend of hers who has seen her marriage fall apart because of perversion addiction, thanks to porn. Quoting: 13th-Century She writes: "I absolutely 100% believe that porn corrupts the soul. I happen to know someone who was in a loving and committed relationship but he could not help his addiction to porn. His wife didn't like porn and while she says she did everything he asked of her in bed, she refused a threesome. So instead he started meeting random people and even couples for casual sex. She had suspicions but trusted him blindly, but her instinct prevailed and she looked at his phone, emails, and a craigslist account he had and found he'd been fucking around on her for months and months, all while lying to her face and telling her how beautiful she was to him and how he loved her so much and she was his whole world. As you can imagine she is pretty fucked up after this, because she centered her life around him and now has nothing. Her future, her plans, everything changed in an instant and her world is upside down. She is my best friend and my heart breaks for her, I can only imagine the kind of shock, grief, denial and ultimately, emotional pain she is going through. I heard the douchebag denied it even though she has text messages, emails and posts written by him about meeting people for sex. That idiot threw it all away for casual sex. A beautiful family and the guy seemed like the sweetest, nicest, most committed husband ever, I guess it was all an act, because he turned out to be a sexual deviant. "I fully believe that all the porn he is addicted to desensitized him to the beauty of natural sex, so he kept wanting more and more perverse acts. Where does it stop? How many men out there are leading secret lives??" Thanks for sharing, Princess. as someone addicted to porn, I agree with all your sentiments. I wish there was a way to turn porn off because I do not have the mental will to pull myself away from it. I try to quit every month and usually last a week at best. I will try again tomorrow after reading your message and hope for the best. Addictions are the problem. Ask anyone who has an alcholic or a drug addict or a gambler for a spouse. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14779720 United States02/06/2013 05:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | GLP user posted this on another Thread, and it is such a punch in the guts I want to repeat her story - about a woman friend of hers who has seen her marriage fall apart because of perversion addiction, thanks to porn. Quoting: 13th-Century She writes: "I absolutely 100% believe that porn corrupts the soul. I happen to know someone who was in a loving and committed relationship but he could not help his addiction to porn. His wife didn't like porn and while she says she did everything he asked of her in bed, she refused a threesome. So instead he started meeting random people and even couples for casual sex. She had suspicions but trusted him blindly, but her instinct prevailed and she looked at his phone, emails, and a craigslist account he had and found he'd been fucking around on her for months and months, all while lying to her face and telling her how beautiful she was to him and how he loved her so much and she was his whole world. As you can imagine she is pretty fucked up after this, because she centered her life around him and now has nothing. Her future, her plans, everything changed in an instant and her world is upside down. She is my best friend and my heart breaks for her, I can only imagine the kind of shock, grief, denial and ultimately, emotional pain she is going through. I heard the douchebag denied it even though she has text messages, emails and posts written by him about meeting people for sex. That idiot threw it all away for casual sex. A beautiful family and the guy seemed like the sweetest, nicest, most committed husband ever, I guess it was all an act, because he turned out to be a sexual deviant. "I fully believe that all the porn he is addicted to desensitized him to the beauty of natural sex, so he kept wanting more and more perverse acts. Where does it stop? How many men out there are leading secret lives??" Thanks for sharing, Princess. as someone addicted to porn, I agree with all your sentiments. I wish there was a way to turn porn off because I do not have the mental will to pull myself away from it. I try to quit every month and usually last a week at best. I will try again tomorrow after reading your message and hope for the best. Addictions are the problem. Ask anyone who has an alcholic or a drug addict or a gambler for a spouse.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27963234 United States02/06/2013 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 22334 United States02/06/2013 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Social Media sites such as facebook, getglue, what the fuck ever is the greatest force in the degeneration of relationships. Quoting: Dr. Acula People are constantly contacting, commenting statuses, photos, private messages... trading tales, complimenting each other... and trying to come up with the most clever thing on the newsfeed... From wake up to bed time... people are having unprecedented interactions with a multitude of people... 50 years ago access to such was simply non existent. this innovation in communication leads to flirting and the disdain of your spouse or boy/girlfriend. That leads to the destruction of relationships. People always seem way more interesting online than they do in person... that is a dangerous illusion to the simple minded... What you have just described is GLP! lol I don't do FB but that sounds exactly like us here at GLP... well... some of us. I'm an A.C. so I can be a man sometimes, a woman sometimes, 65, 20... you get the point.. but really you can do that with FB too... Uh-oh has GLP destroyed anyone's relationship??? you do have a valid point... but infidelity starts with attraction... and GLP's infidelity is mostly based on words... that makes it so much harder...for two people to cross that line. 95% of GLPers who have avatars do not use their own profile pic... This reducing the odds that social media sites score high in. Plus the tardism present here is a huge help in keeping the fraternization down. _______________________ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7061022 United States02/06/2013 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 22334 United States02/06/2013 05:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Social Media sites such as facebook, getglue, what the fuck ever is the greatest force in the degeneration of relationships. Quoting: Dr. Acula People are constantly contacting, commenting statuses, photos, private messages... trading tales, complimenting each other... and trying to come up with the most clever thing on the newsfeed... From wake up to bed time... people are having unprecedented interactions with a multitude of people... 50 years ago access to such was simply non existent. this innovation in communication leads to flirting and the disdain of your spouse or boy/girlfriend. That leads to the destruction of relationships. People always seem way more interesting online than they do in person... that is a dangerous illusion to the simple minded... Great Post Dr.Acula ! True  _______________________ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 14779720 United States02/06/2013 05:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | you do have a valid point... but infidelity starts with attraction... Quoting: Dr. Acula and GLP's infidelity is mostly based on words... that makes it so much harder...for two people to cross that line. 95% of GLPers who have avatars do not use their own profile pic... This reducing the odds that social media sites score high in. Plus the tardism present here is a huge help in keeping the fraternization down.  "Tardism".... took me a minute to understand... I just might borrow that one! |
