Was i infatuated with her?

Mental problems man

Feelings aren't everything.

That helps...

I have had abondenment issues she's aware if anyone can tell me wats wrong I'd appreciate it. I dont want to crush her

Well for starters... do you have a drug addiction? That was the deal breaker for me...

No...

So what do u mean about abandonment issues? She left you?

No man everyone I have ever loved as a child has either abused me or died like my mom She died and dad is homeless after that I had my bro he was the closest thing to me than he fried his brain on drugs and he's not the same. Its like I relate love with pain she knows all this

I'm considering this is a sub conscious comfort zone... not feeling love

I would seek professional help... if you just woke up and feel nothing for her for no reason there is something broken emotionally inside of you... if you want to ever have a healthy relationship that is.

[link to www.astrozone.com.au]

Try this op and let us no how you go, you may be suprised, or right.

The best way to lose someone is to fight with them. It frightens them away. People stay in a relationship because tehy want to not because some control freak needs them to. That is selfish....not love. If you are young....dating is a process to see who fits you...for longterm partnership.

Perhaps in your eyes....if she "fails" your test...your heart/mind no longer feels comfortable and shuts down your emotions. If you are young...under 21....maturity may fix that. You will see that a fight does not mean the of a relationship and your response will be different then.

People have no real need to fight if they both want the same thing, the other to be happy....understanding and compromise is what makes relationships work...not childish tantrums and threatening behaviour.

It may help you to go to the following site...its for marriages BUT is just as useful for any couples.

[link to www.marriagebuilders.com]

Also know that if you really love someone....you REALLy want them to be happy...even if that means they move on with someone else. No hating after the relationship...they gave as much as they could and you should be grateful that they spent any time with you at all. There is always someone else....so dont feel too bad. Also...you gotta be infatuated with someone at least in the beginning or whats the point of even starting a relationship you have vague platonic feelings for?

She's suggested this and she wud stick by my side as she's said it. Thx for ur time who knows I mean is that just abnormal? Cus I was shocked wen u said I'm a druggy lol

Was it Sorcha Faal?

If so man, cheer up because she's really a guy named David.

Lol i asked cuz i just kinda got out of a relationship witha druggie with similar problems. I wish you luck though.

Thx we just spoke and I have been feeling fine maybe just needed space since she works